Some people's spiritual space is so small that when others give them something, they feel that others are looking down on them and that they have been given charity. The self-blame for their own incompetence turns into hatred for the giver.
As a businessman, Ye Yanshan also invests in many people, but he must choose those who are worthy of investment and prosper together.
And everyone’s rise is indispensable without the help of noble people. When Ye Yanshan was poor, he also accepted help and funding from others, and was grateful. When he became rich, he not only had to repay the noble people, but also maintained a good relationship with the noble people.
But some people actually regard helping and giving as malice.
Maybe you always feel that you are being given to others and you can't bear it. Your sensitive and fragile heart thinks a lot, and you feel that you are incompetent so you are given charity.
Ye Yanshan looked at Wan Er'er who was wearing overalls. He was clean, neat and polished. At first glance, he looked like a child from a wealthy family, which was very different from before.
Ye Yanshan smiled gently, stretched out his hand and touched Wan Er'er's head, "Your mother said something happened, so she asked me to come back first. Your mother will be back later."
Wan Er'er resisted Ye Yanshan's touch, but seemed to have thought of something. He let Ye Yanshan touch him and felt the warmth of the broad palm on his head. Wan Er'er looked a little uncomfortable and watched Uncle Ye carrying Ye Xueli upstairs.
Is this what a father feels like?
It's different from my mother.
"Shirley, just because I'm good to them doesn't necessarily mean I'm really good." Ye Yanshan sighed, "It's just a means."
Nanzhi scratched his head and didn't quite understand, "I want to call Jack. Dad, please get out."
Ye Yanshan: "..." Is there anything I can't listen to? Why should I buy that guy a phone watch, and why should I tell my daughter their contact information.
As soon as Ye Yanshan left, Nanzhi asked the system: "Brother, what do you mean by dad? Dad is good to them because he wants to marry Aunt Wan."
System: "This is nature. Why is it so good for them to ask for nothing? Human saints from ancient times to the present have been pursuing such a state. Riches and honors cannot be lascivious, poverty and lowliness cannot be moved, and power cannot be surrendered."
"Which one of these three do you think is the most difficult and least easy to achieve?"
Nanzhi: “I don’t understand!”
System: "*&&@#￥... When you are rich, you can control yourself and not squander. When you are poor, don't change your will. When you are powerful, you can ignore your mistakes. When you encounter injustice, you will not give in. When you are poor, you are hungry and cold, or you are humiliated. , torture, beating with boards, pulling out nails, and burning meat with a hot iron. When you are rich, you should be frugal and not extravagant."
Nanzhi thought: "Mighty, mighty."
The system laughed, and the gentle and elegant voice was like a gurgling stream, which made people feel relaxed and happy: "No, it's wealth."
Nanzhi wonders, why?
The system patiently explained: "When people are poor, they fight against poverty, encounter injustice, and even physical torture and destruction. However, people have ideals and brilliance, which allows them to endure torture just for the ideals in their hearts. , and wealth is beautiful, its beauty touches every pore and cell of yours, making you feel happy and happy, and you can’t even find someone to resist.”
"People can't resist beauty and happiness. Beauty changes people's nature unconsciously. When they want to lose it, it is painful."
"Ye Yanshan is good at everything, but unfortunately he miscalculated one thing. The Ye family is a wealthy family, but the Huo family is also a wealthy family, even better than the Ye family. It has more love, family, blood and emotions. It jumps from one wealthy family to another. A rich nest will not make people hesitate to give up the one in front of them."
"Wow, wow..." Nanzhi was stunned for a moment, with a confused look on his face, "Brother, you are so awesome, you know so much."
The system assigned homework, "What did I mean by saying so much just now?"
Nanzhi took a breath, immediately wrinkled his face, started to scratch his hair, and thought for a while: "Dad is so good to them that they are reluctant to leave?"
The system smiled slightly, "Yes."
Nanzhi snorted, "Dad is so stupid, he didn't even ask who their father is."
The servant came up to inform Nanzhi that it was time for dinner. Nanzhi went downstairs and saw Wan Menglin coming back. She politely called Aunt Wan.
Wan Menglin looked at her, smiled gently, and took out a gift bag, "Shirley, this is my gift to you."
Nanzhi was a little surprised. It was a gift. The gift from Aunt Wan was so surprising!
Seeing the surprise on the little girl's face, Wan Menglin seemed to let out a long sigh of relief, feeling happy to win the game.
"Thank you, Aunt Wan." Nanzhi took the gift with a calm expression on his face, and opened it and looked at it.
Ye Yanshan took a glance and saw that it was a butterfly hairpin. It was very delicate and lifelike. Even the butterfly tentacles were very flexible. It was colorful and shiny, with fine diamonds on it.
"So beautiful, thank you, I like it very much." Nanzhi said to Wan Menglin with a serious expression.
When Wan Menglin saw that she didn't dislike her, she dismissed her and accepted it calmly, which made Wan Menglin feel happy, but also a little disappointed and awkward.
Logically speaking, it stands to reason that Ye Xueli should hate and reject herself, so why would she accept it calmly and not mind at all.
Wan Yanyan looked at the contents of her box and then at Sister Shirley's. She didn't say anything or make any fuss about changing.
She thinks the shiny white swan headband looks better than the butterfly hairpin.
This time, the gift-giving was quiet without any noise. Ye Yanshan smiled and said, "You still have to do the preparation of gifts, unlike me, a straight man who gives gifts."
Wan Menglin smiled, but she was actually not happy. In fact, she could feel that when Xue Li received the gift, she thanked her out of politeness and sincerity. It seemed that as long as she received the gift, she should thank her and not dislike it.
Pure, no comparison, no comparison, gifts regardless of value.
This is a child. She looked at Ye Shirley and saw that she was more than a year older than Wan Yanyan, but she seemed to be born into wealth and was generous and decent.
Compared to his own daughter, when she received a gift, she made an embarrassing noise.
Inexplicably, Wan Menglin felt defeated and lost in front of Ye Yanshan.
If, if Shirley Ye was dismissive and made a scene.
Maybe, maybe Mr. Ye would feel guilty and she would forgive generously...
Wan Er'er looked at his mother and then at Uncle Ye Yanshan. He keenly felt that something was different.
Seeing Wan Er'er staring at him and observing, Ye Yanshan smiled gently and gave him some vegetables, "Eat more and get more nutrition."
To be fair, Ye Yanshan is a good person and seems to be a good father.
