"Teacher Zhang, we don't have much knowledge, but we really made you laugh." Mi Tao's father felt embarrassed, "My daughter, it's my father who is not good, he shouldn't have said that to you.
From now on, if you are bullied, tell your father and mother, and they will help you seek justice. "
"Yes." Mi Tao nodded and cried in emotion.
"Okay, okay~" Zhang Xueer held her in her arms and comforted her softly.
…
After parting ways with Xiang Nan, Xia Junshan returned home.
"What's going on?" Nan Li asked with concern.
"Don't mention it, it's all your daughter's fault." Xia Junshan held back his anger and told the whole story, "When Zhong Yi told me about this just now, I was so embarrassed that I didn't know where to turn my face."
"No way, at such an old age, Huanhuan has learned to form gangs to bully classmates?" Nan Li was surprised after hearing this.
"What do you think? And Zhong Yi told me that this is not the first time. Previously, Huanhuan had roped in classmates to isolate Mi Tao, not talking to her or playing with her.
Teacher Zhang has already warned us once. The other children have changed their behavior, but we Huanhuan only got worse. Xia Junshan sighed and said, "She deliberately didn't send the "Letter to Parents" to Mi Tao. "
"How could she become like this?" Nan Li also asked in shock.
"It's not all your fault. You insist on comparing her with Mi Tao. She hates studying and hates your approach, so she hates Mi Tao as much as she hates her." Xia Junshan He said helplessly.
"How can it be so serious? Who hasn't competed with others when they were in school?" Nan Li questioned.
"Huanhuan's endurance is different from other children." Xia Junshan explained, repeating what Xiang Nan said, "I asked her to do her homework before, and she cried until she vomited. You said she Is your ability to withstand stress good?"
"Then what should we do? We can't tell or force her. How can we just let her go like this?" After hearing this, Nan Li said depressedly.
Huanhuan's own internal drive was almost zero. As long as she wasn't looking at her, she had no intention of studying. But her grades, even if she can go to junior high school after nine years of compulsory education, her future high school entrance examination will be a mess.
Therefore, for the sake of her future, she must not let it go.
But her ability to withstand pressure was so weak that whenever she was forced to do something about her, her mentality would become twisted to the point of bullying her classmates.
In this way, it is really impossible to care or ignore, it is simply difficult to kill people.
When Xia Junshan heard her question, he couldn't help but be speechless.
"Okay, let's not talk about studying for now, let's solve the current matter first." He waved his hand and said, "Tomorrow, Huanhuan must apologize to Mi Tao and promise that this kind of thing will never happen again in the future."
Nan Li nodded, this matter should indeed be handled first.
But children’s learning is still a huge problem.
Before, they only thought about happiness education and making their children happy, but they ignored frustration education.
It's better now. The child's habit of being spoiled has been developed. If you don't care anymore, you won't be obedient at all. It’s really terrible!
…
Another day, the Xia family was having breakfast.
"Mom, you don't have to send Huanhuan off today. I'll send it off myself." Nan Li said.
"It's okay, you have important work to do, I'll just send it off." Zhao Na waved her hand.
"No, I have to give it away." Nan Li insisted.
"What's wrong, is this?" Zhao Na was a little confused.
"Huanhuan is going to apologize to Mi Tao today." Nan Li explained.
When Xia Huanhuan heard this, her expression froze.
"Why? Mi Tao pushed Huanhuan first?" Zhao Na asked in confusion.
"Let her tell herself, why did Mi Tao push you?" Nan Li looked at Xia Huanhuan and asked.
"How do I know?" Xia Huanhuan blinked.
"Still lying! Teacher Zhong told Dad yesterday, why did you go around Mi Tao and not send it to her when you sent the "Letter to Parents"? Why did you unite with classmates to isolate her?
Do you know that you are engaging in school violence? " Seeing that she refused to admit her mistake, Nan Li couldn't help scolding her.
"It's not that serious. It's normal for children to be a little awkward." Upon hearing this, Zhao Na quickly smoothed things over.
"Mom, this matter is very serious." Xia Junshan waved his hand and said, "Zhong Yi told me yesterday that if Huanhuan continues to be stubborn and makes mistakes again and again, he will be reported to the school and will be recorded in the final growth manual. One stroke.
When the time comes, don’t think about Hanlin Middle School. It’s up to you whether Fengfan Middle School will accept them or not. "
"So serious?" Zhao Na was shocked.
"Huanhuan, did you hear that? You must realize your mistake in this matter and never make it again. Otherwise, you will be in danger." Nan Li scolded.
"Why are you all talking to Mi Tao? It doesn't matter if she studies well, why do you always compare me with her? The teacher said that students should be tested for their overall quality. I am also versatile, why don't you praise me?" Xia Huanhuan cried.
"Did we praise you less before? When did your father and mother not praise you when you won an award for singing or hosting?" Nan Li said angrily, "Now you can't bear to praise other children? You are jealous of others and form a group to bully them." Hey, is this what your parents usually teach you?"
"Huanhuan, it's not that your parents don't praise you. The key point is that there is no singing test or hosting test in the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination. It only depends on the test scores." Xia Junshan also explained, "Although you are versatile, if you don't do well in the high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination, There is no good future either.
Mom and Dad are also doing your best, so they advise you to work hard and learn from Mi Tao. How can you hate Mi Tao just like that? "
"Since you knew how to sing, preside over the high school entrance examination, and not take the college entrance examination, why did you let me learn it in the first place? Now that my grades can't keep up, you started to teach me a lesson! Why didn't you tell me in the first place?" Xia Huanhuan sobbed.
Hearing their daughter's complaint, Nan Li and Xia Junshan also felt pain in their faces.
Indeed, they supported and encouraged Huanhuan when she first sang and hosted. For this reason, they also helped her sign up for training classes.
As a result, now they asked her to give up singing and hosting to catch up on her grades. This is indeed unfair to her.
"Huanhuan, both parents are wrong. We are parents for the first time, and we have no experience. We just want to give you a happy childhood, so we have always been more arrogant towards you. Being spoiled is like killing a child, and parents are wrong.
But now as long as we make corrections, everything can be saved. Huanhuan, you are only ten years old, and you still have endless possibilities in the future. Mom and Dad believe that as long as you work hard, the future will be bright. Xia Junshan thought about it and said.
Nan Li also nodded.
Huanhuan is their first child. She and Xia Junshan became parents for the first time and had no idea how to educate their children. As a result, they fell into the poison of the so-called "Happy Education". They only wanted to make their children happy, but they did not cultivate their ability to self-discipline and the courage to take responsibility. and a can-do attitude.
As a result, when her daughter grew up, she became a giant baby with no ability to withstand stress. She only knew how to cry when things happened, and she only knew how to evade and shirk responsibility.
When it comes to educating their children, they can be said to be a complete failure.
Xia Huanhuan reluctantly nodded when she heard her father and mother say this.
