Nanzhi felt that he couldn't get the money and learned a lot from the past, so he turned around and left, making Zheng Juan even more angry, "You are amazing, you are noble."
Like a stubborn donkey, she doesn't know how to admit her mistake. As long as she admits her mistake, she will give it up. However, Shanjing is so stubborn, which makes Zheng Juan even more angry.
The more Shanjing behaves like this, the more Zheng Juan refuses to give. She feels that Shanjing is resisting her and deliberately going against her. She just refuses to give and must make Shanjing bow to her.
Moreover, Zheng Juan always felt that Shanjing was still angry about the marriage and insisted on making her apologize.
As children, you don't know how to understand the feelings of parents. Even if the parents do something wrong, it is for the benefit of the children. For the sake of this family, children have no understanding of the hearts of adults.
Nanzhi sat on the steps by the side of the road, holding her chin with her hands and thinking. She found that there was nothing he could do.
How could it be so difficult?
Nanzhi suddenly sighed, "It would be great if I suddenly became rich, so I wouldn't have to ask Shanjing's mother for money."
It's so difficult to ask for money from others. It's worse than a beggar. At least a beggar can get mercy from others. It's so pitiful for a beggar.
But if you ask your parents for money, you will still be humiliated.
Nanzhi suddenly thought of a good idea and said to the system: "Brother, brother, let me go begging."
Begging with mom and dad is begging, begging with strangers is begging, it’s all begging.
system:……
You come up with it as soon as you think about it.
System: "Do you think you can get the money?"
Nanzhi thought for a while and said, "If not, why don't I do a show? I can dance. I'll dance in the square."
System: "It sounds like a good idea."
Can you put up a bowl and perform a dance in a square where people come and go?
People don’t necessarily give money.
"Sister, what are you doing here?" Shanyang asked Nanzhi who was sitting on the steps.
Nanzhi said bitterly: "I asked my mother for living expenses, but she wouldn't give it to me."
Shan Yang said: "I have some money in my hand. You use mine first. If I don't have enough, you can ask your parents for it."
Shanyang sat next to Nanzhi, measured his head and looked at Nanzhi. After a while, he said to Nanzhi: "Sister, admit your mistake to mom."
Nanzhi asked doubtfully: "Do you also think I was wrong?"
Shan Yang: "You are not wrong, but it really doesn't matter whether you are wrong or not. Your parents don't give you money because they want you to bow your head and admit your mistake."
"Right or wrong is not important to them. They think that being able to control us is the most important thing. What they want is to control us and be obedient."
"Sister, if you persist in not apologizing, they will not think that they are wrong, they will only think that you are disobedient."
"You apologize, you apologize verbally. No matter how unconvinced you are in your heart, it doesn't matter if you perfunctory them. If you make them feel happy, you can get your living expenses."
Nanzhi asked doubtfully: "I'm the one apologizing. From now on, I won't even know what is right and what is wrong?"
I always apologize to myself. One day, I don’t even know what is right or wrong. Anyway, I just apologize when something happens.
Faced with his sister's doubts, Shanyang fell into a deep silence about what was right and what was wrong.
Perhaps his sense of right and wrong has been distorted and confused.
When compromising, they confuse their own sense of right and wrong. Perhaps this is the purpose of parents, to confuse their children's sense of right and wrong so that they don't know what is right and what is wrong. Even if they are wrong in the future, they will say that they If it is right, then it is right.
Even though I understand and understand in my heart, I am used to compromising and using apologies to calm things down. I always feel that it is unnecessary and it is not an escape.
However, the consequences of not escaping and arguing with reason will be nothing. It will only escalate the incident, and there is almost no way to do anything.
There is no solution at all.
Because blood cannot be cut.
Good and bad, they cannot be cut.
Nanzhi stood up and patted the dust on his buttocks, "I will listen to my brother and go back to apologize to my mother."
Shan Yang felt a little uncomfortable and said, "Sister, if you don't want to apologize, don't apologize."
Nanzhi smiled and said, "I ask you for money, and you also ask mom for money. You will feel uncomfortable. I don't want my brother to feel uncomfortable."
The corners of Shan Yang's mouth moved and formed a pale straight line, "I'm a boy, and they always treat me better."
When Nanzhi came home, Zheng Juan knelt down with a 'pop' sound. This sudden movement stunned Zheng Juan. She looked at Nanzhi blankly for a moment, "What are you doing?"
Shan Yang:......
Even if he admits his mistake, there is no need to be so exaggerated.
Nanzhi kowtowed, "Mom, I know I was wrong. I was wrong. You are right."
Zheng Juan subconsciously avoided the kowtow and said angrily: "I'm not dead yet, you are visiting my grave."
Nanzhi just said: "You are an elder, and it is normal for me to kowtow to you."
Well, kowtowing to ask for money, Nanzhi thought he could bankrupt Zheng Juan.
Isn't it just kowtow in exchange for money? I can do this.
Zheng Juan's face looked better now, but she still said: "I am hurting you, and I am not doing it for your own good."
Nanzhi: "Ah, yes, yes, you are right."
Anyway, you are right!
Everything you said is right!
Nanzhi still wanted to speak, but Shanyang immediately said: "Mom, I'm a little hungry. Is there anything to eat?"
Zheng Juan said: "Yes, I will make dinner."
After Zheng Juan left, Shanyang said to Nanzhi: "You can't admit your mistake and ask for money immediately. Mom will think that you admit your mistake because you are not sincere and just want money."
Anyway, in the minds of your parents, if you look sad when you do your homework, you will get angry even if you have a problem with your attitude and your apology is not sincere.
You should be happy.
They can be sad, grumpy, and full of complaints because of their work, but not as children.
What kind of suffering can children suffer? Is there any suffering from work?
Nanzhi said: "I listen to my brother." She didn't ask for money, she just wanted to ask if she could eat meat.
Nanzhi had no money, so he had very simple meals at school, including vegetarian and non-vegetarian options, and could eat steamed buns to feel full, but not steamed buns.
But the dinner was very simple, with some shredded pork stir-fried and the vegetables covering the meat.
Nanzhi:……
I want to eat meat, I want to eat meat!
It was probably because the people at the table looked ugly and looked as green as the dishes on the plate. Zheng Juan said directly: "The family has no money and cannot afford to eat such good food."
Shancheng was the first to say, "I don't believe it. You don't even have the money to buy some meat. Who are you insulting? You are deliberately insulting me."
"Zheng Juan, you are so pretentious."
Zheng Juan sneered, "Okay, if you want to eat meat, buy it with money. If you don't have money, what kind of meat do you want to eat? What are you dreaming about? I haven't woken up yet."
"Snapped……"
Shancheng slapped his chopsticks on the table, "I won't eat."
He stood up and walked outside.
(End of chapter)
