"This family meeting ends here."
"If you have anything else, you can come to me directly."
Lu Changsheng looked at his wife, concubines and children and said loudly.
He also realized that in this situation, it was difficult for wives, concubines, and children to speak freely.
If the issue mentioned by the concubine involves the family system and children, it would appear that he, the head of the family, the father, and they as aunts have not been able to discipline them well.
If children talk about certain issues, it may affect the relationship between brothers and sisters and the harmony of the family.
"yes!"
When the others heard this, they all stood up and responded.
Then Lu Changsheng, Ling Zixiao, Lu Miaoge and others walked out of the meeting hall.
"Sister Miaoge, Zixiao, what problems do you think need to be improved in the family system?"
After returning to the Palace of Eternal Life, Lu Changsheng looked at Lu Miaoge and Ling Zixiao and asked.
He feels that in addition to making profits, the family culture and system must be paid attention to.
In terms of current house rules, they are roughly similar to Qingzhushan.
But Lu Changsheng understood very clearly that his family was completely different from the Lu family of Qingzhushan.
The Lu family in Qingzhu Mountain has a history of hundreds of years. In terms of family ties, the blood relationship is relatively weak, so they pay more attention to rules and clan rules.
And my family is now one family.
To say it is a family, it is better to say it is a big family.
As the head of the family, he doesn't take much care of things on weekdays and is relatively casual about most matters.
Lu Miaoyun, Qu Zhenzhen and others also watched their children grow up.
In this case, they will not be too strict with their children and behave in a completely orderly manner.
"Mr. Lang, regarding the family system, I think there are a few points that need to be paid attention to."
Ling Zixiao glanced at Lu Miaoge and said with a smile.
"Zixiao just say it."
Lu Changsheng said aloud.
He knew that his ability in family management was average, so he was very willing to follow suggestions.
"Mr. Lang, I think the spiritual fields, fisheries, medicinal gardens, family shops, cooperation, etc. should all be handed over to the children."
"In this way, not only can all the children have something to do, but they can also be tempered and improve the family atmosphere."
"Otherwise, it would really not be good for the family if Miaoyun and the others were left to take care of it."
Ling Zixiao opened his mouth and said so.
"Why?"
Lu Changsheng raised his eyebrows and asked.
"Lang Jun, if Miaoyun and the others make mistakes in some family matters, will you punish them?"
Ling Zixiao asked with a half-smile.
"Um"
Lu Changsheng was stunned when he heard this and immediately realized what the problem was.
He shook his head and said honestly: "Probably not, I can say a few words at most."
"That's it. Miaoyun and the others are responsible for many things at home, and now they have to be responsible for these things. They are very busy. Maybe they made some small mistakes, or they may not handle the family affairs well."
"In this case, Lang Jun, you won't say anything, and others will naturally not say anything either. If this happens for a long time, it will appear that the family's rewards and punishments are unknown."
Ling Zixiao came to the table and sat down with a dignified and elegant manner. She poured a cup of tea and continued: "There are many children in the family now. When they are fourteen or fifteen years old, they can arrange things."
"Don't be afraid if you make mistakes at the beginning. The family will give them enough trial and error costs."
"Besides, if the children do something wrong or fail to do it well, we as elders can teach them and say a few words, so the children at home will not feel resentful."
"If your children feel that something their elders are doing is biased or bad, and you don't say anything about it, how dare they say it?"
Ling Zixiao drank tea and said with a smile.
"Changsheng, Sister Ling's words make sense."
Hearing this, Lu Miaoge also sat aside and spoke out.
"Indeed."
Lu Changsheng nodded.
After being treated like this by Ling Zixiao, he clearly realized the problem.
"Sooner or later these matters will have to be handed over to the children, so why not let them do it now."
"During this period, if someone does well, give more rewards. This will also encourage other children in the family to do more."
"Children who are gifted with spiritual roots or are gifted with skills should concentrate on practicing, focusing on their skills, or doing some easy things without spending too much time on affairs."
"As for whether she really has no talent or talent, just let Miaoyun arrange to have a family as soon as possible. It won't be a problem to have some idle people at home."
"Besides, having more children can be considered a contribution to the family."
Ling Zixiao smiled slightly and continued.
"Changsheng is actually like Xianzhi, Ruyi, and Quanzhen are doing quite well, so we can let the children try to do all these things."
"If done well, it can also play an encouraging and leading role."
"And Miaoyun, Huanhuan and the others can also focus on internal affairs and cultivation."
Lu Miaoge nodded slightly, agreeing with Ling Zixiao's opinion.
"Okay, I'll talk to Yun'er and Huanhuan about this later."
When Lu Changsheng heard this, he nodded.
As Ling Zixiao said, the family can still afford to lose money now and has enough trial and error costs.
This will also make it easier for you to teach your children according to their aptitude and make arrangements.
Otherwise, like now, if I make a simple arrangement, I won't pay much attention to it in the future. This will not only affect Lu Miaoyun's arrangement, but also not be thorough enough in exploring the talents of her children.
In addition, he himself also realized a problem.
He and Lu Miaoyun decided to do many things for their children.
After this, some concubines and children may have some opinions in their hearts.
According to what Ling Zixiao said, all matters should be broken down and done according to ability.
If you do well, you will be rewarded; if you do not, you will be replaced.
If nothing can be done well, then get basic benefits at home.
Let the family arrange marriages, start a family early, and have more children.
After the three of them chatted for a while, Lu Changsheng directly called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan, and Qu Zhenzhen.
Neither he, nor Ling Zixiao, nor Lu Miaoge actually intervened and paid too much attention to the family affairs.
So the three of them chatted and called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan and others to understand the actual situation of the family.
After Lu Changsheng expressed his thoughts, Lu Miaoyun and Lu Miaohuan naturally had no objections in this regard.
As Ling Zixiao said, as the matrons in charge of the family, they have a lot of chores to do.
Now he is responsible for a lot of family affairs and is indeed very busy. He doesn't even have time to practice on weekdays.
Fortunately, Lu Miaohuan broke through the seventh level of Qi refining through high-level level-breaking pills.
Lu Miaoyun has not yet broken through the seventh level of Qi refining.
"Okay, Yun'er, Huanhuan, Zhenzhen, I still want you to pay more attention to the internal affairs and personnel matters at home."
"As for spiritual fields, fisheries, medicine gardens, shops, cooperative businesses, etc., don't worry. You can roughly divide them, and we will see how to arrange them when the time comes."
Lu Changsheng spoke up and said this.
"Yes, husband."
Several women responded loudly.
After discussing the situation, everyone started talking about the personality of the children at home.
Lu Miaoyun said that people like Lu Ping'an and Lu Xianzhi at home are quite down-to-earth.
But today some young children are indeed relatively naughty.
On the one hand, there are too many children in the family and it is difficult to discipline them in everything.
On the other hand, it is also related to the family growth environment.
When Lu Changsheng became Qingzhushan's adopted son-in-law, the life of the children at home was somewhat restrictive.
Now, as Lu Changsheng rises in status, the status of these wives, concubines, and children has also increased, which has also affected the children's personalities to some extent.
After chatting with his wife, Lu Changsheng walked out of the Palace of Eternal Life and went to talk to his children.
In his opinion, as an old father, his main job in the family is to coordinate.
He first found his eldest son Lu Pingan.
Ask the son about his family's current situation and his sensory opinions.
Although Lu Ping'an has a somewhat boring and straightforward personality, he still sees many things very clearly.
In his opinion, the biggest problem in the family is brotherly harmony.
With so many brothers in the family, there is not much closeness and friendship.
"well."
When Lu Changsheng heard this, he sighed slightly.
He was not clear about this issue.
Not to mention close friendship and brotherly harmony, in his opinion, there are probably some children who will feel jealous because of their partiality, selfishness, unfairness.
It's just that it won't be revealed in front of the family and major issues of right and wrong.
After chatting with Lu Pingan for a while, he chatted with his son Lu Xianzhi and daughter Lu Ruyi for a while.
Lu Xianzhi's views are somewhat similar to Lu Pingan's.
He has some responsibilities as the eldest brother in the family.
He also said that his talents and abilities were average, yet he was so favored by Lu Changsheng, which was really shameful.
As for her daughter Lu Ruyi, she doesn't have much feeling. She thinks it's pretty good now and she's quite happy.
When he found Lu Quanzhen, he was taking Lu Miaozhen to play with his two other brothers and sisters in Hushan Town.
"Father, the child has seen his father!"
"Daddy, daddy, why are you here?"
Seeing Lu Changsheng, the four of them immediately shouted.
Lu Quanzhen and his son Lu Huai were more mature and bowed respectfully.
The two daughters, Lu Miaozhen and Lu Yuzhen, were relatively close to each other and stepped forward with smiles.
"Haha, today is the family meeting. As a father, I think that the family does not have enough care in many aspects, so I came to chat with you and listen to your thoughts."
"And I think Quanzhen should have something to say when he is at the conference today."
Lu Changsheng looked at his children and said with a smile.
As he said that, he looked at Lu Quanzhen and said gently: "Quanzhen, if you have anything to say about this in the future, you can say it privately or to your father through a message. There is no need to say it in public. Such words will affect the harmony between you brothers. "
"Dad, brother, he has good intentions and has no other intentions."
Lu Miao really thought her father was preaching, so she took Lu Changsheng's arm and said coquettishly.
"Father, I think this kind of thing must be said on this occasion to be effective."
When Lu Quanzhen heard this, his face showed seriousness and he said in a deep voice.
"Aren't you worried about making other people unhappy with your words?"
Lu Changsheng smiled.
He knew that his son had a precocious personality and was very independent.
A few years ago, he sent Lu Quanzhen to Ruyi County to work under Hong Yi, and Hong Yi also praised Lu Quanzhen.
It means that Lu Quanzhen is calm in his work and decisive in killing.
But in fact, as his son grew older, he really didn't know much about his son.
"Don't worry. If they are unhappy and resentful because I mentioned this matter, it means that these people are not on the same page as the family and do not regard me as a younger brother or elder brother. So why should I care about them?"
Lu Quanzhen's eyes were deep and he said calmly.
Lu Changsheng raised his eyebrows when he heard his son's words, probably understanding his thoughts.
He continued to ask: "Then what other thoughts do you have on this aspect?"
"Father, in the child's eyes."
Lu Quanzhen raised his eyebrows slightly and slowly expressed his thoughts.
Lu Changsheng listened quietly.
His son Lu Quanzhen's thoughts and ideas about the family are different from his.
Generally speaking, they emphasize rules and despise family ties.
As Lu Quanzhen said, as a member of the family, you should share the hardships with the family and make contributions to the family.
If you lack this idea, it means that you lack a sense of belonging to the family and do not regard yourself as a member of the family. This should be severely punished and the atmosphere should be corrected.
This set of words even forms a closed loop. You contribute to the family and everyone is a family.
If you don't contribute to the family, you don't count as one of our own. You don't have to be polite to such people.
"Brother, we are all a family, so there is no need to be so strict."
"Besides, everyone has different ambitions, and dad always says just be happy."
Lu Yuzhen next to him stuck out his tongue and said so.
"There are no requirements, just be happy."
When Lu Changsheng heard this, he looked at his daughter thoughtfully.
When I think about it carefully, I never seem to have any requirements for my children, they just want them to be happy.
Even if you can see your children's talents through the system, many things will still follow your children's wishes.
He thought about what his son Lu Wuyu had told him about the Lu family in Ruyi County.
It means that the children of the Lu family will definitely become domineering and need to be strictly controlled.
In fact, I am now in the Lu family of Bihushan, and I also have some tendencies in this regard.
"As a father, I am really too casual about this."
"It doesn't matter if it's a big family, but now when you establish a cultivating family, you still need to have something of a family look."
"After all, my original intention in establishing a family is to provide a better environment for my children to grow up, so that they can continue to grow through the family."
"Instead of relying on me alone to support the family and everyone."
Lu Changsheng thought in his mind.
He looked at Lu Quanzhen and said, "Father, I roughly understand what you are thinking, but this kind of thing cannot be done in one go."
"My father also discussed this aspect with your mother and several aunts today."
Lu Changsheng slowly told Lu Quanzhen.
Since his son has ideas, he is willing to talk more with the other party.
However, his thoughts are still as Ling Zixiao said, and he can change them through guidance.
After all, the current situation of the family has not reached the point that Lu Quanzhen said, and it is necessary to rely entirely on clan rules.
After chatting with his son Lu Quanzhen for a while, the sky gradually darkened, and Lu Changsheng took his children to the Lu family mansion for dinner.
With his level of cultivation, he naturally doesn't need to eat or drink, but occasionally he will satisfy his appetite.
Moreover, monks eating spiritual rice and spiritual meals are also helpful for their spiritual practice.
In the next few days, Lu Changsheng talked with his children at home, paying attention to the situation, and at the same time preparing in advance for changes in the family system.
Half a month later, Lu Changsheng issued new family regulations. All family children who are fourteen years old or older can actively apply for family affairs.
If you have not broken through to the fourth level of Qi refining at the age of sixteen, your family will make arrangements.
Every year, the family calculates the salary and benefits for the next year based on the progress of cultivation, family contribution, and moral character.
(End of chapter)
