"Teacher, how long do you think it will take?" Yan Peng asked quickly.
"We really don't dare to guarantee this kind of thing." Xiang Nan waved his hands and said, "Anyway, please believe us and we will do our best."
Hearing what he said, Yan Peng couldn't help feeling depressed.
He is a civil servant and has long been tired of hearing such clichés.
What does "try your best" mean? If there is no measurable standard, it is just an empty talk.
"Teacher Zhong, can't you give me a specific time?" Yan Peng asked.
"Dad Ziyou, you have to believe in the sincerity of our teacher, just like we believe in your guarantee." Xiang Nan said, "Ziyou is a good boy. Xue'er and I both like him, and we don't want him to be Isolated, we will try our best to help him. Please trust us and give us time, okay?"
Yan Peng asked him to make a promise that he would try his best to help Yan Ziyou. But he did not promise that Tian Yulan would never report him in the future. So what he said was also empty talk.
They are all thousand-year-old foxes, so why are they playing a fairy tale?
The principal nodded.
He also saw that the crux of the problem now was that Yan Ziyou's parents were full of distrust of the school. Therefore, Tian Yulan would write an anonymous letter to report, while Yan Peng would insist on letting Xiang Nan act as guarantee.
After seeing through the truth, he also changed his attitude towards Yan Peng, Tian Yulan, and Yan Ziyou's family. From support and tolerance to opposition and exclusion.
Because he knows that in sociology, there is a phenomenon called the "Tacitus Trap".
When trust is lost, whether the other person does good or bad things, it will be perceived as doing bad things.
In this way, no matter what the school does, it may be misunderstood by them, opposed by them, or reported by them.
If things go on like this, the school's teaching order will be affected.
In this case, it's better to go our separate ways and live in peace.
So he said, "Mr. Yan, please believe in the school spirit and discipline of our school, and please believe in the professional ethics of our teachers. We will definitely try our best to help Ziyou."
If Yan Peng continues to distrust the school, there will be nothing left to say but to persuade them to arrange for Ziyou to transfer to another school. After all, between two excellent teachers and one student, he would rather keep the teacher.
After hearing what the principal said, Yan Peng didn't want to continue to pester him, so he could only nodded, "Okay, then I will choose to believe in the school and the two teachers. I hope you won't let me down."
"Don't worry, Ziyou's father. As teachers, we have professional ethics and will not deliberately target a certain child." Xiang Nan nodded.
Yan Peng had no choice but to go back first.
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"Teacher Zhong, Teacher Zhang, you must understand the feelings of parents." After Yan Peng left, the principal left Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer behind to lecture.
Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer both nodded.
"Principal, we can understand the mood of parents, but I think the Yan family is very prejudiced and full of distrust towards us." Xiang Nan added, "If possible, can we arrange for Yan Ziyou to transfer to another class?" Are you going to try it in class?”
"This is the last resort." The principal waved his hand and said, "If a child stays in the same class for a long time, changing classes rashly will be detrimental to his physical and mental development."
"Principal, in my opinion, although Yan Ziyou's parents are an exception, they are not isolated cases. There are indeed obstacles between schools and parents.
Parents generally lack trust in schools. They cannot trust our teaching or our management, so they would rather spend a lot of money to enroll in cram schools outside.
This kind of tutoring is a waste of time, energy, and money, and it affects their learning status in school. It may not be good for children’s growth and education.
I think the school should strengthen communication with parents and eliminate their misunderstandings about us, so that we can fundamentally prevent such incidents from happening again. " Zhang Xueer suggested.
Nowadays, most students in the school, whether in first grade or sixth grade, are enrolling in cram schools outside. External cram schools usually provide education beyond the syllabus.
The first grade has to learn the second grade, the second grade has to learn the third grade, and the third grade has to learn the fourth grade... Because students have already learned it outside of school, so when they learn it in school, they no longer listen to the lectures. Being half-hearted and looking here and there will lead to developing very bad study habits.
Originally, as long as they listened well in school, they would be able to cope with the exam from primary school to junior high school. The result is that if you don't learn well in school, you have to go to a tutoring institution to take extra classes, which is a waste of money and energy, and you also develop bad habits.
After reaching senior grade, middle school and high school, because the foundation is not laid well, coupled with the lack of good study habits, the performance will definitely decline significantly. He lost his wife and lost his troops.
"Teacher Zhang's suggestion is very good." The principal nodded, "Yes, now the students' parents are taking tutoring outside.
But they don’t know that most off-campus tutoring institutions are cramming education. Although it can improve temporary performance, it can only treat the symptoms and not the root cause. Our education truly takes into account children's learning and entertainment, and is the most suitable for children's physical and mental development. "
"Principal, why don't we hold a parent-teacher meeting to communicate with the parents." Xiang Nan suggested, "We can also let the children speak out and let the parents listen to their children's voices."
"This is a good idea, I think it's feasible." The principal nodded.
At the moment, Xiang Nan gave some suggestions, such as the process of the parent-teacher meeting, the arrangement of the venue, the content of the meeting, etc., and the principal couldn't help but nod.
"Okay, Teacher Zhong, you are indeed a young talent in our school, and you have thought very well." The principal nodded.
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Yan Ziyou returned to school in the afternoon, and Tian Yulan personally sent him there.
"Teacher Zhang, I'm really sorry. I shouldn't have been confused and wrote those two report letters. I'm sorry for the harm I caused you." She said to Zhang Xueer.
Zhang Xueer was always kind-hearted. After hearing what she said, she nodded, "Okay, Ziyou's mother, it's all in the past. Don't mention it again in the future. I won't blame you anymore, and don't do it again in the future." This is the kind of thing.”
"Yes, I will never do such a thing again, please rest assured." Tian Yulan immediately expressed his position.
Yan Ziyou didn't go to school for half a day today and stayed at home, which almost made her worried to death.
She was afraid that her son would really become tired of studying and would no longer want to go to school, and her hard work would be in vain.
So no matter what, she had to settle the matter as soon as possible and let the teachers and classmates accept her son again.
Zhang Xueer nodded, then took Yan Ziyou's hand, "Okay, Ziyou's mother, go back. I will take Ziyou back to class."
"Well, thank you." Tian Yulan said touchedly.
At this moment, she was indeed very moved. It's really good that Zhang Xueer didn't anger her son because of what she did.
