Fifth: Face reality and don’t cry for past mistakes. Those who have gone by cannot be admonished, but those who have come can still be pursued. Let the past go, no matter what we do, we can never change it.
But the future is still in our hands, and it still needs us to create it. Don't delay the present by regretting the past, otherwise we will only have regrets in the future.
Sixth: A person must have magnanimity. The prime minister's belly is capable of punting, and those who are broad-minded and generous are respected and loved by others; while those who are narrow-minded and small-minded are avoided by everyone. Tolerance is a kind of wisdom in life and a magic weapon for establishing good relationships between people.
Seventh: Defend your rights confidently. As long as you can do your job and do it better, you should "fight for profit." A valuable person, an accomplished person, fighting for his own interests is fair and aboveboard, and there is no need for any psychological burden at all.
If your own interests are harmed and you all remain silent, it will only embolden the arrogance of those who harm your interests and allow them to bully you more unscrupulously.
If the people of the country are silent, then the country will not be far from destruction.
Eighth;: Grasp the bottom line of life. Keep your own moral bottom line, so that you won't go astray because of small things. Draw a clear bottom line of your abilities and act within your ability, so that you won't get nothing. Only by grasping the bottom line of life and being good at using it to remind yourself and plan your life can your life be more lasting and better.
Ninth: When you are a person, you must remember to be inflated. When you are a person, you must avoid being inflated. Too strong desires and arrogance will not bring you any benefits, but will only push you to a steep cliff, causing you to lose your footing, or even towards death.
Tenth, don’t lose your temper easily. Anger is like a time bomb in the human body that can cause disaster at any time.
As the saying goes, "anger arises from the heart, evil comes from the courage" is the truth.
Therefore, when you are about to lose your temper, it is best to endure it for a while and think about the consequences. If you can't calm down and think about the consequences, but let your anger pour out, it may bring disaster to you.
You must remember that people have no brains when they are angry. The decision made at this time will most likely be wrong.
Eleventh: Be polite when interacting with others. When interacting with others, etiquette comes first. Etiquette best reflects a person's quality and attitude towards others. It is one of the important criteria for others to recognize you.
Gentle, sincere and generous speech and behavior will bring a comfortable and friendly feeling to others; while a person who behaves vulgarly and has no etiquette will definitely be unpopular and disliked.
Twelfth: Don’t get too caught up in the bull’s horns. Those who are ignorant and accept death are called "love to get out of the corner". In fact, it is easy to get out of the corner. It is so simple that you only need to change the direction. However, this alone stumps many people. Countless people only know to turn back after hitting a wall, but most of them are too late. What’s even more sad is that many people “hit the wall and don’t know how to look back.”
Thirteenth: Be good at listening. Some people say: "The highest level of speaking is to speak less and listen more." This is absolutely correct. The reason why God gave us “two ears and one mouth” is so that we can speak less and listen more. Being a good listener will make you like more people and build harmonious interpersonal relationships for you.
