"Look, the parenting lessons you taught me are so valuable. He didn't listen and only played with his fish." Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Chen Yu displeased and said, "I knew he didn't want this child."
When Gu Jia saw that Chen Yu still didn't say anything, he didn't agree to have this child, and he didn't think it was worth it for his best friend.
Chen Yu was quite embarrassed when he heard this.
In fact, it's not like he doesn't want this child. It's just that he has a lot of worries and is not as impulsive as Zhong Xiaoqin, so he behaves calmly.
It seemed to others that he did not want the child and wanted to abort it.
It's just that he is poor at words and wants to defend himself, but he doesn't know how to speak.
"Hey, I have to say a few words on behalf of Teacher Chen." Xiang Nan saw this and said with a smile, "Teacher Chen is definitely not the kind of cold-blooded and insensitive person. Just look at how well he takes care of the fish. You can tell that he is A thoughtful, caring person.
If you don’t believe me, let’s break it down. Xiaoqin, who usually cleans your house, who is responsible for buying groceries and cooking, who is responsible for buying daily medicines, who is responsible for paying water, electricity and gas bills..."
Zhong Xiaoqin was stunned by his question and was speechless.
Chen Yu is indeed responsible for all these trivial matters at home.
"You see, Gu Jia is so capable. To do so many things, she needs Sister Chen's help." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "And Chen Yu is not a full-time househusband. In addition to doing these things, he also has to be busy with his own work. It’s even more difficult. So his contribution to this family is really great.”
Zhong Xiaoqin blinked.
Gu Jia was also stunned.
Chen Yu was a little moved when he heard what he said.
He usually does these housework. Zhong Xiaoqin never noticed it, or she turned a blind eye, so she never realized how lucky she was to be married to such a hard-working husband.
In other families, there would be a lot of disagreements over who cooks and who washes the pots.
…
"Let's talk about the child, I want to clarify this point to Teacher Chen." Xiang Nan added, "Teacher Chen definitely doesn't care about this child.
But first of all, we men are relatively slow to warm up and accept new things. Just like clothing, over the past hundred years, women's clothing styles have been changing every year. Men's clothing style has not changed much from a hundred years ago to now.
Secondly, when the child is in your belly, you can really feel it, so your reaction is relatively strong. Teacher Chen can't feel it yet, so his reaction is relatively dull.
Thirdly, you women think things simply. Have you ever considered how to give birth to a child and how to raise it? Which hospital to choose, which doctor to choose, natural delivery or caesarean section, how to take maternity leave, how to take care of the child, whether to invite a confinement nanny, which nursery to send to, which kindergarten to go to, how to pick up and drop off...
If you don’t think about these things, Teacher Chen has to think about them. If you think too much, you will naturally have concerns. Not as optimistic as you appear. Teacher Chen, do you think I am right? "
Chen Yu just wanted to give Xiang Nan a kiss.
Everything he said just now was from his heart.
Zhong Xiaoqin just didn't care about anything. She just thought raising children was fun. She didn't think about how to give birth or raise them at all, so she laughed so heartlessly.
She didn't want to worry, so he had to solve these problems. With so many difficulties pressing down on him, of course he would be resistant.
"Really?" Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Chen Yu and said.
"Really." Chen Yu nodded, "Actually, if you really want to have a child, then let's have one. I don't have to give up the child."
Hearing what he said, Zhong Xiaoqin immediately laughed.
"Hey, that's right. Congratulations to you two, the clouds in the sky have cleared." Xiang Nan smiled.
In fact, women always focus on attitude rather than results. If the attitude satisfies them, they can accept it even if the results are unsatisfactory.
On the other hand, if the attitude is not good, they will feel very unhappy even if the result is exactly what they want.
Chen Yu lost points because of his attitude. Obviously he also welcomes this little life, but he never expresses his attitude, which leads to misunderstanding.
As a result, as soon as the child died, Zhong Xiaoqin took out all her grievances on him, which was so unjust.
…
Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu said goodbye and left.
"You two, I apologize for what I said at the dinner table." Xiang Nan said as he sent them off, "But I still have to remind you that in the first three months of pregnancy, you must be cautious and optimistic."
Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin both nodded.
Xiang Nan's words at the dinner table were a bit unpleasant. Miscarriages, stillbirths, and fetal cessation are really depressing.
But he also means well.
The accident rate is high in the first three months, so we should be cautiously optimistic.
As the old saying goes, if you don't see the rabbit, you won't let go of the hawk.
…
"Husband, you performed pretty well today." After the two left, Gu Jia looked at Xiang Nan and said with a smile.
Although there were a few words that were said too much, but they were able to make Chen Yu look back, and the result was considered satisfactory.
"Hey, it's better to stay less involved in this kind of thing in the future." Xiang Nan sighed and advised.
It is said that every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. I can’t finish reciting my own sutras, and I still have to worry about other people’s affairs. It’s really not tiring.
"I don't want to either, but Xiaoqin is my best friend, I can't ignore her." Gu Jia said.
Xiang Nan nodded.
Caring about friends is also one of Gu Jia's strengths.
If it were his friend, he wouldn't ignore it.
…
In the evening, Xiang Nan asked Shen Jie to play football together.
Shen Jie and he worked in the same company back then, and worked together in the Olympic fireworks team, so they had a close friendship.
After that, both of them resigned from the company and started their own businesses.
Because Shen Jie has high emotional intelligence and good skills, the company's development is better than that of Jiamei.
In the play, when Xu Huanshan's company was on the verge of bankruptcy, Shen Jie transferred all his company's money to him for emergency relief. It can be seen that the loyalty of the brothers is quite reliable.
"Congratulations, Huan Shan, I heard that your company has won another big order." Shen Jie said with a smile.
"You are quite well-informed." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "Yes, if you win an order, there will probably be no problem in the second half of the year."
"That's fine." Shen Jie smiled, "Originally I was thinking that if your company failed, I could help you. Now there's no need for that."
"Hey, I'm very grateful that you have such a heart." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "By the way, I had a dream yesterday and it scared me."
"What dream?" Shen Jie asked curiously, "Could it be that the fireworks factory exploded?"
"Hey, I really let you talk." Xiang Nan nodded, "The fireworks factory exploded, I was arrested, the company closed down, Gu Jia remarried, and my son was sent to Australia.
Let me tell you, that dream was very real, and it really wasn’t a good sign. It seems that I have to take a look at the factory when I have time. If nothing happens to this guy, it will be a big deal. "
"Well, you're right. In this case, I'll go back and have a look." Shen Jie also felt the same way.
