Nanzhi was puzzled: "What are social relationships?"
The system had to explain, but the children might not be able to understand: "It's just relationships, colleagues, bosses, subordinates, husband and wife, children..."
"For example, you are not a good child in the eyes of your parents."
"In Lao Jiang's family, you are a bad boy and your outspokenness is the family's impression of you. You cannot feel it yourself. They are also teaching you to speak less and not to speak, so you are the one who can speak. "
"In the eyes of your sister, you are a good sister. She may even envy you for being able to speak, but it also reinforces that you are a person who can speak. Feedback from the outside world determines who you are."
"A person has many identities, parents, husband, wife, children, brothers and sisters. These are all social relationships. Based on these identities, we evaluate what kind of person a person is. Different identities have different rules of evaluation."
Nanzhi:……
I don’t understand!
Nanzhi: "Are we not ourselves?!"
System: "Yes, the eyes cast on us by the outside world let us know ourselves."
Nanzhi: "But others are right, like Nai, they always say I am a bad boy, but I am not, they are just hungry!"
System: "So, this is the pain of being on the social network. Some people can use the social network to live a good life. Some people are deeply depressed. The evaluation of others and self-perception form a separation and struggle."
Here the family was talking, and over there, Lao Qian anxiously grabbed the little girl's hand, pulled her into the room, and closed the door.
"Le'an, do you have anything with that boy?" Old Qian asked anxiously.
Jiang Le'an shook his head firmly, "Mom, no, I have nothing to do with him. What relationship will I have with him?"
"Mom, when I marry, at least I want to marry someone who is literate, not someone like that." Tong Qiao looked too rough and unattractive.
It was just now that Jiang Le'an knew that the boy actually had such thoughts for her, but the problem was that she had just turned ten now.
Jiang Le'an saw that he was Xiao Jingyang's servant and was always attentive to work, so he asked her to assign things to do and help with things.
I thought he was just a diligent boy, but now something has become clear.
This made Jiang Le'an feel particularly uncomfortable and disgusted, with a faint feeling of nausea and anger.
"It's good to go." Old Qian breathed a long sigh of relief, "I don't want you to be with a slave. If your brother wants to take the imperial examination, it will affect your brother, and slaves cannot take the exam. Those who pass the exam will only be slaves in this life, and the next generation will also be slaves."
Jiang Le'an nodded, "Don't worry, I know." Moreover, Tong Qiao is not good-looking.
Especially compared with Xiao Jingyang, it is simply impossible to watch, too rough to watch.
Lao Qian said to Jiang Le'an: "When I was still pregnant with you, I dreamed of a carp. The carp was so golden that it was so thorny that I couldn't even open my eyes. The golden carp jumped into the sea and entered my stomach."
"You are just like a carp, you are a lucky child."
That dream was very clear, and after so many years, Lao Qian has always remembered it in his heart.
There are always some strange phenomena when a capable person is born, so Lao Qian always felt that his daughter was different.
He loved her and hoped that this carp would not be wronged in Lao Jiang's family and live a good life. The thought of having a god in his belly made Lao Qian particularly proud.
"Mom, what kind of carp am I?" Jiang Le'an shook her head shyly, but she always had some knowledge in her mind. She probably knew it from birth.
Other than that, Jiang Le'an didn't feel there was anything special about him. If he was special, then he had slightly better luck.
For example, Tong Qiao was bitten by a snake when he first entered the mountains, but Jiang Le'an has been looking for various medicinal materials in the mountains and has never been bitten by a snake.
"I'm telling you this to say that you are special, don't hand yourself over casually." Lao Qian couldn't help but instruct.
The child she had worked so hard to raise was ruined by marrying a mud-legged man, which made Lao Qian vomit.
Lao Qian has learned the concept of pampering his daughter without any teacher, and is afraid that some man will cheat his daughter away for a little benefit.
The big house in town!
Xiao Jingyang and Uncle Shen looked at Tong Qiao who woke up. Tong Qiao's face was pale and his lips were a little black. When he saw Xiao Jingyang, he struggled to get up and salute.
"Okay, lie down." Xiao Jingyang said, Tong Qiao thanked him gratefully, and lay down. After just a slight movement, he felt dizzy, with stars in his eyes, and no strength at all.
"You were bitten by a snake this time, so you don't have to follow me." Xiao Jingyang is really a young man, and he doesn't really regard human life as nothing, so he said very tolerantly.
Although I feel a little uncomfortable!
"Your Majesty, I'm fine, let me take care of you." I finally got to the Crown Prince's side, but I had to leave again because of this matter.
The master thought he was very kind, but for Tong Qiao, the way up was cut off!
After a while, the prince no longer remembered him at all.
Tong Qiao was extremely emotional, feeling dizzy and anxious, "It's my servant who was careless, my servant who didn't pay attention."
Xiao Jingyang looked at the anxious Tong Qiao with strange eyes, and couldn't help but ask: "Why do you have to follow me?"
Tongqiao:......
Do you want me to say that I want to pursue glory, wealth and power?
Even if he is a boy, an ordinary boy and the boy next to the prince are different, completely different.
Tong Qiao immediately said: "Because the servant belongs to the Crown Prince, you should be loyal to the Crown Prince, and you should take good care of the Crown Prince."
Does Xiao Jingyang believe it? Xiao Jingyang doesn't believe it at all. He thinks that this Tong Qiao has some thoughts about Jiang Le'an and follows him to see Jiang Le'an.
But Xiao Jingyang didn't understand why he was unhappy. He just regarded Jin An as a cook, but he felt uncomfortable in his heart.
"Your Majesty?" Tong Qiao was very worried when his master looked at him. His eyes were not friendly. Could it be that there was something about him that dissatisfied his master?
Or did the master see something?
"I'm not someone who doesn't care about human life. You've been bitten by a snake and you don't have the energy to take care of me. No need. Take good care of me. When you're healthy, go back to the palace." Xiao Jingyang said.
Go back to the palace and send him back?
He went back in despair, not knowing what the other servants in the house would think of him or how they would look down on him.
Because it didn't work and the master didn't like it, he sent it back.
As soon as he returned to the palace, it was like water dripping into the sea. He was completely submerged among the servants and would never be remembered by his master again.
"Your Majesty..." Tong Qiao's face became even paler, even completely pale, and he tried hard to say: "Sir, please let me follow you. I promise that I will get better soon."