"Be surprised." Yang Jinghong looked at my shocked look and said seriously: "I know as much about Shuanghuo as you do. Your purpose of meeting her is not primarily about love at all. This is a perverted practice. The method is to enter the Tao through emotions, and to abandon emotions and cut off desires."
"It's true that the two parties will be very affectionate when they are together, but this kind of love is too extreme, and it is simply unbearable and cannot withstand the storm. Once separated, the two parties will miss each other compulsively like being burned by fire. Each other is like people dying of thirst in the desert, it’s really miserable.”
"Yes, yes, you are right, Sister Jinghong." I said quickly. The situation between Xiao Mengxin and I for so many years has been incomprehensible to outsiders, and no one knows what twin fires are, so there is no way to tell others.
Originally, I was just depressed when I told her about Meng Xin and I, but I didn't expect that she knew a lot about Shuanghuo.
I felt like I had found a soulmate, "Sister Jinghong, you are right. When we separated for the first time, it cost me half of my life. The pain of not being able to be with the other person because of the compulsive yearning was like It’s like being put in a frying pan, life is worse than death.”
"So, you have to forget her even more." Yang Jinghong's words stunned me.
Since she knew that Shuanghuo would miss each other compulsively, why did she still advise me to forget Xiao Mengxin?
Just when I was confused, Yang Jinghong pondered a little and said: "Actually, I feel that twin flames may not be able to forget each other. It depends on whether you want to or not."
"Can you really forget the other person?" I asked in astonishment: "Then tell me quickly. I don't want to think about her compulsively all the time. It's simply too torturous. Moreover, every time we break up, my heart will hurt, and even my soul will hurt." trembling."
I was really afraid that my heart would still hurt at night and I would roll around in bed.
Seeing that I was determined to forget Xiao Mengxin, Yang Jinghong's face softened a lot and said: "This method is actually very simple, just find another woman to replace her. After a long time, she may really forget."
I was shocked inside and didn't wait to speak.
She leaned forward and looked into my eyes seriously, "What I said is true. I think you are suitable to find a gentle woman, with a better personality and a more generous personality, who cares and loves you. Over time..."
"That's impossible, don't say it." I thought she had some good idea, but I didn't expect that she asked me to find a spare tire. I said seriously: "First of all, except for her, I don't like any woman at all. Besides, I haven't forgotten her yet, so I look for other women. This is also an irresponsible behavior. Isn't it equivalent to using others as healing medicine? I am not a scumbag."
"You are quite responsible, but many couples have changed their relationship from healing medicine to a positive relationship. Most of the young people who broke up quickly found a new partner and forgot about the previous one in this way." Yang Jinghong He rolled his eyes and said, "Besides, even if you don't want to find a woman, it's okay to stay with a buddy. I've told you many times that buddies are for life."
I don't agree with her remarks. What I want is a warm home. Can you give me a home? It's impossible for me to do that kind of thing of treating others as healing medicine.
I didn't want to dwell on what happened to me, so I changed the subject and asked: "Sister Jinghong, stop talking about me, can you tell me what happened to your parents? Since they are married, doesn't it mean that their union has been successful? Why did it happen that your father gave your mother to..."
I didn't continue talking, but Yang Jinghong's expression suddenly twisted in pain. After a long time, he sighed and said, "Do you think that once you get married, your union is successful? The road to union between twin flames is a hundred times harder than you think. "
She looked at me very seriously, "Boy, I didn't want you to be together before, but now that I know you are twins, I don't want you to be together even more, because you might explode like my parents in the future. There was a fierce conflict, causing Xiao Mengxin to kill you, or you to kill her!"
My heart pounded, I took a deep breath and frowned and asked, "Sister Jinghong, is it so serious? Can it really develop into a situation where we are killing each other? Also, sister Jinghong, can you tell me, your father Why did you kill your mother?"
Although it is impolite to directly ask people about their pain points, I am really too curious and it is very important for the future development of Xiao Mengxin and me.
"What, you don't believe it?" Yang Jinghong raised his eyebrows, "Boy, think about it carefully. If I hadn't rescued you just now, what do you think would have happened if you were kidnapped by the Xiao family? Even if you don't die, you have to Take off your skin."
My eyelids twitched a few times, and I felt that she was right. With a ruthless person like Xiao Haotian, falling into his hands would definitely not end well.
"As for the reason why my father killed my mother..." Yang Jinghong looked sad but also very resentful. He took a deep breath and said: "In short, the road to the two fires is full of thorns. The unity between you two In the process, all the enemies and creditors from the past life will come to you, there are people and ghosts, and they will try their best to prevent you from being together."
"An enemy and creditor for many lifetimes?" I frowned, remembering that Zen had said this before.
"That's right." Yang Jinghong looked at me, "Anyone who hinders you from being together is an enemy and creditor. For example, Xiao Mengxin's parents, her friends, or that ghost old lady may be your enemy. Dear creditor.”
"You may have hurt them in a certain life, so even if they have no memory of the previous life in this life, once the opportunity is ripe, you will encounter them, and they will retaliate against you in various forms and hinder your unity. This involves the power of cause and effect.”
I understand what she means by this, that the power of cause and effect is the power of mysterious rules that the mind cannot understand and science cannot confirm and explain.
For example, some people go out and stand on the sidewalk, but they are still hit by a car. Although the driver who hit you did not mean it, this is a manifestation of cause and effect.
In a certain life, you must have hurt the driver. Maybe the driver was a beast. You killed him and ate him, so in this life he will take revenge on you by the power of the rules of cause and effect.
Or, if you just find some people inexplicably unpleasant to you, and even want to kill them, then this person may be your enemy in previous lives. This is not a joke or nonsense.
All dharmas are empty, cause and effect are not empty.
The six paths of reincarnation are a combination of causes and conditions. Destinations come and go, and everything cannot escape cause and effect.
"Moreover, some creditors will hide in your alaya consciousness, making you suspicious of each other, causing your relationship to be unhappy, and making you unable to guard against it." Yang Jinghong's words stunned me again.
"Alaya Consciousness?" I asked in shock, "Enemies and creditors will hide in the Alaya Consciousness to take revenge on us. How is this possible?"
This is the first time I heard her say this.
It is said in Buddhism that people have eight consciousnesses, the first six of which are eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and mind. It is precisely because of these six consciousnesses that people have various desires, which makes them miserable.
Wanting more after you have got it is the pain of greed.
Wanting what you can't get is the pain of not getting what you want.
The ultimate goal of the practitioner is to cultivate all the six consciousnesses and even the seventh consciousness into emptiness and gain great freedom.
The seventh consciousness is the consciousness of not being, which is your attachment. You can't let go, forget, or forget. This is attachment.
The last consciousness is Alaya consciousness, which is equivalent to everyone’s information database.
All the good and evil deeds you have done throughout your lifetime will be stored in the Alaya Consciousness. Doing good deeds will plant the seeds of goodness, and vice versa.
Once the opportunity matures, the seeds of good and evil will manifest, and the person concerned will receive different retributions of good and evil. The place of reincarnation of a person is also determined by the seeds of good and evil in Alaya Consciousness.
For example, some people are reborn as beasts to be slaughtered, some people are reborn into poor families and spend their entire lives in poverty, while some people are born with a golden key in their mouths and live a life of glory and wealth. These are all the effects of cause and effect.
However, I didn’t understand what Yang Jinghong meant when he said that enemies and creditors would be hidden in Alaya’s consciousness.
She looked at the tangled expression on my face and explained seriously: "The enemies hidden in your eighth consciousness will not appear in your life to directly retaliate against you, but they will push you many thoughts that are not conducive to the development of you and Xiao Mengxin. For example, you may occasionally suspect that the other person doesn't love you anymore, or is having sex with other men? You may even have worse ideas, which can cause conflicts."
I was shocked when I heard this. If this was really the case, I was horrified to think about it. Wouldn't this mean that my thoughts were being manipulated?
Yang Jinghong paused and said again: "These thoughts seem to be your own, but in fact, the negative thoughts are all pushed to you by your creditors. This is the case for each of us. This is the sad thing about beings in the six realms. Cause and effect are like the same The big cage keeps us trapped in it and we can’t escape.”
I took a deep breath and fell into deep thought. Her words gave me a new understanding of the power of cause and effect.
