"I rushed up, grabbed Xiaodi Wu, and took him to the Wu family, ready to discuss it with the elders of the Wu family.
Sir, as you just said, Mother Wu is a notoriously aggressive person.
Before I could say anything, she rushed up and gave me a slap in the face, pulled Wu Xiaodi out of my hands, and then pointed at my nose and cursed me.
He said that even though I am such a grown-up person, I still bully a child. "
When Ren Yuanliang said this, he smiled bitterly.
The look of hatred on his face has faded a lot.
Perhaps, brutally killing the enemy only relieves the temporary anger, but the most painful burden that comes with it is hiding these thoughts for a long time without anyone to talk to them.
Now, Ren Yuanliang feels that this burden can finally be relieved.
He relaxed a little and then said: "I didn't expect to get such a result.
Before, I was worried that I would be retaliated against if I quarreled with the Wu family.
But I am a father, the backbone of my son’s heart. How could I back down?
And I have to teach my son: Don’t cry when something happens, and a man should stand up and face all difficulties.
I bit the bullet and found the Wu family.
Unexpectedly, I got a slap in the face just like that, and it was in front of my son.
The look in my son's eyes at that time was frightened and like something had collapsed.
That look in his eyes stimulated my most painful point.
I got angry, opened my mouth and started arguing with the shrew.
And my son, when he saw me arguing with someone, he came up and hugged my leg, crying and begging me: "Dad, stop arguing, I'm so scared of you like this." '
My heart...is as cold as ice.
Not a little surprised either.
I don’t understand, why do I scare my son first when I stand up for my son and argue with others?
Sure enough, I raised my son to be too timid, right?
But I can't scare him anymore...
I could only point at Little Brother Wu bitterly and say, "If you dare to bully my son again, I will make you lose arms and legs." '
After that, I will take my son and leave.
Unexpectedly, Mother Wu actually picked up a shovel and hit me on the back of the head.
At that time, I was so photographed that I almost fell to the ground.
In my hand, I am still holding my son.
But before I could react, the fierce woman hit my back with a spade and pushed our father and son out of the courtyard of her house.
I was absolutely furious.
But looking into my son's frightened eyes, I endured it. I can't give my children a bad example. I endured it. "
As he spoke, Ren Yuanliang wanted to cover his face, but because he couldn't move, he could only let the tears of humiliation fall quietly.
Seeing this, Xie Jing opened the acupuncture points on his body.
Ren Yuanliang did not move.
He raised his face, letting the tears roll down one by one, and continued to speak: "I originally thought that I could endure this matter and get through it.
Who knew that not only did Wu Xiaodi not listen to my warning, but he even worsened his situation because of the strength of his family.
The next day, he found my son who was playing in the field and kicked him hard.
Kicked my son into the paddy field.
The fall wasn't heavy, but my son's fear was infinitely amplified.
When I heard his cry and ran to the field, he was so frightened that he could not speak.
All I know is crying, crying all the time. No matter what method I use to coax him, he keeps crying.
Later, another child told me what was going on.
I thought about it over and over, and then I suddenly realized that simply being patient would only make the other person more arrogant and arrogant.
At the same time, it will also make my children less and less safe as scholars say. This will accompany him throughout his life. "
Speaking of this, Ren Yuanliang asked the adults. "Master Di, I have heard that you are a priest, a very powerful official who can resolve cases like a god, but you are also an upright official, an official who protects us common people.
I want to ask you: What kind of patience do you need to be able to stand up and resist without fear of oppression from others?
Faced with such a situation, what would you do if it were you? What do you think should be done? "
Di Ying was asked.
He had thought about this question before, but had not found a correct answer.
Now, still not.
After thinking for a few seconds, seeing that the other party kept looking at him with longing eyes, Di Ying slowly said: "Everyone will encounter various events in their life that are not so equal. .
Either big or small.
Most ordinary people choose to be patient. Because they will consider the consequences and forbear for fear of retaliation.
After a long time, I allowed myself to digest it.
Of course, I don't actually support their forbearance. But Guochao..."
Speaking of this, Di Ying couldn't help but choked, then took a deep breath and continued: "But they actually don't have much choice.
File a lawsuit? The government will say: You adults should not interfere in matters between children.
Or, a more upright official will ask the elders of the other party to take the children on the wrong side and apologize to the children on the right side.
But in fact: everyone has the feeling of protecting the calf. No elder wants his or her child to be blamed, let alone apologize.
This will make the elders feel very shameless. Because that's accusing them of not educating their children, right?
However, such an apology is not of much use. Instead, it will make the two families break up.
However, this is also the simplest solution.
The remaining method is to support and encourage your children to fight back.
Fighting is common among children. The sensible elders on both sides will not pursue it excessively.
But it is obvious that Mother Wu is not a sensible elder, let alone a mother who knows how to educate her children well.
She offended everyone in the village, and no one dared to say or do anything to her. This would only make her more arrogant.
This is probably one of the reasons why Wu Xiaodi is timid.
The more powerful the elders, the easier it is to cultivate timid children.
But often the more timid a person is, the more they have an inexplicable courage...
I won’t talk about this for now.
Let’s talk about whether it is right to support the practice of beating children back. "
Di Ying said, finally sighing.
He walked to the side and leaned against a big tree before continuing: "This is definitely wrong. Because there was also a gap in the children's previous strength.
So, there is nothing we can do.
Most ordinary elders would advise their children to avoid that bad boy. At worst, I should spend more time with my children to prevent them from being bullied and hurt by others.
But is this useful? It certainly won't have much effect. After all, elders are very busy.
This officer has encountered such a case before..."
