Chapter 107 Eighty-Old Doorstep (107) Cage
"It is precisely because you have experienced it that you have experience!" Mo Hongmei looked at Mo Hongying eagerly and said hopefully, and quickly added, "Sister, don't be angry."
"Then what I want to say is to pour cold water on your mind that has been dazzled by love." Mo Hongying looked at her without blinking and said, "Do you want to listen?"
"Listen, I feel better prepared. Mothers don't talk about this. Just get married when you reach the age where you should get married! After marriage, you just have to endure it! You can just live life, what else do you want." Mo Mo Hongmei pursed her lips and muttered, "You never tell me what to do?"
"Because there is no standard answer to marriage, and everyone's marriage is different." Mo Hongying shook her head and laughed, "It's like: happy families are all similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes."
"There is no right answer, so we can avoid detours! We can't be bruised and bruised, and we are not allowed to get divorced. They are also bundled together, and it is the same in every household." Mo Hongmei rolled her eyes and said, "If he hadn't been arrested by the police Yes, I think it’s difficult for you.”
"Let's put it this way!" Mo Hongying looked at her with her clear and bright eyes and said, "Marriage is like a cage. You don't need others to seduce you, you will deceive yourself. There is a bright future in the cage."
"Yes, yes! That's right." Mo Hongmei nodded and said, "My life at home is not good, and I always feel that life will be better once I get married. How is this possible? Bet your future on others, It is tantamount to a huge bet on his character and whether he has a conscience."
"Yes! Everyone will become a gambler. Bet that he will love me forever, bet that he will change for the sake of the family, bet that having children will retain the lover who has changed his heart. If someone wins, someone will lose." Mo Hongying spread out her arms. He said with his hands, "And I choose to let myself go." He said calmly, "So I lose!" He looked at her with calm eyes and said, "Year after year, when the tide of love recedes, there is only a piece of chicken feathers left in life. , be mentally prepared!”
"Life isn't just like that. After seeing it too much, it's almost the same." Mo Hongmei looked at her calmly and said.
"If you find after marriage that the person you married is not a human being, then choose the right lifestyle and don't wrong yourself. If you find that you and your husband have different views, treat him as an ordinary friend and do whatever he wants. Don't have delusions. Change him." Mo Hongying looked at her with clear water eyes and said.
"It's easy to change a country, but it's hard to change one's nature." Mo Hongmei looked at her intently and said.
"That's right! Because you can't change your inner upbringing, so why bother yourself!" Mo Hongying raised her index finger and said, "Some people are determined not to get along. If they get involved in pornography, gambling and drugs, they will be finished."
"We don't have many here! We don't have the chance to come into contact with these!" Mo Hongmei looked at her hesitantly and said.
"Before the reform and opening up, we announced that there was no AIDS! Now there is." Mo Hongying looked at her with clear eyes and said, "As I said just now, everything has two sides. After opening up the country, the advanced technology introduced, etc., But the dross will also come in.”
"We definitely don't want men who beat their wives." Mo Hongying looked at them seriously and said, "If you dare to do anything, just beat them back."
"I'm not afraid of that." Mo Hongmei said with a smile, "I've learned grappling and fighting." She suddenly remembered, "Can I beat Chen Zhe?"
"What do you think! He is a criminal police officer, not an ordinary police officer from the police station." Mo Hongying looked at her with her beautiful eyes and asked.
"In this way, I really can't beat him. I'll ask him later if he beats his wife?" Mo Hongmei said stupidly.
"How can he say that?" Mo Hongying shook her head and laughed.
"What he said is still trustworthy." Mo Hongmei looked at her with dark eyes and said.
"Okay! We won't make decisions about things that haven't happened." Mo Hongying looked at them with cold and deep eyes and said, "Don't believe that the prodigal son will never return with gold. That only exists in literary works, and there is almost no reality. I don't We think God will take care of us." Then he added, "Never give people who have hurt us a second chance. People in this world are unpredictable, and the evil of human nature is far beyond imagination." Then he added, "The case of the red woolen coat, The murderer is an honest ordinary person! Who would have thought that he would not be merciless at all when killing people."
Mo Hongmei shuddered. Until now, this red woolen coat was kept at the bottom of the box and would never see the light of day.
"When you feel all kinds of discomforts in your marriage, you should trust your instincts, don't numb yourself, and pretend that nothing happened." Mo Hongying looked at her with eyes like black jade and said, "Don't have the thought of saving Feng Chen. ."
"What do you mean?" Mo Hongmei looked at her confused and said.
"Now it's not that men are not bad and women don't love! Use love to influence men. Don't think about redeeming others, no one can be redeemed." Mo Hongying chuckled and sneered, "That's purely insane, just like it You also need to love someone with good character and good education, so that even if they are separated, they will not hurt you. Why would you like a rotten man in the trash can! Don't underestimate the ugliness of human nature. No matter how good the intimate relationship is, They are all vulnerable in the face of interests.”
"Okay! If you can live with it, live with it. If you can't live with it, break up as soon as possible." Mo Hongmei said cheerfully, "You must be able to take love and let it go."
"When you fall in love, love vigorously, and your life is not in vain. We are not gods. We can predict the future. No one can guarantee what will happen in the future?" Mo Hongying looked at them with bright and clear eyes and said, " They may live in harmony and live happily together, or they may have different dreams, or even worse, they may turn against each other and never interact with each other till the end of their lives.”
"No wonder the gods are all in love." Gu Shanshan suddenly said, "It's because she can predict the future and know what the future will be like."
"Wait a minute, wait a minute, aren't the Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother a couple?" Mo Hongmei looked at them doubtfully and said.
"No! They are not husband and wife." Gu Shanshan laughed when she heard this.
"It's not a relationship between husband and wife! I thought it was! They are a couple, why don't they let the Seventh Fairy get married!" Mo Hongmei smiled stupidly and asked curiously, "What's that relationship?"
"It's a colleague relationship. In the Taoist immortal system, they can not only rule the three realms, but also have the highest power. So no matter what happens in the three realms, the people in power will report it to the Jade Emperor and let him decide how to deal with it." Mo Hongying heard this He looked at them with dark eyes and said, "And in terms of seniority, the Queen Mother is several generations older than the Jade Emperor."
"Ah!" Mo Hongmei looked at her dumbfounded, "So that's it!"
(End of chapter)
