"The next step is [please listen to me]." Zhang Xueer said with a smile, "How long have you parents not communicated with your children on an equal footing? How many sincere words have the children accumulated that they want to tell their parents.
Today in our auditorium, children, you can speak freely and speak out bravely what you have been holding in your heart.
I also hope that parents will not interrupt their children while they are speaking out. Children are little adults, and we should listen to and respect their opinions. Okay, which classmate comes up first? "
As soon as he finished speaking, many students raised their hands. It seemed that they all had a lot to say.
"Okay, classmate Jia Wenting, you come first." Zhang Xueer invited with a smile, and then a cute little girl walked onto the stage.
"I want to tell my dad that no classmates bully me, no classmates give me nicknames, and no male classmates write to me. Can you please stop asking me a hundred times every day?" Jia Wenting said.
When she said this, her father sitting below felt a little embarrassed.
The parents all laughed, and the children gave a thumbs up. Many people felt the same way.
"Lu Zeyu, come~" Zhang Xueer invited again with a smile.
"I want my parents to spend more time with me. I go home alone every day, eat alone, do homework alone, and sleep alone. Other people's homes are bustling, but I am alone.
I hope you can spend more time with me. I promise that after I turn twelve, I won’t need you to accompany me. "Lu Zeyu came on stage and said.
His words made many parents feel sad.
Afterwards, students such as Zhao Lin, Xia Huanhuan, and Mi Tao also came on stage one after another and spoke their true feelings to their parents.
Zhao Lin hoped that her parents would stop quarreling, Xia Huanhuan thanked her parents for their love and care for her, and Mi Tao thanked her parents and teachers...
Their speeches received applause from everyone.
…
"Okay, the children are doing very well. Are there any students willing to come up and give it a try?" Zhang Xueer asked with a smile.
Yan Ziyou hesitated for a moment, then stood up.
Tian Yulan was very happy when she saw this, "Ziyou, come on!"
She was happy that her son had the courage to speak on stage.
Yan Ziyou walked up to the stage solemnly, took the teacher's microphone, then lowered his head, and after pondering for a while, he said, "I think my mother loves me not for me, but for me who got perfect marks in the exam."
With one sentence, the whole audience was shocked and all looked at Tian Yulan in surprise.
Tian Yulan was also very shocked. She didn't expect her son to say such a thing as soon as he came on stage. To her, it was no less than being embarrassed in public.
"What are you kidding about? Why don't I love you anymore? How can I still love you?" She stood up and said.
"Ziyou's mother, please don't get excited first. Can we listen to the child's words?" Zhang Xueer said quickly when she saw this.
"Yes, sit down and let the child finish speaking first."
"Sit down, sit down, how can you not let the child talk?"
The parents also advised, and Tian Yulan had no choice but to sit back in her seat.
On the stage, Yan Ziyou had already shed two lines of tears, "You always say it's for my own good, but in fact it's all for your own face. You never care whether I'm happy or not, and whether I'm willing or not.
Mom, I don’t think you ever wanted to make me happy. Every time you see me not reading or doing homework, you feel uncomfortable. Every time you see me idle for a while, you want me to memorize a few more words and write a few more papers. Because I haven’t made any progress in my study, you wrongfully accused the teacher of giving the top student a thorough question...
If I have a child in the future, I will never force him to attend any tutoring class, even if he doesn't go to school. He likes to play football from morning till night. "
At the end of the sentence, Yan Ziyou couldn't help but asked loudly, "Why is it so difficult to do what you like?"
Tian Yulan couldn't stand such torture from her soul, so she immediately stood up and ran away.
Seeing this, Zhang Xueer came on stage and hugged Yan Ziyou who was crying.
The parents in the audience were also shocked, and there was silence for a while.
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"The next step is [please trust me]." Zhang Xueer asked Yan Ziyou to return to the audience, and then continued, "Most of the parents here have enrolled their children in tutoring classes. According to my statistics, our class , only three children did not register for classes.
So if you sign up for a tutoring class, will your results be satisfactory? Will it give your children a better future? We have conducted a special investigation for this purpose.
Come on, parents, please watch the big screen. According to our survey, the teaching contents of off-campus training institutions that focus on math selection are all beyond the syllabus, and they mainly focus on cramming education.
This is indeed very effective in lower grades, allowing children to be at the top of their class. But after reaching senior grades, the disadvantages of this kind of over-the-top education and cramming education become apparent.
Because the foundation laid by this kind of education is not solid. After reaching senior grade, many students' performance declined due to a weak foundation. Especially after entering junior high school or high school, the consequences become more obvious. "
"Here, I would like to show parents a set of data..." Zhang Xueer clicked on the computer, and then a set of data appeared on the screen, which was a survey of junior high school students and high school students.
The survey shows that children who receive over-the-top education and cramming education in remedial classes will have a significant decline in their grades after entering junior middle school or high school. Moreover, their scores in the college entrance examination are not ideal, and they are not in the state of being the top students in elementary school.
On the contrary, students who had never received remedial class education showed extraordinary potential after entering junior high school and high school, and their grades improved significantly.
When parents saw this survey, they couldn't help but look at each other.
"Teacher Zhang, is this survey true or false?"
"Is it really useless to sign up for cram school? Isn't it?"
Parents have all questioned, feeling that this survey is unreliable no matter how you look at it.
If cram schools were really that bad, would there still be so many cram schools in society?
Parents are not all fools. They know that cram schools are ineffective, but they still let their children go to cram schools?
"Parents, please believe in our school. This survey is authentic and credible and was issued by the Education Bureau." Zhang Xueer explained, "I also advise parents not to listen to the false propaganda of those commercial training institutions and blindly enroll their children. Class. That is very detrimental to the growth of children.
Learning is a long-term process. Compared with the short-term improvement of children's grades, a sound personality, a sunny disposition, a healthy physique, and even a good parent-child relationship are actually more beneficial to a child's future. "
When the parents heard what she said, some nodded in agreement, some were doubtful, and some didn't believe it at all. In short, the same rice feeds all kinds of people, and everyone has their own thoughts.
"Okay, parents and classmates, our discussion meeting ends today. If parents have any questions, you can stay. If there are no questions, you can leave." Zhang Xueer announced again.
For a while, some parents left, and some stayed to ask questions.
Xia Junshan and Nan Li went to find Xiang Nan.
