"How can you say that to me?" Gu Jia couldn't help but said angrily.
She is fair-skinned, beautiful, well-educated, and a well-known strong woman. Grandma Liu is just a vulgar peasant woman, how can she compare with her? !
"Honey, when you go to the wife's circle, it's the same as when Grandma Liu entered Jia's house. You just go to catch the autumn breeze." Xiang Nan explained, "What you can provide to the wives is nothing more than emotional value and amusement. Grandma Liu When you enter Jia's house, all you do is entertain your wives and ladies. The function is the same."
The Xu family is in the fireworks business. The company is small and the industry is relatively unpopular, so they don’t have many resources to offer. In comparison, the wife circle has the resources that Gu Jia dreams of. So when Gu Jia goes to the wife circle, it is basically equivalent to having sex for free.
This is not much different from Grandma Liu, who is running for the empty-handed white wolf.
But there is one thing about Gu Jia that is not as good as Grandma Liu. At least Grandma Liu was open-minded and didn't get upset if she let others have fun, making the ladies and ladies happy.
But Gu Jia is arrogant and thin-skinned, and she also wants to be on top in the circle of wives. I despise Mrs. Wang for having no knowledge and taste, I despise Mrs. Yu for marrying a husband who is decades older than me, I despise the wives who live under their husband’s surname and only know how to compare and show off...
The circle of wives is filled with top-notch people. Even for Mrs. Yu, an eighteenth-tier starlet, it is quite remarkable that she can marry the person in charge of the three major amusement parks in the country.
You must know that back then, the young master of South Beauty had only a net worth of more than one billion, and several popular celebrities were jealous of him.
Mrs. Yu's husband is much richer than Mr. Wang, so the competition she faces will definitely be more intense. Even so, Mrs. Yu still married herself, and her IQ and emotional intelligence were quite extraordinary.
People in the wife circle are so smart, how could they not notice Gu Jia's arrogance and contempt.
So Grandma Liu entered Rongguo Mansion for the second time and returned home with a full load before leaving. However, Gu Jia broke up with his wife and broke up, completely breaking up.
From this point of view, Gu Jia's emotional intelligence is far from high.
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"Do you think Grandma Liu spent all her money on making a beautiful outfit and can be on an equal footing with the wives and ladies in Jia's house?" Xiang Nan finally asked.
Gu Jia's face turned red and she was so angry at Xiang Nan.
She has lived her whole life to save face, but now she is compared to Grandma Liu by Xiang Nan, and she also implies that she is overestimating her own abilities, and dog meat cannot get a seat at the table. She is really angry! !
"How can you say that about me?" She couldn't help shouting, "Isn't it good for our family? Do you think I am willing to go to the wife circle?"
"I don't object to you going to the wife's circle." Xiang Nan spread his hands and said, "But you have to find your own position. You just go to beat the autumn wind and ask for charity.
Why are you carrying a bag worth hundreds of thousands? Do you think that will make you equal to others? Don’t you think you are just asking for help?
What's the difference between a working-class person buying a brand-name bag and fantasizing that he has joined the upper class? You're just lying to yourself. "
"Are you just saying that I'm vain and that I don't overestimate my abilities?" Gu Jia yelled, "I have worked hard for this family and worked hard, and that's why I got such a comment?"
"Okay, you are too excited now, and your speech is completely emotional, which is not suitable for further communication. Let's calm down first." Xiang Nan waved his hands and then stood up to leave.
"Where are you going? Stop right there!" Gu Jia said angrily.
But Xiang Nan didn't stop and went straight into his son's room.
When Gu Jia saw it, she couldn't chase him into his son's room to make a fuss, so he had to sit down and sulk alone.
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Xiang Nan played with his son in his room for a while and put him to sleep before returning to the living room.
Gu Jia glanced at him and was about to come over to make another noise. Xiang Nan hurriedly shushed him and pointed to his son's room.
Gu Jia was afraid of waking up her son, so she had no choice but to give up, but the more she thought about it, the more angry she became, and her lungs were about to explode.
Xu Huanshan has always given her everything she wants. She wanted to start a business, buy a big house, and send her son to an aristocratic kindergarten... As long as she proposed it, Xu Huanshan basically had no objection.
It's better now, his wings are stiff. Now that I can negotiate business and win over clients, I no longer take her seriously. I contradict her every word, which makes her heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidneys hurt.
Xiang Nan saw that she looked like she was going to bite, so he didn't go over to ask for trouble. After washing himself, he went to bed.
When Gu Jia saw that Xiang Nan didn't come to coax her, but went to sleep alone, she couldn't help but become more and more angry. She ran to the bed, pointed at Xiang Nan's arm and pinched it, venting her anger.
But as soon as she stretched out her hand, she was suddenly grabbed by a big hand. She was frightened and was about to pull her hand away, but Xiang Nan pulled her to the bed with force and pressed her down.
After several in-depth exchanges, Xiang Nan finally convinced her.
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"Okay, I listen to you, I won't buy the bag." Gu Jia nodded.
In fact, if you calm down and think about it, Xiang Nan is not wrong. Whether she buys an expensive leather bag or not, it doesn't stop her from joining the circle of wives, or from getting in touch with Mrs. Yu.
Because she entered the circle of wives because of Mrs. Wang's support. As long as people are willing to take her, she can go. If people don't want to take her, she won't be able to get in even if she carries a million-dollar bag.
So instead of spending money to buy a bag, she might as well find a way to win over Mrs. Wang.
"Wife, your knowledge and taste are something that Mrs. Wang does not have. The reason why Mrs. Wang is ostracized in the circle of wives is because she is a nouveau riche with poor culture and taste.
So you can use your advantage to help Mrs. Wang maintain her presence in the wife circle. Xiang Nan pointed at her and said, "This is your greatest value." As for the brand-name bag, it doesn’t matter whether you buy it or not. "
Gu Jia nodded.
Xiang Nan is right, her greatest advantages are knowledge and taste. She doesn't compare these advantages with other wives, but instead compares her net worth with others. Isn't this humiliating herself?
Even if she carries a bag worth millions, people still know her background and know that her family is a "firecracker", so they can't look at her with admiration.
"You explained it to me from the beginning instead of ridiculing me or belittling me. Am I so angry?" Gu Jia complained again.
"You have to hit the drum with a heavy hammer. If I don't speak louder, how can you listen." Xiang Nan smiled and said, "Okay, now you can figure it out."
"Yeah." Gu Jia nodded.
"Honey, I have to remind you one more thing. You must find your own position in the wife's circle in the future." Xiang Nan added, "You are Mrs. Wang's follower. You are responsible for assisting and foiling her. Don't touch other crooked things." brain.
I know that you have to have a strong character and want to get ahead, but getting to the top must be supported by strength. We are just ordinary middle class people, not billionaires. We are on a different level than others. Don’t take yourself too seriously. "
Gu Jia was just a foil when she went to the wife's circle, but she gradually turned herself into the host. She opened a dessert shop to entertain the wife's circle, held water tasting parties and auctions, and took photos closer to the center each time, which naturally attracted other people. The wife is dissatisfied.
When Gu Jia heard what he said, she became angry again.
