"You are obviously a happy family, but he single-handedly destroyed this family and your lives. Do you still think he hasn't sorry for you?" Ou Mengmeng smiled slightly, "I can't say, what he is most sorry for is Children, but in a family, the one who makes a mistake commits a crime against everyone in the family. He feels sorry for every member of the family!"
"So you still don't want to forgive." In fact, Daiyu didn't know what happened to her parents. After all, it was a bit difficult for her age to understand this. Compared to the simple example the old lady just gave, she certainly couldn't understand the cold violence in her parents' marriage. Otherwise, she would not have tried to bring her grandmother and father closer together.
"I said, this has nothing to do with me. My daughter is dead, and she no longer needs to forgive. And with the death of your mother, Lin Hai and I have no relationship at all. It's not like I don't have a son, and I want to rely on my son-in-law. Live your life. The only person we have a common relationship with is you. How can we forgive strangers who have nothing to do with each other?" Ou Mengmeng spread her hands towards Daiyu.
The old lady still thinks of modern people. There is no relationship between the ex-son-in-law and the mother-in-law. Just like if the son dies, the mother-in-law and the ex-daughter-in-law have no legal relationship. Just look at you and you are all good friends. So she didn't feel that she needed to smile back at Lin Hai, she was too lazy to socialize!
"Alas!" Daiyu let out a long sigh. She actually knew that what the old lady said was wrong. At this time, the relationship between relatives was really even that of the same surname, let alone someone like Lin Hai, who was really a son-in-law. Even if he marries another person, he must recognize the Jia family as his godmother. Good for establishing new relationships!
However, Ou Mengmeng refused forcefully. After the death of my daughter, Lin Hai has no relationship with my Jia family. Under this signal, Lin Hai is actually embarrassed. Those who don't know what's going on will naturally think the worst.
"Don't worry, your father and I have nothing to do with each other, but I'm still your grandmother, don't worry, don't worry!" Ou Mengmeng smiled and gently hugged the little girl, "Okay, go to sleep!"
"Don't ask why?" Daiyu still stretched out her head and smiled at her. She came here specially, but the old lady still refused and didn't ask why. It was really sad.
"Why ask 'why'?" I remember one time, Jia Jue asked me why. Remember how I did it? "Ou Mengmeng shook her head at her.
"You asked someone to beat him up." Daiyu said hurriedly.
"Then what?" Ou Mengmeng nodded. Jia Jue received this beating in her hands, which she would never forget even if she wanted to.
"Then he was still asking, and you looked down at him and said, when he asked why, it was already wrong. It's time to get punished!" This Daiyu has a deep memory.
In memory, many people say that Jia Jue is the old lady's favorite grandson. But she has been here for six years, and she doesn't think the old lady's favorite child is him.
But that day, the old lady lowered her head and looked at Jia Jue. When she said those words, she suddenly realized that what the old lady loved most was her children and grandchildren. She pushed them into the outside world and let them know, No need to ask why, in this world, there is no need to ask why. It’s wrong to ask!
"Just understand!" Ou Mengmeng smiled. She didn't want to say it. There was no such nonsense. She didn't want them to ask why. She was too lazy to respond.
Close your eyes and think about it. My daughter also likes to ask why. When she was a child, she had literally a hundred thousand whys. Then her parents, two sons, and her couldn't handle a little dumpling. Then their family had an additional family rule at that time, whoever provoked them was responsible. But it's not bad, the five of them are surrounding a small group, and no one really escapes.
Thinking about it, I feel a little sorry for Daiyu. It seems that she still hasn't been able to really develop feelings for these children after six years, or in other words, she is too lazy to give feelings to them. To Ou Mengmeng, this is just a book, and these are just the NPCs in the book. This is also the reason why she prefers those characters that are not in the book, because she feels that those characters are more real.
"Why, why, if you ask, I have to explain it to you, and then after going back and forth, you are confused, and I am confused too. And explanations come after explanations, everyone has his own inherent ideas, and thinks that he is the most reasonable. In the end, I'm afraid it hurts my feelings. So sometimes, why is it the most annoying
, and the most meaningless question. There are no reasons why, I don’t want to forgive, so I won’t ask you why you insist on my forgiveness. Can I still accuse you of hating your father as I do? Or can you still point to me as someone who sympathizes with your father just like you? Yao'er, don't try to change other people's minds. Even if someone agrees with you, it doesn't mean she really supports you. "Ou Mengmeng said softly.
"This is different from that time with Brother Jue. Brother Jue felt that he was righteous. But that time, you meant that there is no right or wrong in the world. That's why you are not allowed to ask."
"Same! When you ask why, you actually have right and wrong in your mind. When you ask, you feel that you are right and others are wrong. When you ask why, you subconsciously want to convince others. Why means asking the other person to express their point of view. You're welcome to refute. So I don't like you asking why, don't have opinions! When you have opinions, it's already wrong!" Ou Mengmeng smiled.
Thinking of her daughter and grandma, she pulled her sons and asked, "Brother, why don't you take Fei Fei to play?" "The son opened his mouth, and finally picked up Fei Fei and took her to play for half an hour, and then brought her back to do his homework. Because he knew that if he got into trouble with her, he would take her to play no matter what, and he would waste more than half an hour.
Even though the eldest son later entered college and never lost a debate contest, and became a prominent figure in the capital, he never thought of arguing with his daughter. Instead, give her two choices directly and dare to ask more and try! So think about it, their children are indeed smart enough. Never waste time on meaningless things.
Daiyu is actually the smartest among the girls in the Red Mansion. Although she doesn't understand the problem between her grandmother and her father, she also knows that both her grandmother and her father love her, so she can forget it after thinking about it.
But think about it, "Actually, you are quite petty. My father has never said anything wrong with you. He has always told his granddaughter to listen to the old lady and learn from her."
"Well, that's because I'm older than him. I'm the Duke's wife, and he's only in the second rank. I'm over seventy, and he's only over fifty. Also, I have you as a hostage! He dares to talk nonsense If you move, I will ask your brother Chong to turn over his medicine, and he will lie down at home without even daring to fart." Ou Mengmeng snorted.
Daiyu covered her head. She decided to forget it and let her father and grandmother keep a distance from each other in the future! It tests the heart so much.
