"You don't say he's cute, but you say he's not cute?" Ou Mengmeng was speechless. She looked at Changlong and felt a little pity for her, "I believe you love your child, I really believe it."
Changlong raised his head. Now she didn't know what to do. She lost her temper and the old lady didn't respond. When two people quarreled, they couldn't quarrel. The old lady still says that now, should she cry or laugh.
Ou Mengmeng smiled and patted her hand gently. Thinking about it, she sighed softly. Who doesn't love their children? She looked at the empty door, her eyes blurred again, "But In this world, being a parent does not require exams, so how can you love your children correctly and there is no standard answer?"
"Are you saying I'm wrong?" Princess Changlong regretted it. This person was indeed not a good person. She was here to make trouble for herself.
"No! There is nothing necessarily right or wrong. In fact, I have always thought that I am a good mother and a good teacher, and that my children are particularly outstanding, well-behaved, and kind. But after all this, I discovered that I am not. I always I was afraid that they would rely on me. Now I realize that it was because I didn’t dare to rely on them that I deliberately distanced myself. In fact, I love them too much.”
"What do you want to say?"
"It's okay. Just come and sit down if you miss the child. Our family doesn't care about this. Now that Wang is gone, Yao'er doesn't need to call anyone else's wife. It's the same as being a relative who comes and goes often." Ou Meng Meng waved her hand, saying what else could she say to those who didn't understand.
"That's my son!" Princess Changlong muttered in frustration. The old lady said this as if they didn't care. The problem was that this was her son. I have raised a son who is almost 30 years old, and now he doesn’t want his parents for a woman. The Jia family has taken advantage of it, and they still say such nice things, saying they don’t care. Of course you don’t care. You got it for nothing. We have lost a big one. living person.
Ou Mengmeng smiled but said nothing, because at this point, there was nothing more she could say. Yes, he has grown up so big, he is now in the fourth rank, and he is the mainstay of the court. Now, with a piece of imperial edict, he has become someone else's son. If it were him, he wouldn't be able to do it.
But as she just said, parents don't need to take exams. They have to obtain a certificate to become parents. This will be a feudal dynasty. To be honest, it is a bit like those countries in later generations that are known as lighthouses. The child is not yours, but the country's. The state can deprive you of your ability to raise children at any time, as long as they feel you are not qualified. In those days, children over the age of eighteen were not considered children, but here, anyone with parents is considered a child. The emperor is the parent. What you say doesn’t count, it’s the emperor who says it.
"Does the character have the character "瑆'er"? Ou Mengmeng changed the question. Their family had always called him Xiong Er before, without thinking much about it. Now that they are in the Jia family, they are the generation with the character Yu, so they changed the name directly. So I just called him by his new name, Brother Zhuan, actually because it was similar to the word "lucky". As for handwriting, it is usually given by the teacher and does not need to be changed. However, I have never asked, but now that I think about it, it is just right. If I ask directly in the future, maybe I can blur the last name naturally.
"When performing the crowning ceremony, please ask the old sage to give you the word 'not heavy'." At that time, he was clamoring to go to the Ministry of Punishment, and he... The master said that he would be allowed to go if he passed the Jinshi examination. The exam was about to take place at that time, so I went to the palace to ask the old sage to give me the calligraphy, and also wanted to persuade him not to do this. At that time, the old sage gave him the word "not heavy" and also gave him marriage." Changlong felt very angry when he thought about it. The road in his family was clearly paved for him, but as a result, it ended up like this.
"The Master said: If a gentleman is not serious, he will not be powerful, and if he is learned, he will not be solid. The master is loyal and has no friends who are inferior to himself. Don't be afraid to change if you make mistakes." Ou Mengmeng nodded and thought about it, "The sage hopes that Yao'er will respect himself and be serious. Of course, people also hope that they can be stable and self-possessed, otherwise, they will not be respected. It is great to achieve this."
Changlong turned his head and looked at the old lady. When she got this word, she actually felt uncomfortable. When she got home, her husband and eldest son liked it and said the same thing. Although she had been studying since she was a child, she came here so casually like an old lady, as if she was just like her husband and eldest son. Only people who are bad at studying would do this.
"People will call him 'not serious' in the future." "Ou Mengmeng looked at Changlong and smiled, and said softly.
"Old lady, am I wrong?" Changlong burst into tears. He said one thousand and said ten thousand. In fact, she also knew
He said, this has nothing to do with the Jia family. I'm afraid the Jia family is still troubled. Most of the property of the second wife has to be given to this eldest son. Even though he is a fourth-rank official, he is not a well-off official. Say one thousand to one The one who suffers the loss is the Jia family. What's more, if others don't know, how can she know how much her son likes Jia Yuan. Is it more painful for him to be Jia Yuan's brother now than for them to never meet each other?
Today, she actually came to see the old lady. She actually didn't know why, she just wanted to see her. She didn't know what result she wanted, but she had no one to talk to and no place to talk.
"Now I can only tell you that you are not wrong in not allowing him to marry the maid. The old saint adopted him into the Jia family to punish him and the Jia family. In this matter, you are not Wrong." The old lady thought about it and said.
"So you don't support it either!" Princess Changlong was excited and looked at her anxiously.
"Yes, I told him, I don't support it." Ou Mengmeng smiled and looked at Changlong.
"But you still changed the child's identity, and you still want to let him go?" Changlong looked at the old lady, obviously you don't support it, but in order to please the child, you help others change their names. This is your lack of support. ?
"I just said that the child's identity is Master Meng's granddaughter. By the way, you also know Meng Jie, remember? One time you went to play, Meng Jie and the Duke of Guo came together with the old saint. Old Sage. The saint kept praising Meng Jie at that time. That time, Meng Jie did the old saint a small favor. He didn't ask for a reward, but he just felt that it was what he should do, so he hid behind the Duke of Guo. After that, you danced When Qiu scolded Meng Jie as a fool, Min'er laughed and said, Meng Jie is like that! Yin'er is Meng Jie's only daughter. If you think about Meng Jie's appearance and the old teacher, you will know that I I didn't lie to you." Ou Mengmeng spread his hands, thinking about it now, the name Meng Jie is really useful, he really knows everyone. As soon as I mentioned it, all kinds of images came to my mind.
"Meng Jie's daughter?" Changlong was startled for a moment, but immediately snorted, "That's also an unknown identity."
"You really are. Meng Ji's identity is unknown, but our Meng Yin's identity is clear. Her mother is the daughter of a serious scholar. You, tell me about your dog-tempered temper. When have parents ever been able to overcome their children? Now that Meng Yin has an identity, it's better than having no identity, right? Aren't you wrongfully offending your son and wife? Don't be afraid of offending just because he is your own child." Ou Mengmeng was a little speechless when she saw Changlong like this. What’s the point of still making trouble after this has happened?
