Another day, Depu Kindergarten held a food party.
The parents of each child have to cook some delicious food and bring it to the kindergarten to share with everyone.
This is a great opportunity to shine. So Gu Jia started thinking about some good ideas last night that could make a big splash.
"Honey, it's just a food gathering, just follow the crowd. Our son has just entered the kindergarten and hasn't found his feet yet. Why should we steal the limelight?" Xiang Nan advised.
Depu is known as an aristocratic kindergarten. From the time children enter the kindergarten, classes have been divided. The rich are in one category, the middle class is in another category, and the common people are in another category, full of comparison and injustice.
This also makes the atmosphere in the school unhealthy, whether parents or children, they are all dependent on others. In this case, it is unwise to blindly come forward.
Just like He Xiaoping in "Youth", she wanted to show off her skills as soon as she joined the group, but ended up being suppressed collectively by the members. So he didn't agree with Gu Jia stealing the limelight.
"Husband, I want to stand up for my son. This food party is the first time my son has participated in a large school event. I can't embarrass him." Gu Jia explained.
"As long as you show your usual skills, your son will not be embarrassed." Xiang Nan waved his hands, "I still advise you not to try to show off."
As the saying goes, the first rafters will die first. The Xu family is now only a middle-class family. Compared with other families, it has no advantage and is even at a disadvantage.
Under such circumstances, if you push for the limelight and challenge the inherent order of the kindergarten, you just pretend to be X if you don't have the strength. It's strange that other parents will be happy.
In the play, Muzi’s mother became angry when she saw that the candy man prepared by Gu Jia was very popular and stole her limelight. Fortunately, she was not very smart, and because she looked ugly, she was taught a lesson by Gu Jia as soon as she was tempted.
If it were another high-ranking mother like Mrs. Li, she could easily dig a hole and bury Gu Jia and Xu Ziyan. At that time, there will be no chance to fight back.
"Okay, go and work on your design." Gu Jia waved his hand perfunctorily.
Xiang Nan couldn't help but sigh when he saw this.
Gu Jia is just too strong and likes to be in the spotlight.
She is a full-time housewife from a middle-class family, and she has entered the circle of wives with a net worth of one billion, and she still has to show off her abilities. In order to avoid being laid off for a group photo, I wish I could go bankrupt, but I also want to buy a bag and support my appearance in my wife’s circle.
Such a person cannot be persuaded by just a few words.
"Forget it, do as you like." Xiang Nan stopped interfering.
…
Another day, Xiang Nan returned home after get off work and heard from Gu Jia that something had happened at the food court.
When the food fair was busy, a child named Nan Nan suddenly suffered from epilepsy, which frightened all the parents and children.
"Now Muzi's mother has created a new group and is uniting with other parents to force Nan Nan to drop out of school." Gu Jia said.
Muzi’s mother is the president of the kindergarten parent committee and has a certain influence in the kindergarten. Following her appeal, many parents spoke out and asked Nan Nan to drop out of school. So as not to scare other children when they get sick.
"Husband, what do you think?" Gu Jia asked again.
"Of course I don't agree with letting Nan Nan drop out of school." Xiang Nan waved his hands and said, he still has a basic sense of right and wrong.
Having epilepsy is already very painful. If the child has to be kicked out of kindergarten, it will be even more pitiful. Of course, this cannot be done.
"However, I don't agree with us being the first to speak out." Xiang Nan reminded Gu Jiadao again.
Right and wrong are just caused by talking too much, and troubles are caused by being too strong. It is best not to be the first to eat crabs when you do not have enough strength to protect yourself.
In the play, Gu Jia was the first to speak up for Nan Nan and support him in staying in school.
He also said, "Because one's own child is frightened to tears by the illness, another child is deprived of the qualification to receive normal education. This kind of discriminatory concept should not be implanted in the simple mind of a child from kindergarten."
He also said, "If Nannan is eventually forced to leave, we will not give our children to a kindergarten with this educational philosophy."
These two paragraphs of her words are too majestic and upright. He simply stood on the moral high ground and accused those parents and kindergartens who supported Nan Nan's withdrawal from school of engaging in discrimination.
Even if what they did was indeed wrong, Gu Jia was not qualified to criticize others.
Just like what Muzi's mother said, she would make things difficult for others by talking like this.
In the play, Muzi's mother took the opportunity to hold a birthday party for her child, and took Xu Ziyan to her home and locked her in a small dark room for revenge.
There were many parents present at the time, but no one stopped them. It can be seen that Gu Jia's words caused public outrage, so everyone acquiesced.
Although in the end Gu Jia beat Muzi's mother violently and avenged her son. But to be honest, there was no need to settle this feud.
It is said that Gu Jia has a high emotional intelligence, but as soon as his son entered the kindergarten, he went to death to offend others. I really didn't see what his high emotional intelligence was.
Fortunately, in the end, the screenwriter designed Muzi's mother to withdraw from the kindergarten. Otherwise, as the president of the Family Committee, she will have many opportunities to take revenge on Gu Jia and Xu Ziyan in the future.
So Xiang Nan didn't want Gu Jiaqiang to come forward and get into trouble.
…
"Husband, if everyone has your mentality, then no one will speak for Nan Nan." Gu Jia retorted after hearing what Xiang Nan said.
"Sheeps who follow the crowd will not be beaten, and people who follow the crowd will not be punished." Xiang Nan advised, "So many parents support Nan Nan's withdrawal from school. If we are the first to speak out against it, we are on the opposite side of everyone.
Don't forget, our son has just entered kindergarten, and you are going against everyone. Do you think our son is too comfortable in kindergarten? "
"Husband, how can you say that? Parents are role models for their children. If we encounter injustice and don't dare to stand up and speak out, how can our children learn well?" Gu Jia frowned.
"I didn't say that I don't support Nan Nan. I just don't want you to rush ahead and attract hatred." Xiang Nan curled his lips and said, "Besides, didn't you say that Depu is the best school? It doesn't even have this obvious thing." If injustices cannot be settled, and we, the parents, have to take the lead, how can it be considered a good school?"
Whether or not to drop children out of school should be the concern of the school, but now it is a group of parents arguing endlessly, while the school that should be responsible is hiding behind it. It is really a joke.
Gu Jia was stunned when Xiang Nan questioned her.
If she insists on being the first to jump out in support, it will prove that Depu Kindergarten is fake and that she made the wrong choice in choosing this school.
So in order to ensure that she didn't choose the wrong school, she had no choice but to give up her first idea of supporting Nannan.
…
The next day, the school began to work with parents, hoping that they could give Nannan a chance.
The school took action, and most parents were willing to give Nan Nan face and agreed to let Nan Nan stay.
Gu Jia also immediately expressed his support.
In this way, Nannan was successfully retained, Gu Jia did not offend anyone, and the matter was resolved satisfactorily.
"Husband, look, Depu is quite good. He didn't just sit back and watch this happen." Gu Jia said to Xiang Nan with a smile.
This is enough to show that Depu is a good school.
"So, even if you don't jump out first, this matter can still be solved." Xiang Nan nodded, "Honey, if you encounter problems in the future, think more carefully and don't act in a hurry."
When Gu Jia heard what he said, her face suddenly froze.
She had always taught Xu Huanshan how to do things, but she didn't expect that now, she would be taught by her husband.
