Xiao Qilei really came to persuade me to get back together with Xiao Mengxin. Haha, the more he behaves like this, the calmer I have to be.
"I'm sorry." I objected directly: "Brother Lei, if you are here to talk about her and me, there is no need to say any more, we are over."
"No, Xiao An, listen to me." Xiao Qilei said a little anxiously: "My sister has explained your affairs to me in detail. Although she left three months ago in a hurry, she was really forced to do so. Women are very complicated on the inside, can you put yourself in my shoes and think about it?"
"If you are a woman and you have sex with a man you have just met for two days, and you have to go home to meet your parents together, can you accept it? I think this is absolutely crazy."
"So she can leave without saying goodbye?" I stood up and said angrily: "Brother Lei, let me tell you clearly, if I were a woman, I would never say goodbye to her in such an extreme way."
If you don't like it, why stay together, and if you stay together, why stay apart, that's what I think.
Since we should cherish each other when we are together, even if it feels inappropriate, I will speak to the other person in a very gentle tone in a way that does not hurt the other person's self-esteem.
Or, even if I can't accept the relationship developing too fast, I will tell the other person to be friends first and give each other a buffer time.
Instead of saying goodbye like Xiao Mengxin, leaving only a piece of letter paper and a photo before leaving, and the content of the letter paper was so harsh.
"No, Xiao An, do you know?" Xiao Qilei suddenly said: "My sister has been very uncomfortable for more than three months. She is often in a daze. You..."
"Then I almost died in the past three months, all because of your sister." I said with red eyes: "Brother Lei, you really don't need to persuade me anymore, I have made up my mind."
"No, Xiao An, my sister really likes you. In all these years, he has never had any affection or affection for other men, but for you..."
"Are you trying to say that your sister comes from a wealthy family, and there are many outstanding men chasing her. She ignores all the men, and then she likes me, so I should accept her? Or that this is my honor?"
After I said these words, Xiao Qilei's face suddenly froze and he hesitated. This must be what he was thinking in his heart.
Yes, I am a rich and powerful young lady, but I am just a rural child with nothing, but I want to be strong! ! !
"Also, you just said that Xiao Mengxin really likes me. If I really like me, can I say such unfeeling words that hurt my self-esteem?" After I said that, I took out Xiao Mengxin's letter from my arms, handed it over and said, "You Look."
"This..." Xiao Qilei took the letter and looked at it, his face suddenly became uncertain.
"If she really likes her, what can she say about her liking mature and good men? If she really likes her, what can she say that my worth is not worthy of her?" My breathing gradually became faster and my voice became louder, "She is just being mean. You look down on me!"
"Here, you...hey!" Xiao Qilei sat weakly on the sofa, with the letter on the coffee table, silent.
"What did your sister write?" At this time, my eldest sister came out of the kitchen and put the letter on the table. She quickly came over and picked up the letter and read it for a while. Her face suddenly turned cold. She looked at Xiao Qilei and said coldly: " Qilei, what your sister said is really irritating. You can’t say this even after breaking up. Doesn’t this clearly mean that my brother is inferior to the men who pursue her?”
"I..." Xiao Qilei hesitated.
"Huh, I'm really experienced. I didn't expect your sister to be this kind of person who looks down on others." After the eldest sister finished speaking, she slapped the letter on the table and entered the kitchen again.
"Hey." Xiao Qilei sighed, looked at me and said: "Xiao An, what my sister said is indeed a bit excessive and hurts a man's self-esteem, but I still hope you can understand her. She must have been very conflicted in her heart at that time! "
"And..." Xiao Qilei looked at the kitchen again and said to me: "Xiao An, your eldest sister and I are a couple. If you and my sister are a couple, it will be even better. You..."
I waved my hand and refused, saying that these were two different things. Then Xiao Qilei might be really anxious, and he didn't know how to persuade me.
He actually said that as long as I was with her sister, with their family's strength, I could get ahead and prosper. He started to seduce me with value.
I immediately became very angry and said: "Brother Lei, please stop talking. I am just like my eldest sister. I value feelings and despise value. Money and value are dispensable in my eyes. You can use Attracting me to value will only make me more and more disgusted with you brothers and sisters, and..."
I leaned forward, lowered my voice and said slowly: "You must never use your value to make my eldest sister happy in the future, otherwise she will definitely break up with you."
"Ah?" Xiao Qilei's body trembled when he heard this, and his face became a little unnatural. He took out a delicate square box from his arms, glanced at the kitchen and whispered: "Xiao An, my jewelry store is opening today, I just have it. I want to give you a diamond necklace for your eldest sister, you..."
"You better forget it." I looked at the box with exquisite and high-end packaging and said: "If you give it to my eldest sister, my eldest sister will definitely not want it, and there will be psychological pressure. If you really want to give her a gift, you can use it yourself. Give it to her with ordinary handmade materials tied with flowers or something, and she will be happier."
"This..." Xiao Qilei sighed after hearing this, and put the necklace in his arms unwillingly.
I emphasized again: "What my eldest sister wants is your love for him, not the value of your gift, you know?"
Having said this, others may think that I am a bitch for refusing such an expensive gift for my eldest sister.
But I know my eldest sister very well. As a woman, she places much more emphasis on emotional purity than I do.
If Xiao Qilei gives such an expensive gift, my eldest sister will definitely feel that he is using material things to build a relationship with her. So what about the day when there is no material things?
Are such feelings pure?
To use another analogy, even if my eldest sister receives a gift, she will feel very stressed. She will definitely return a gift of the same value in a short time.
This is the same as value exchange. If you develop the habit of using material things to maintain your feelings, your feelings will eventually deteriorate.
"Hey, I'm really impressed by you siblings." Xiao Qilei sighed: "Actually, that's what I like about your eldest sister. The less she wants something, the more I want to give her!"
"Brother, it's time to eat." The eldest sister came out from the kitchen with braised vegetables, looked at us and said, "What are you muttering about?"
"It's okay, let's eat." I stood up and looked at Xiao Qilei and said, "Let's eat something together."
"If you don't want to eat, I'll just watch you eat." After Xiao Qilei finished speaking, he sat at the table and praised, "It tastes really good."
"It's really delicious. Just eat a bowl. Sitting there, you look like you're begging for food." The eldest sister gave him a look and picked out a bowl of noodles and put some braised noodles on it.
Xiao Qilei took a bite, his eyes lit up and he said it was really delicious, and then he started eating it. I thought to myself that this person is really good.
After a while, Xiao Qilei looked at me again and asked why Xiao Mengxin dreamed of me three months ago and why our relationship developed so fast.
She also said that the boy she likes is me, and if it were anyone else, he would definitely not agree. It’s not that I dislike my rural background, but that the relationship is developing so fast, and he can’t accept it.
Regarding this point, even if I told him the truth, I might not understand it. I just said that we were destined to be friends or husband and wife in the previous life. Xiao Qilei looked thoughtful.
After finishing the meal, Xiao Qilei looked at me and said seriously: "Xiao An, no matter what, I still hope you will be with my sister. I hope you can think about it carefully."
I waved my hand and said nothing, and he reluctantly stopped talking about it. After drinking tea for a while, Xiao Qilei said he would take us for a walk tomorrow.
He also said that if his sister asked me to get back together tomorrow, even if I disagreed, she would ask me to speak more politely. He also said that before he came, Xiao Mengxin cried to tears.
My heart ached slightly, but I suppressed it quickly, but I guess she didn't tell her elder brother what I said sarcastically to Xiao Mengxin.
Otherwise, Xiao Qilei will definitely not give me a good face.
After chatting for a while, Xiao Qilei left with a dejected face.
After closing the door, I looked back at my eldest sister and said, "Sister, Xiao Qilei wanted to give you a necklace just now, but I rejected it. You won't be angry, right?"
"Give me a necklace?" The eldest sister was stunned for a moment, then shook her head like a rattle and said, "I don't want a necklace. I'm under pressure and I still owe favors. I can't do it."
Just guess what my eldest sister would say. Immediately afterwards, the eldest sister moved her mobile phone, and we each played our own things. At nearly nine o'clock, the eldest sister returned to the bedroom after taking a bath.
After I returned to the room and took off my clothes, I sat cross-legged and meditated. The image of Xiao Mengxin crying bitterly appeared in my mind, praying that my words would continue to echo in my ears.
"Hey." I sighed deeply, feeling uneasy again. I had hurt the person I loved most, which made me feel a little bit guilty.
But when I thought of the more than three months of torture, I gritted my teeth and suppressed all my guilty thoughts, feeling that I had done the right thing.
"You did indeed do the right thing!" Zen, who had not spoken for a long time, suddenly spoke, "If you easily agree to get back together, she may not take you seriously, and the more you ignore her, the more she will pester you like a follower. That’s the strange thing about twin flames.”
"Of course." I took a deep breath and said, "From any perspective, I will not easily agree to her prayer, even if she is the other half of my soul."
"Well, it's good for you to do this. Remember, you are like the positive and negative poles of a magnet." Zen said again: "When you miss her and focus on her, she will not be able to do anything." I won’t pay attention to you.”
