"My parents help pick up and drop off the child, so I can concentrate on my work and my life is stable. I don't have anything to worry about." Zhou Wenwen smiled: "So sometimes I think that it is really easy for a man to be a father. Because I wasn’t involved in the whole process, I gave up so easily.”
"I'm done, let's go to Shi Lei, Mengmeng will be last."
Shi Lei thought for a while: "I don't have anything to say. The divorce was purely because our personalities were not suitable for each other. It was difficult for us to have a common language, and our views rarely overlapped. At that time, I felt that it was good that we were different."
"But after we got married, I discovered that we just had different views. Neither of us would be happy if we continued to live like this. Later, we broke up peacefully. She is also remarried now. We have no children and the separation is very clean."
Now everyone's eyes were on Lin Meng, and Lin Meng did not hesitate: "We divorced because my ex-husband had a bad habit of gambling. In fact, he was quite good before, but he got into this bad habit after getting married."
"I have spoken to his parents many times, and each time he vowed never to gamble again, but soon returned to his old ways. Later, the family car was lost, so I divorced him. I didn't want the house to be lost as well."
"After all, my parents also contributed half of the money when I bought the house."
Gao Jing: "You should definitely leave. Once you get involved in gambling, no matter how much money you have, it's not enough to lose."
Lin Meng: "So I divorced. No matter how divorced I am, I don't have to worry about it all the time. I don't have to worry about waking up one day and telling me how much money he lost gambling."
Tan You just listened quietly. She rarely spoke. She would only speak when asked, and she would usually sit aside very coldly.
As for other people's experiences, she rarely gives much facial expression feedback. At most, she raises her eyebrows, purses her lips, and opens her eyes slightly. At other times, she is like an iceberg goddess.
But when she occasionally smiled, her eyes would narrow slightly and her playful rabbit teeth would show. She suddenly went from the cold winter to the warmth of spring. Just looking at her like this, Xu Jike wondered how anyone could be willing to be like this. The girls are separated?
For a moment, Xu Jike was entranced when he looked at Tan You, and Tan You naturally noticed the look in Xu Jike's eyes. She lowered her eyes slightly, rubbed the side of the cup twice, and suddenly felt bored.
When Chi Mo was not so beautiful in his previous life, Xu Jike also fell in love with Chi Mo at first sight. Now his reaction is not surprising to Tan You. It's just that she is carrying Chi Mo's shell now, and she feels a little offended by Xu Jike looking at her like this.
Twisting her fingers, Tan You whispered to the beauty system: "I want to dig out his eyeballs."
The beauty system suddenly took it seriously: "Host, we must abide by the law!"
Tan You suddenly laughed: "Am I the kind of French coffee maker? I just feel a little unhappy. Forget it, he can just watch it if he wants. It won't leave him any less meat."
Tan You's expression changed only for a moment, but the smile in her eyebrows was caught by Xu Jike. He lowered his eyes slightly, so she thought of something happy?
After talking about their respective emotional experiences, the topic started again, this time about their ideal types. Tan You had just taken a sip of tea when she noticed that everyone's eyes were on her.
She put down the cup: "Shall I say it first?"
Gao Jing nodded repeatedly: "Just tell me first, what do you want to find?"
Tan You copied what she told the director: "Just know the basics and don't act evil and don't get jealous."
"Cough cough cough..." Xiang Zhe coughed violently, and it took him a long time to calm down. He finally managed to catch his breath, "Your idea is very special. Why does this sound like something a boy would say to a girl?"
"But you are so beautiful, it is normal to have a suitor, so it seems reasonable to ask him not to be jealous."
"It's just that this consciousness generally doesn't act like a monster...how to explain it?"
Tan You didn't hesitate: "I work in a dance troupe now and often have performances. If I get together with him, I won't give up my job because of him."
"The other party must be able to accept this. If a dancer stops dancing, then my career will be over. I will not give up my dance career because of the other party."
Shi Lei was curious: "But if you get married and have children in the future..."
"Then how much do I have to love him before I am willing to bring a child into this world? I don't object to marriage and having children, but the prerequisite is that I love him enough. It's just that having children will have a great impact on my career."
"Of course, that's for the future. I haven't thought about it at the moment," Tan You said calmly, "Only when you love something sincerely enough can you be willing to enter the next stage of your life."
Gao Jing thought about it and said, "Yes, you are a dancer, and you have extremely high requirements for your figure. And once you give birth to a child, a girl will suddenly age and her figure will be out of shape. For a dancer, this is very deadly."
Tan You: "So when I really get to that point, I will definitely consider it carefully and will not make a decision easily. Since there is no suitable one now, I will work hard for my career."
Zhou Wenwen: "Then you don't have any requirements for the man's external conditions?"
"Yes, as long as he has good facial features. As for other external conditions, he just needs to be able to support himself. I have the money myself, so I have to find someone I like."
Tan You thought for a while and then said: "Of course, if he is a kind person, able to socialize but not lose his edge, able to handle his work and life properly, and not dump negative emotions on people close to him, I don't like this very much. .”
"We are all adults and should digest our own emotions."
As soon as Tan You said this, everyone understood what she meant, especially Gao Jing. She glanced at Xu Jike, who was a little stiff, and hid the smile in her eyes: "Then your requirements are not high, of course you are right, it is not easy for everyone now, why should you accept other people's negative emotions? "
"It's better to drive others crazy than to consume yourself internally." Tan You laughed as soon as she said this. She touched Gao Jing's cup and said, "That's what I think. Who's not a baby?"
"Yes, baby." Gao Jing nearly laughed out loud. She clinked glasses with Tan You and drank the red wine in one gulp.
Everyone laughed, but only Xu Jike, who was opposite Tan You, couldn't laugh. He always felt that Chi Mo's words meant something, but could he take the initiative to ask the other party, are you talking about me?
Isn't this just a rush to get a seat?
Gao Jing was also frank: "After I got divorced, someone also introduced me, and I met several of them, but I felt they were much different. When I got married for the first time, it might have been because of love, but looking back now, there are many factors mixed in. Too complicated."
