"When he told me that he no longer loved me, I was sad, but I felt a strange sense of relief." Gao Jing forced a smile: "Later, I found that we were getting along more and more like family members, rather than lovers. , there is no impulse of love between us."
"For me, if I don't have love but get along like family, I can live a lifetime, but the other person can't." Gao Jing couldn't hold back her tears: "He is a very romantic person at heart, and he always emphasizes feelings."
"The other person doesn't feel anything anymore, so there's no need to keep dragging it out. It's better for both of us to let go. I have two children, both of whom are with me now. My parents live with me, mainly because I'm busy with work and raising children. It’s too hard.”
Tan You just listened silently, her heart was as solid as a rock, and she was not interested in feeling or love at all.
After Gao Jing finished speaking, she looked at Xiang Zhe: "I've finished sharing my story, it's your turn."
Xiang Zhe cleared his throat: "Let me tell you the second one. It has been almost three years since my ex-wife and I divorced. I also have two children with my ex-wife. At that time, I left the house and left the house, car and deposit. They are."
Gao Jing changed her previous disappointment, her face full of gossip: "Why do you do this?"
Just tell me if you are cheating.
Xiang Zhe smiled: "At that time, I was eager to escape from my original family, and there was a job transfer. I moved from T province to S city, and it was difficult for my children to study. For a long time, she had been apart from each other for a long time. fate."
"I don't blame her. It's really hard for her to raise a child by herself. But I can't continue to live on. I can only give them everything I have at the time to save her and the child some hardship."
He spoke lightly, but Tan You understood. She glanced at Shi Xiangzhe, who looked like a gentle man, but Tan You felt that his eyes were cold, which showed that gentleness was just an appearance.
These are in order of seating. To Gao Jing's right is Tan You. Tan You has nothing to say: "My experience is also simple. I have been divorced for two years and I have been married for three months."
"We had a premarital check-up before we got married, and everything was normal at the time. But after we got married, I suddenly fell ill. At that time, the doctor said that I might have difficulty in having children in the future. Later, we divorced after I was discharged from the hospital."
"Ah? Just for this reason? How advanced is medicine now?" Several guests couldn't understand. The key is that medical methods are indeed advanced now.
"The doctor only said it was possible, but he didn't say it was definitely not possible to have children, right?" Gao Jing was confused.
"Yes, that's what the doctor said," Tan You nodded: "Later, when I went for a review, the doctor said there was nothing to worry about, but we had already divorced by then, so it was okay to divorce."
Gao Jing asked again: "So you don't have such hidden dangers now?"
"Of course," Tan You said seriously, "but I won't tell others that I'm fine as soon as I meet them? There's no need."
"It's so wronged," Zhou Wenwen lamented: "While you were being treated, you were filing for divorce at the same time. How uncomfortable must it have been at that time?"
Tan You was very calm: "There must be some sadness, but since you can tell me, it's nothing to me. It's good to be divorced, and I'm living a good life now."
Xu Jike couldn't wait to ask: "Then did you still keep in touch?"
Everyone understood that he was so eager. Several of the male guests exchanged glances, and they all clearly understood.
Tan You: "No, I will not contact him again. Later, I deleted all his contact information. I have no idea where he is now and how he is doing."
"My story is very lackluster, my experience is just that, and I don't have any children, so the cutting was very easy at the time. I have been busy with work in the past two years, my life circle is not large, and I rarely have contact with the opposite sex."
Lin Meng was curious: "But you are beautiful, aren't there any boys chasing you?"
Tan You thought about Chi Mo's suitors: "There are some, but I just don't have the right relationship, and I don't want to rush into a new relationship. The slow coldness is actually very tiring, and I take back the emotions I have given little by little. , the process is very painful.”
"And beauty fades easily. Will I still be this beautiful in ten or twenty years? If he just likes my face, there are too many people more beautiful than me. When I am no longer young, he will like someone more beautiful."
"Knowing that the other person is targeting my face, I would naturally not choose to be with him. This is a kind of contempt for myself."
Xu Jike smiled and said: "So you want others to see your inner meaning?"
"Connotation?" Tan You finally smiled: "Many people talk about connotation, but what exactly is connotation? I think it is more about character than connotation."
"I'm just a very ordinary dancer. All I know and understand is dance. I don't understand a lot of professional knowledge. I'm just a very ordinary person, and I realize that I don't have poetry in my heart."
"Just like you are a lawyer, you know your field very well and are very professional. But I don't know this about you, so the topics we can talk about are very limited..."
Xu Jike was a little anxious: "But I plan to find a girlfriend, not a work partner..."
Tan You wasn't angry either: "I'm just giving you an example, and I don't like talking very much. I prefer to listen to what others say, so in the eyes of others, I will appear introverted and quiet."
"No matter what age they are, men almost all like lively and outgoing people. They say they admire strong women, but in their hearts they still like girls who can look up to them."
Zhou Wenwen took over the conversation: "Momo is right, my ex-husband cheated on a girl ten years younger than him. Even if a man is in his seventies or eighties, he still seems to like young girls who are seventeen or eighteen years old."
Lin Meng: "So we can be like them and find someone younger."
Tan You looked at Zhou Wenwen: "It's his loss if he chooses someone else. You are really good, and the better one is yet to come. Of course, it doesn't matter if you don't look for it. We can still manage our lives well."
Zhou Wenwen smiled: "Yes, I am living very well now. I have a daughter, and my daughter lives with me. Of course, there are other reasons for our divorce besides this matter. Because I gave birth to a daughter, their family wanted A boy."
"And I feel that the burden is too heavy. I also have to be busy with work. Maybe it is because of this..."
Gao Jing: "Don't ever think like this. You are trying to find reasons for the other person to cheat on you. He has just changed his mind and is no longer at home."
Zhou Wenwen took a sip of tea and said: "Maybe, but I found that it was much easier after the divorce. Once I didn't have to deal with the other person's family, my life suddenly became particularly pure."
