"Why?" I asked curiously.
"Xiao Mengxin is different from a money-worshiping girl." Zen suddenly said: "You have to distinguish the difference between a strong woman and a money-worshiping girl. Most of the money-worshiping girls are mistresses who like money. They are like trash and have no ability and nothing. They only think about it every day. They just sit back and enjoy the success, hoping that a man will give them money to take care of them, or act like a sugar daddy.”
"But Xiao Mengxin's temperament shows that she is a strong woman with extremely high self-esteem. Her family conditions are so good and she has the ability to make money. She cannot be a sugar daddy or a mistress like a prostitute."
Zen explained to me in detail, "Xiao Mengxin's emphasis on value is not about worshiping money, but only high-value and excellent individuals will impress them. To be more precise, what she values is the excellent nature of the other person."
"Isn't high value a manifestation of money? Doesn't Xiao Mengxin still like money?" I said unconvinced.
"The two are fundamentally different." Zen continued: "The rich second-generation dandy also has money, but Xiao Mengxin will definitely not look at such a trash person, while the gold-worshiping girl only cares about money, and the dandy is their Target."
"On the contrary, Xiao Mengxin prefers men who achieve great things through their own efforts. Only such people can enter their eyes."
When I heard the words, my expression kept changing, thinking deeply about what Zen said.
"If..." Chan sat cross-legged in the void and said: "If you start a business as a grassroots and finally build a business empire for yourself, then Xiao Mengxin will definitely look at you with admiration. They like this kind of excellent people. people."
"However, when she met you this time, she fell in love with you uncontrollably, and even lost control of herself and gave her body to you, a country boy. In her opinion, this is something that she cannot understand at all. Her current world view must be It is a state of collapse and madness, so she is pulled between the love of her soul and the judgment of her mind, and she must feel uncomfortable in her heart."
"Humph." I said coldly: "To put it bluntly, don't you still think that I have no money and no power? Besides, she can still feel uncomfortable? She deserves it."
I got to the point of what I said, and it felt like she just looked down on people.
"Maybe, that's what her mind thinks, but her soul really loves you. This is the reason why the soul longs for reunion and the ego's judgment creates separation." Zen spread his hands and said.
However, I couldn't listen to Zen's words at all. The focus was all on Xiao Mengxin's abandonment of me. This humiliating feeling of being abandoned and looked down upon made me extremely angry.
I really wanted to kill her.
I looked at Zen fiercely and said fiercely: "You said her soul still loves me, right? Well, then I will swear to find her, tie her to a stool, and brainwash her..."
I want to point my finger at Xiao Mengxin and curse, you are a value-oriented person, your soul loves me, give up your mind and logical analysis, your soul loves me, you should be with me.
I want to brainwash her into an idealist like me.
"Don't do this." Zen said quickly: "If you try to chase her and find her on the physical level, then you will never meet again."
"What does this mean?" I frowned and asked curiously.
"Remember, you are souls, not thoughts and heads. From now on, you are like magnets that are broken apart, with positive and negative poles. You cannot focus on her."
Zen said with a serious expression: "As long as you think about her obsessively, the thought of her will push her away, causing her to not remember you at all. The final result is that she will completely forget you. There is no trace of you inside, and that’s the wonder and weirdness of twin flames.”
"Well, I still can't miss her? But I found that I can't control my compulsive thinking of her. She will run away from me when I miss her? How can I prevent her from running away from me?" I asked quickly, fearing that Xiao Mengxin would forget. I.
"This is just the beginning for you, and you will suffer in the future. Because the same soul has an energy connection, you can never stop the behavior of compulsively thinking about her. You will always miss her, and in the days to come, you will always love her. Wandering in the mood of hatred and hatred, it is miserable, and..."
I was curious to ask him, didn't he just say that I thought Xiao Mengxin would cause her to run away from me? Then I still can't control the thought of her. Isn't this an unsolvable problem?
Zen suddenly focused his eyes and said again: "And if you want her to come back to you, you can't be obsessed with the thoughts in your mind. You have to look at the thought of missing her and go back and forth. Don't be obsessed with this thought. After a long time, She will naturally come back to you. Be prepared to say that you must completely give up on her from the bottom of your heart. You cannot make being with her a goal, but focus on your spirit. Only in this way can you have the possibility of being together and appearing by your side. "
"Pay attention to the back and forth of thoughts?" I asked curiously, "Isn't this the practice method of the Four Zen and Eight Concentrations? Also, why don't I think about her and give up on her, so that she can appear by my side?"
Thinking about her will cause her to run away, thinking about her will cause her to come back to me. I feel so conflicted and confused.
"Because you are not the brain, the brain is the idea and the judgmental heart. As long as you are attached to the thought of being with her, it means that she exists, which means that you are not one, which will push her further and further. The further away.”
"But the soul is consciousness, not thoughts and brains. When you don't cling to thoughts and focus on improving your spiritual and soul realm, it means that you are one. Then, Xiao Mengxin will start to miss you and you focus on your own soul consciousness. If you don’t hold on to your thoughts, she will naturally miss you.”
"Because she is also your soul. If you focus on your soul, she will miss you, and the universe will send her to you and appear by your side in any incomprehensible and wonderful way, such as chance encounters and so on. You know Yet?"
"This..." I frowned and thought deeply after hearing this. I couldn't understand it at first, but I soon understood what Zen meant.
The consciousness of Zen is that we are one soul and have never been separated. I am her and she is me, we are one.
But my thought of her means that she exists. Since she exists, it means that we are not one, and she will escape from me. It is the thought that causes our separation.
But when I stop obsessing about her, return to my inner self, focus on the improvement of my soul, and do not judge any thoughts, it is equivalent to returning to my own soul.
I have returned to my soul and do not judge, which means that we are one, because the soul is not thoughts, but consciousness, and consciousness has no judgment.
In addition, Xiao Mengxin is the reason for my soul. If I focus on soul improvement, she will not run away from me, but will start to miss me and finally return to me.
Because she is my soul, and if I focus on the improvement of my soul, her body will naturally return to me.
However, although I know this principle, my body and mind are always controlled by the emotions of my head. I still hate her very much.
Zen noticed my thoughts and said again: "Actually, you don't have to hate her. She loves you more than you love her, and she wants to be with you more than you want to be with her."
"Then why is she so heartless? Did she leave me because of issues of value? Did she push her away just because I missed her?" I said angrily in dissatisfaction.
