Then the next thing happened, Yan Ziyou really didn't want to go to school and started crying when he mentioned going to school.
Yan Peng had no choice but to agree to take half a day off for him.
When Tian Yulan saw her son being frightened like this, she couldn't help but start to really regret it.
If her son gets tired of studying because of this and cries every time he mentions going to school, then his life will be ruined and her life will be over as well.
"Well... you should talk to the teacher and say that I really realize my mistake. I will never write anonymous letters again. I must make them forgive me." Tian Yulan said softly.
If the trouble continues, she will not be able to bear the consequences.
Yan Peng nodded and said with emotion, "If I had known this today, why would I do it in the first place?"
He knew that Tian Yulan's character was to refuse to admit defeat. The good thing about her is that she refuses to admit defeat, but that's also the bad thing about her.
She would compete over every trivial matter. I offended so many people for this, and I really don’t know how to say good things to her.
…
Yan Peng then came to the school and first went to the principal to apologize to his wife for writing an anonymous report letter.
"Principal, my wife didn't mean to wrong Teacher Zhong and Teacher Zhang. She has a strong sense of justice, so she wanted to point out something wrong when something happened, which led to so many misunderstandings.
I came here today just to apologize to the school, Teacher Zhong and Teacher Zhang on her behalf. I hope you can forgive her for such reckless behavior. Yan Peng said.
After all, he is a government civil servant. Although he is a bit of a giant baby and a bit of an old man, his speaking skills are good and he is very good at making big things into trivial matters.
The principal nodded.
He also didn't want this matter to continue, which would be bad for the school, bad for the teachers, bad for the parents, and even worse for the children.
Then, he found Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer.
Yan Peng said what he just said again.
After hearing this, Xiang Nan couldn't help but admire his sharp tongue.
After Yan Peng said this, Tian Yulan was not only right, but also a hero.
What about "having a strong sense of justice", what about "saying something when something is wrong"... these are all words used to describe heroes, Sun Wukong and Jigong Living Buddha are no more than that.
In fact, Tian Yulan is far from that great.
When she saw something was wrong, why didn't she communicate first and find out the truth before writing an anonymous letter to report it? !
The school door is open. She comes to pick up her children to and from school every day. If she has any questions, she can go to the teacher directly. Why didn't she look for it and report it based on just speculation? What's the difference between this and false accusation? !
Besides, the purpose of her reporting was for others or for herself? ! Does she dare to say it? !
For his own personal gain, he falsely accused the teacher with such a heinous crime, intending to destroy two people, and dared to boast that he had a strong sense of justice and that he would speak out when something was wrong. He really didn't want Bilian.
Originally, after watching the entire drama, Xiang Nan thought Yan Peng was an honest person.
Now it seems that we are really not a family, and we don’t belong to the same family. He and Tian Yulan were actually the same person.
…
But at this moment, due to the principal's face, Xiang Nan couldn't argue with him anymore.
Anyway, the mountains are high and the rivers are long, and there will be opportunities to settle accounts in the future.
"What Ziyou's father and Ziyou's mother did is indeed very heartbreaking. If she feels there is a problem or something is wrong, she can talk to the teacher directly.
If we can't explain clearly, she can go to the principal to report the situation. If the principal still can't find out, she can report the situation to the Education Bureau.
However, we strongly discourage writing reporting letters. To be honest, we don’t let our children snitch anymore.
However, we are very pleased that she realized her mistake and sent you to apologize to us. We accept your apology and hope this never happens again. Xiang Nan nodded and said.
"Yes, if you have any questions in the future, you can come to us directly. Writing anonymous letters is very immoral and irrational. I hope she will not do it again in the future." Zhang Xueer also said.
The two reporting letters had a great impact on her. She used to think that the teaching profession was a very noble one, teaching and educating people, disseminating knowledge, being a gardener of the garden and an engineer of the soul.
However, she was falsely accused one after another by Tian Yulan. Although no real harm was caused, it caused great psychological damage to her. She now has some doubts about whether it is right for her to be a teacher.
Why do I have to be reported one after another even though I have done nothing wrong? What is right and what is wrong? Chaos has begun.
Moreover, being reported one after another has reduced the sense of sanctity, morality, and honor that the teaching profession brings to her.
She is a person who pays great attention to spiritual wealth. She has little requirements for money but high requirements for spiritual food. Tian Yulan's false accusation caused her spiritual world to be polluted.
In the original work, Zhang Xueer tutored Mi Tao with her homework after class, but parents complained that she was biased and unfair to other students. Zhang Xueer was so disappointed with her parents that she resigned from public office and started her own tutoring class outside the school.
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Although Yan Peng blushed with shame at Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer's words, he knew that the fact that the two of them could say this meant that their grievances had been aired out, and everything should be fine in the future.
On the contrary, if you smile and say it's okay, you're not angry at all, don't worry, etc., then 80% of the time you'll still be angry inside. This matter will never be finished.
"Okay, I promise that this kind of thing will never happen again in the future." Yan Peng immediately expressed his position.
"Okay, that's good. If that's the case, then it's okay." The principal nodded and said, "Mr. Yan, I hope you will continue to supervise our work and give us valuable opinions in the future."
"Don't dare, don't dare, let's make progress together." Yan Peng quickly waved his hands and said, "Two teachers, our Ziyou is in school and is isolated by our classmates. I hope you can help him."
Xiang Nan smiled, this was probably the purpose of his visit today.
Apologizing is fake, asking for help is real. If Yan Ziyou had not been isolated by his classmates, he and Tian Yulan would not have apologized to them at all.
In the eyes of these parents, their and Zhang Xueer's careers are probably not as important as a hair of his son's.
"No need to remind him, we will all help him." Xiang Nan smiled and said, "It is wrong to isolate classmates. We all hope that students can unite, love and help each other."
"Yes, Ziyou's father, we will help Ziyou." Zhang Xueer nodded.
“But I also hope you can understand that children are independent individuals with their own ideas, and we teachers are not gods and cannot influence their ideas at will.
So even if we want to help Ziyou and let him be accepted by his classmates again, this still requires a process. I hope you won't ask too much of us. Xiang Nan said again.
The principal and Zhang Xueer both nodded.
Children are not machines who will obey an instruction. They have their own thoughts.
But what Tian Yulan did was really bad. She snitched secretly, which is something that even children cannot tolerate.
Therefore, it is normal for Ziyou to be excluded and isolated.
After all, children also have their own sense of right and wrong, and they don't like traitors and villains.
For them to accept Yan Ziyou again will not happen overnight.
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