At six o'clock the next day, Xiang Nan made an appointment with Wu Xiaoliu.
To be honest, he still didn't know how to treat Wu Xiaoliu until now.
Wu Xiaoliu is innocent, cute, simple, romantic, enthusiastic, and confident. She is a typical girl born in the 1990s.
Cao Xiaoqiang is thirteen years older than her, but Xiang Nan is only one year older than her. In fact, there is no big generation gap.
It's just that Xiang Nan's mental age is thirty-two years old. Especially after graduating from college, I have been beaten by society for ten years and have become mature, smooth and stable.
Wu Xiaoliu, on the other hand, is physically twenty-two years old and mentally younger. He is happy when he says he is happy and becomes angry when he says he is angry. He still looks like a child. Moreover, he grew up in a privileged family and was favored by his parents. He just graduated from college and worked as a French teacher in an educational institution, which is considered very outstanding.
Therefore, she has basically not been beaten by society and still maintains the innocence and romance of a child. They actually think that when a person reaches the age of thirty-five, he will automatically become a successful person, own a house, a car, have savings, and be able to afford a first-class life.
Therefore, there is no age gap between the two, but there is a psychological gap.
But having said that, if Wu Xiaoliu could be more mature, he would actually be a low-end version of Xu Ruoyun, which would also be a good match.
"How about giving it a try?" Xiang Nan thought.
Anyway, he is in a free period now, so if we talk about it, maybe we can work it out.
…
Xiang Nan arrived at the coffee shop five minutes early and waited.
Unexpectedly, as soon as he sat down, a girl sat opposite him.
"You must be Cao Xiaoqiang, I recognized you at first sight." The girl said with a smile, "Let me meet you, my name is Wu Xiaoliu~"
"Hello." Xiang Nan smiled and stretched out his hand, "Sorry, I'm late."
"Why are you so polite? It's so fake." Wu Xiaoliu pushed Xiang Nan's hand away and said.
Xiang Nan smiled and nodded, this girl was to his liking.
In fact, he doesn't like false politeness either. If he could help it, he wouldn't want to deal with people at all. If you have the time and energy, wouldn't it be nice to stay at home, play a few games, and watch a few movies? !
"That's right. What would you like to drink?" Xiang Nan asked again.
"Anything is fine." Wu Xiaoliu said casually.
Xiang Nan nodded and ordered a cup of Mango Colorful for her and a cup of rose tea for himself.
"Hey, how did you know I like to eat this~" Wu Xiaoliu asked in surprise.
Xiang Nan smiled.
There are so many milk tea shops on the street, aren’t they all supported by them?
"By the way, you're a singer, right?" Wu Xiaoliu smiled again, "I've heard your songs, they're pretty good, but a little sad~"
"I can't help it. I'm thirty-five years old this year. Halfway through my life, I have no house, no car, no money, no wife, no children. Of course I'm going to be bereft." Xiang Nan said with a wry smile.
"Hey, can you smile again?" Wu Xiaoliu said in surprise, "It's that kind of smile that's a little sad and helpless. It's really charming~"
Xiang Nan didn't know whether to laugh or cry when he heard this.
What this girl likes is really unique.
…
"Cao Xiaoqiang, you know, what I'm looking for is a middle-aged uncle like you. He has life and experience. He's not too young, but he's not too old either. He's relatively stable in all aspects." Wu Xiaoliu said with a smile. , "But I searched a lot, either married or divorced. I didn't want to be a third party, and I didn't like second-hand goods, so I kept putting it off."
Xiang Nan nodded, understanding her mentality.
One year ago, Wu Xiaoliu said he was looking for a middle-aged uncle, which seemed a bit deviant.
But in one or three years, after "Yenjing Meets Seattle" is released, the whole society will have a wave of "middle-aged uncle craze".
It's just that those girls want to find a successful man like Frank who has a successful career, is handsome, mature and stable. As for an old man who is past the middle of his life, has no success in his career, and is greasy all over his body, he only deserves to be called "Master" or "Uncle".
"I understand." Xiang Nan smiled, "Who doesn't like a man who has a successful career, is mature, stable, gentle and considerate."
"Haha, we really have a good understanding." Wu Xiaoliu clapped his hands and laughed, "My dad, my mom, my aunt... they all don't understand me."
"But, Miss Wu..." Xiang Nan waved his hand.
"Hey, I told you not to be so polite, just call me Xiaoliu." Wu Xiaoliu stopped her.
"Okay, Xiaoliu." Xiang Nan nodded and continued, "You can't make a mistake in your choice. Middle-aged uncles do have many advantages, but have you ever thought about it? In fact, middle-aged uncles also have many disadvantages.
When falling in love, they are more cautious and rational, and may not be able to give you the passion you want. For example, holding a large bouquet of roses to openly express love; for example, taking a trip with you on the fly; for example, staying up in the middle of the night to watch the moon with you...
The middle-aged uncle also has limited physical strength. When I was in college, I was on the school football team. During a one-and-a-half-hour football match, I could run all over the field, and I still had the energy to dance in the evening. Even staying up all night is no problem.
Now don't ask me to play football. Even if I run five thousand meters, my feet will become weak. If you stay up all night, your body won't be able to recover for several days. So if you want to do things like mountain climbing, bungee jumping, dancing, etc., it will be difficult for me to accompany you. "
"It doesn't matter. I don't have any special hobbies. I just like to stay at home, do housework, take care of the children, and then wait for my loved ones to get off work. This is the happiest thing for me." Wu Xiao Liu smiled and said, "How about it, my requirements are not high, right?"
"Not high." Xiang Nan nodded.
But he knew that although Wu Xiaoliu said he wanted to live a simple and relaxed life, in his heart he was pursuing passion and romance.
In the middle of the night, she asked Cao Xiaoqiang to watch the moon with her. When he got angry, he would hide away from people. He would even deliberately annoy gangsters and ask Cao Xiaoqiang to come to save the beauty as a hero to prove that he cared about her.
It can be said that she is only mature in words, but she is still a child mentally.
"Then let's date." Wu Xiaoliu then smiled.
"Let's not talk about dating. I think we can start as friends." Xiang Nan waved his hands and said with a smile, "After we get to know each other and feel that we can accept each other, we can get together. This is safer, what do you think?"
"You still have to start as a friend?" Wu Xiaoliu said reluctantly, "You are already thirty-five years old this year, so why are you still more lazy than me?"
"It is precisely because I am thirty-five years old and have limited time and energy that I cannot be impulsive." Xiang Nan explained, "Xiao Liu, you are only twenty-two years old this year. You will still be thirteen when you are my age." Years, you can afford to waste them even if they are wasted.
But I am different. I am thirty-five years old this year, and every year in the future is very important to me. So I can't waste it easily. The person I am looking for must be suitable. I had no chance of trial and error. "
"Old comrade, don't talk about yourself so pitifully. In my eyes, you are still quite young." Wu Xiaoliu said with a smile, "Well, since you said so, then I will give you a way and let's start from Let’s start as friends.”
"Okay." Xiang Nan smiled and nodded.