Fengfan Primary School.
Mi Tao and Xia Huanhuan apologized to each other in front of their parents and teachers.
"I'm sorry, Huanhuan, I shouldn't have pushed you yesterday." Mi Tao apologized first.
"I'm sorry, Mi Tao, it was my fault. I shouldn't have isolated you." Xia Huanhuan also apologized.
"Are we still good friends in the future?" Mi Tao asked again.
Xia Huanhuan hesitated for a moment, then nodded, "Yes."
Mi Tao laughed happily.
"Okay, you two should go back to the classroom quickly." Zhang Xueer said with a smile. She was also very happy to see the reconciliation between the two children.
"Mitao Mom, I'm really sorry. Our Huanhuan was too childish and hurt Mitao. I apologize to you on her behalf." Nan Li said.
"Hey, don't say that. It's normal for children to be a little awkward. Just change it and it will be fine." Midao's mother waved her hands quickly.
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After the incident, Mitao's mother left beforehand.
Nan Li stayed and asked Xiang Nan for advice.
"Zhong Yi, how should we manage Huanhuan in the future? This child is lazy and fragile. I can't leave him alone or control him strictly. I really have no choice." She said with a sad face.
Xiang Nan nodded.
Xia Huanhuan is basically useless. Children in fifth grade still don’t know how to work hard. Reading comics, going on the slide, playing backgammon... my mind is not on studying at all.
Although she can sing and know how to host, she just relies on her talent. In the play, I never saw her practicing her vocal form. Therefore, even if she takes the art exam in the future, she will not be qualified.
Just like Zhan Yanfei in "Hello, Old Time", he was a TV host when he was a child, and he was also a famous child star. However, due to the decline in appearance, stagnant professional ability, and ultimately failed the art exam, he still had to take the college entrance examination.
But Zhan Yanfei is still a student of Zhenhua Middle School, and Zhenhua is the top key high school in the province, so Zhan Yanfei has no problem getting into college.
But it was very difficult for Xia Huanhuan to get into key junior high schools, let alone key high schools. If you cannot repent in time, there is a high probability that it will be the fate of technical secondary schools and technical schools in the future.
And with the salaries of Xia Junshan and Nan Li, they cannot afford the high cost of studying abroad, so this child will most likely go blind.
"Sister-in-law, studying is a long-distance race. Huanhuan has been running well before, but this year she is at the bottom. As long as she starts working hard, I think it won't be difficult to catch up. As for Huanhuan to be motivated to chase, I think it is OK to increase the pressure appropriately. of.
You and your senior brother should reach a consensus, one cannot pressurize and the other deflate. In this way, the child's mentality becomes tense and relaxed, and it is very detrimental to her learning. Xiang Nan thought for a while and replied.
"What you said makes sense. I always put pressure on Huanhuan, and your senior brother gave her some relief. He always went against me." Nan Li nodded with deep approval.
Now when she urges Huanhuan to study, Xia Junshan stands by to stop her, making herself look like a bad person. This also made Huanhuan listen less and less to her, and he always went against her.
"Sister-in-law, you and senior brother should also let your children see more of the sufferings of the world. The so-called children of the poor should be in charge early. Look at Mi Tao, I am not praising her, this child is really outstanding.
Her house is just a grocery store, with people coming and going and making it very noisy. In this kind of environment, Mi Tao can learn well, which shows her self-discipline ability.
Why is Mi Tao so self-disciplined? It's because she knows that only by studying hard can she transcend class and escape her current poverty life in the future.
Huanhuan lacks this awareness, so she has no motivation to study. You should let her know the consequences if she doesn't try. Xiang Nan ordered.
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He knew that Nanli's family looked good now, but in fact they were in danger.
First of all, although Xia Junshan is a well-known designer, he is only a business technician and is a bit arrogant. Such a character makes him basically incapable of starting his own business and can only work for others.
And he is now the team leader, and it is impossible for him to be promoted again, so his life is basically set.
Nan Li is now the marketing manager. Since she was demoted, she is unlikely to be promoted in the future. Moreover, her character is also somewhat arrogant. When she goes out to run business, she actually dares to offend customers. It’s surprising that such a marketing manager can last for a long time.
In fact, even the company was not optimistic about her and almost all the people in her hands were transferred.
Therefore, if the screenwriter hadn't forced a happy ending at the end, Nan Li's most likely end would be to be fired from the company when the market was depressed after the epidemic.
And with her reputation in the industry, no company will hire her again. Just like the human resources manager said, if the circle is too small, it will be difficult to find a job if you are fired from a company.
Therefore, for the Nanli family, both husband and wife's careers have reached their ceiling. upward development is unlikely, but downward slope is a high probability event.
In addition, Nan Jianlong, Zhao Na, and Xia Junshan's mothers are all in their sixties, and they will soon reach an age where they are prone to illness and disaster. And Chaochao will soon go to elementary school, and when the time comes, the cost will definitely be higher than before.
Therefore, if Nanli's family is not careful, they may fall from the middle class to the low class.
In the play, Xia Junshan also clamored that it doesn't matter whether his daughter or son goes to college, as the worst thing is that he will raise them.
How naive he is!
Don't say it's impossible for him to raise a daughter or son for a lifetime, so what if he can. His income simply cannot afford for his daughter and son to live a prosperous life.
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After hearing this, Nan Li nodded in agreement.
Huanhuan has been pampered since she was a child, so she has no sense of worry at all.
She has no idea how difficult the workplace is now.
She was an acting director, but she was fired immediately upon request. Her salary was cut in half, her benefits were cut in half, and the company didn't even say hello. When you go out to discuss business, you will still be harassed by customers...how difficult it is.
Xia Junshan is a well-known designer, and his performance is always deducted. When you encounter an unreasonable Party A, you have to compromise and pretend to be a grandson. It is not easy to make money at all.
These troublesome things... they had never mentioned it to their children before. They thought they should give them a happy childhood and didn't want them to worry.
Now it seems that this idea is simply wrong.
Children must also receive frustration education so that they can understand this society better.
Otherwise, they are like living in a fairy tale world, carefree and without any sense of worry.
This was of course no problem when they were young.
After all, when I was a child, I didn’t ask for much, just good food, good drinks, fun things, and good clothes. She and Xia Junshan could handle it with their abilities.
But as they grew older and had more and more needs, she and Xia Junshan could no longer take care of them with their abilities.
Just like the enrollment in the number-choice competition class in the first half of the year, without Nan Jianlong's help to say hello, Huanhuan couldn't even get a place for admission.
And when Xiaoshengchu was about to come, even Nan Jianlong couldn't do anything about it. With his power, he cannot affect the admission results of middle schools at all.
"Zhong Yi, you are right." Nan Li nodded.
"Sister-in-law, you will learn from every experience. When it comes to Chaochao's education, please don't make the same mistake again." Xiang Nan reminded kindly.
When Nan Li heard this, his eyes suddenly lit up.
