Xiang Nan couldn't help but sigh when Fang Sijin said this.
Fang Sijin's childhood was really too bitter, almost like being soaked in a jar of bitter water.
"Except for my grandfather and younger brother, no one in my family loves me. They beat me, scold me, deny me food, and don't let me go to school.
From elementary school to high school, I dropped out of school six times. The nine-year compulsory system lasted for twelve years in my life. Fang Sijin smiled bitterly and said, "My grandfather paid my tuition fees from childhood to adulthood." My family never cared about me or paid me a penny.
But after I graduated from college and started working, she shyly asked me for money. Ten thousand, twenty thousand, fifty thousand, one hundred thousand... almost all the money I have earned over the years has been taken away by her. "
"Why do you have to give her money?" Xiang Nan asked in confusion.
If his parents are such bastards, then it goes without saying that we should cut off the relationship directly. My phone number has changed, my job has changed, my address has changed...China is such a big place and there are so many people, so it’s really not easy to hide yourself so that no one can find you.
And with Fang Sijin's ability to make money, it is not difficult at all to support himself and live a prosperous life.
"My grandfather and younger brother are both in the countryside. Even if I don't care about the family, I can't ignore them." Fang Sijin sighed.
Her grandfather and younger brother are the only two people who are kind to her, and they are also her biggest weaknesses. This time Pan Guiyu came to her to ask for money, under the pretext that he wanted to buy a house for his brother, so she couldn't refuse.
"Then why don't you bring them to live in the city?" Xiang Nan asked again, "With your income, it is enough for them to live a good life."
Fang Sijin's annual income is at least four to five million. With this kind of income, it is really easy to support a family of three. Even if her brother is useless and her grandfather is sick, he can still support her.
"You think I haven't thought about it, but my grandfather doesn't want to come to the city." Fang Sijin sighed again, "He said it was hard to leave his homeland, and he would rather die at home."
Xiang Nan was stunned and thought of the old antiques in Yongquan Village in "Mountains and Seas". He was so poor that he couldn't even drink water, he didn't even have to wear pants, and he was reluctant to move. He said that a golden nest or a silver nest was not as good as his own doghouse.
Fang Sijin's grandfather is undoubtedly this kind of person. These people are undoubtedly pitiful, pathetic and hateful, and they are all suffering from Stockholm Syndrome.
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"You should explain it clearly to your grandfather and let him understand your current situation." Xiang Nan thought for a while and said, "The reason why your grandfather did not come to Hujiang is that it is difficult to leave his hometown, but he also does not want to cause trouble to you. idea.
But what he didn't know was that it was precisely because he stayed in the countryside that your mother used the emperor as a guise to extort money from you. This will cost you more and cause you more trouble than if he followed you to live in Shanghai.
So you have to explain it clearly to him, and the old man will definitely understand your difficulties. Otherwise, he would have thought that you were living a good life in Hujiang. "
Fang Sijin was quite moved when he heard what he said.
She was indeed blackmailed and exploited repeatedly by Pan Guiyu, and indeed she never told her grandfather. In fact, after graduating from college, she didn't go back home a few times, and every time she told her grandfather, she always reported good news but not bad news.
So grandpa really thought that she was living a good life outside, so he naturally didn't want to cause any trouble for her. But in fact, Pan Guiyu used him as an excuse to ask for nearly one million from her. This much money is enough for her and her grandfather to live a good life in the city.
Therefore, the truth of the matter should be told to grandpa so that he would be willing to accompany him to the city.
"Besides, you should also understand. Your grandfather is in the countryside, isolated and helpless. With a mother like you, even if you give him money every month, his life will not improve.
I guess any money you give him will be taken away by your mother, and not even a scrap will be left. You are honoring grandpa in name, but in fact it has no effect at all.
On the contrary, the more money you give, the more your mother will think that the goods are rare, and she will squeeze him even more to get more money from you. Xiang Nan said again, "So not only did you fail to honor your grandfather, but on the contrary, you harmed him." "
Fang Sijin seems smart, but in fact he is confused about big things and has no sense of the overall situation.
In essence, Pan Guiyu is a kidnapper who kidnapped her grandfather to demand ransom from her. The more she obeyed, the more she was extorted, and the worse off the hostages became.
The only really smart way is to rescue the hostages. Whether you take him with you or send him to a nursing home with first-class facilities and considerate services, it is better than leaving him to Pan Guiyu.
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Fang Sijin was stunned when he heard this.
Xiang Nan's words were like an enlightenment, making her understand it all at once.
The advice she had received before was to stay away from her family.
Zhai Yunxiao had advised her many times before to sever ties with her family and stop being sucked by them.
But because she couldn't let go of her grandfather, she still couldn't let him go.
Now hearing what Xiang Nan said, she finally knew that she was wrong.
"Manager Xu, after being busy for a while, I would like to ask for leave." Fang Sijin then said that she was ready to accept Xiang Nan's suggestion and take her grandfather from the village to the city.
"Are you going back alone?" Xiang Nan glanced at her and asked.
"Otherwise?" Fang Sijin asked doubtfully.
"Say you're stupid, you'll have a runny nose right away." Xiang Nan shook his head speechlessly, "You single-handedly want to snatch your grandfather out of your wolf-like house, do you think you can do it?
It’s not that I’m looking down on you. If you could do this, you wouldn’t have been bullied by them all these years. You don't have the ability or the courage. "
When Fang Sijin said this, he suddenly felt embarrassed and angry. But she also knew that Xiang Nan was actually right. On her own, it seemed impossible to save her grandfather.
It's just that since she was a child, she didn't have many relatives or friends around her, so she always used to do things alone.
"It's better for me to help you." Xiang Nan said again.
"Why are you helping me?" Fang Sijin was stunned, blinked, and asked suspiciously.
When Xiang Nan heard this, he was greatly disgusted.
Most people readily accept help from others. Those who are sensible and kind think about how to repay.
Fang Sijin, however, first questioned the motives of others, as if everyone was deliberately trying to harm her.
"Then I won't help. You can do whatever you want." Xiang Nan said coldly, and then stood up to leave.
Fang Sijin quickly grabbed him.
She knew that if there was anyone in this city who could help her, it was Xiang Nan.
Only he has this ability, has this quality, and is willing to help others selflessly.
I think back then, when she first came to Hujiang and her eyesight dimmed, Xiang Nan took the initiative to help her find the cheapest house and even bought her food out of his own pocket.
So she suspected that he really had lost his conscience.
But this is also because she has been bullied since she was a child, and no one helped her, which led to her distrust of others.
Even Xiang Nan's kind gesture made her subconsciously wary.
