The media also gave many high praises.
""I Love You" shows the true meaning of love. The most immature thing is seeing each other at dawn, and the most shining thing is each other at dusk!
It turns out that the happiness of the elderly is also so simple. After Jun Feng called his children home when his wife was seriously ill, he said to his wife: "You gave birth to them all with pain in your stomach. There are really many of them, right? Wife, you have worked hard." He couldn't stop crying and looked at The expression on his face and the care he took for his wife were really touching. Such old age love is worthy of praise and reflection.
When children grow up, they each start their own family and then leave the home where they were raised, slowly neglecting the warmth of their parents. Because he loved his wife, he saw clearly the impatient look of his children, and became less courageous. They were too young to stay alone in the world and face long-term loneliness, so he chose to end their lives and meet again in the next life. .
I love you. It’s not that difficult to say three words. It’s just that simple to truly say I love you. When you are tired, I will rub your shoulders; when you are sick, I will protect and take care of you; when you leave, I will see you again in the next life. "——"Film Weekly"
"There is not a word "I love you" in the whole film, but it tells the whole story of love. Their love is not defeated by the regret of not getting married, but by the boredom of finally getting married. You still understand that love is not a temporary thing. Impulse is not a feeling, it is a process, a responsibility, and the weight of a lifetime is on it. Even if it has thousands of forms, when it comes to death, it will just say "I love you". By then, we will not The love for each other should be weakened because the end of life is approaching, but should be used as a reminder that time is limited, and we should cherish each other even more, even if the beauty turns to be freckles, and the black hair turns to snow in an instant." - "Southern Weekend"
The front page headline of Penguin Entertainment's movie section is the review of "I Love You".
"Song Weiwei was used to collecting rags at night. She had no identity and no children, and lived alone. Her candle-lit soul did not dare to long for "being loved." He and the old man Jin Wanzhe were both lonely people, and they were separated in the first half of their lives. After enduring hardships and grinding for the rest of their lives, in the not-so-good years, the two of them began to covet the worldly togetherness. And our young generation, with tears in our eyes, watched them start at the end of their lives. Love seems to see reality, "mutually beneficial".
Old Man Jin said: People say that anything that passes by can be fate.
This is a love story about two elderly couples who are nearly 80 years old. Through giving and receiving love, they show their romantic, sad, plain and touching dusk love affair. In the movie, the old milkman Jin Wanxi and the old woman Song who collect rags always meet on the same uphill road in the early morning every day. Gradually, the old man fell in love with this lonely and unknown old woman. But this love comes too late. Living alone, they haven't attached enough to the feeling of being loved. They are about to finish their lives.
Jin Manzhe, who had been stubborn for most of his life, was unable to be gentle to his wife when she was still alive, and lacked respect for love, which left a lot of guilt in his heart for the rest of his life. And somehow, he always met Song, as if looking back at his wife. Jin seemed to begin to believe in fate. He would surprise her like a young man buying hair cards for a girl, take her to dinner like a date, show off. Song gave him a pair of gloves, and he always looked forward to seeing Song before the agreed time. Maybe he was repenting for what he had done, or maybe he still had the ability to love in the rest of his life. And I chose to believe the latter without hesitation.
These actions will appear ordinary but luxurious for the rest of their lives. I don’t dare to ask how long I’ve been with someone when I love them. I’m afraid that if I ask, you’ll think you haven’t been with them long enough in this life. Later, he named the Song family "Song Weiwei". "The only one", the old man interpreted it as: Song is his only one. So even the name became the object of love for Old Man Jin for the rest of his life.
Facing illness and death is something that every generation of aging people understands. But their ability to love will never be lost due to life and death. I think it is just like in the movie: Song Weiyi is uneducated, nameless, old and poor, but the hard-spoken and soft-hearted old man Jin has been expressing love in the way she is familiar with. He used painting instead of writing to express his feelings to Song Weiwei. When Song Weiwei got close to him, he began to enjoy "love" like a child.
Compared with Jin Song, Zhang Junfeng's wife's name did not appear in the film. I have ever thought about it before, does it have a deep meaning? Now that I think about it, it is indeed the case.
Because she actually represents a group, the Alzheimer's disease group!
Before the lonely Song met Jin, he was humbled into the dust and never thought when flowers would bloom.
But another pair of loved ones, the parking lot administrator Zhang Junfeng, has been guarding his Alzheimer's wife, but in the end his wife became terminally ill and was in constant pain. Zhang Junfeng's heart is like a knife. Seeing you in pain makes my whole heart break. He chose to light coals in his room and wait for daybreak to end their lives.
But this pair of people who should not be alone, they raised children, and the children moved out of the house one after another when they grew up, and started their own lives. They all vowed that "they will come back to see us often in the future", but as a result, they In middle age, people still claim their parents' savings and fail to fulfill their support obligations. This big family still looks lonely and sad until the end. Sure enough, the movie not only expresses love at dusk, it also wants us younger generations to see our own shadow through the love of our parents.
Therefore, Zhang Junfeng's wife has no name in the film, because she may represent a group.
When parents go away, there is only one way home left in life. I read many people's comments about this film and found that what made everyone cry was "forgotten". This is reflected in the demented wife: although she loves her husband, she often mistakes her husband and accidentally slips out and forgets the way home. , but I clearly remember the time when I was on the way home with my husband, holding a windmill and drawing a starry sky on the wall.
I remember the background of my home and remember to take off my shoes when entering the house. They say old children, old children, but I didn’t expect that people always use illness to return to their innocence. Loneliness, togetherness, and illness are all the conditions that dusk lovers have to face. The lovers spend their whole life and are greedy for the next life. Zhang Junfeng said that he has been cowardly in front of his wife all his life. He is a coward. He is afraid of leaving him alone in the world. This movie captures the greatest weakness of human nature - love. We grow in love and leave in love.
When we are seventy years old and recall what love will look like, I think it may be that I have gray hair, wrinkles on my face, and can no longer pursue two people, and then I stop and go, making do with it all my life. .
I couldn't stop crying after ten minutes of the film. The old man Jin Manzhe was also recalling love. Before his wife had a chance to drink the milk, he poured the milk on his wife's grave, hoping that he could use his gentleness for the rest of his life to gain her understanding. Song Weiwei had an unfortunate marriage, and she lost her son and never got married. She was also a coward, and she was afraid of the pain of love even after being alone for most of her life.
In Zhang Junfeng's yellow love story, he told his wife not to pee her pants and not to sneak into unfamiliar places. He carried his lost wife home on his back, held her hand and asked her, "Old woman, are you still willing to be with me in the next life?" "
They had no time to continue their tender life, and they had no time to share stories about each other's first half of life. These regrets meant to them: this life is enough. The end of the movie uses a dreamlike form to outline the distance. Lao Jin rides a motorcycle and carries his one and only across the wheat fields, over the valley, to the sky, and secretly goes to heaven under the dots of stars.
As the saying goes: A young couple stays together until old age. This film is dedicated to all the parents in the world. Our generation spends very little time with our parents. As for the love of our parents, these two elderly couples spent the rest of their lives explaining that love is not an impulse or a passion. , it is bravery, it is responsibility, it is spending most of the years of living in daily necessities, and having to hold each other's hands tightly before death. The so-called fate just means that you and him are constantly looking at each other's backs in this life, gradually drifting away, but he uses time to tell you: some love needs no words. ”——Penguin Entertainment (movie version)
There are many people who like this movie, but they like it for different reasons.
However, they all have one thing in common, that is, they were all moved.
Some people may think it is overly sensational, but this is an excessive request.
If you just click on it, some people will say that it is not touching at all.
This is a movie! It's never been easy to agree on.
No matter how well-made a movie is, it can never have zero negative reviews.
The so-called zero negative reviews are only relative.
However, a good movie can often trigger discussions and topics.
That's certainly the case with "I Love You."
Some netizens wrote: ""I Love You" is a very special film. You can say it is realistic, but in fact many places and details in the film are not so real.
There are very few characters in the film, which is obviously not realistic enough.
Of course, perhaps because of this, the story of this film becomes particularly clear, without so many complications and trivialities of life.
At the same time, it makes people feel real, because the story is very small, it is a love story of four ordinary old people, living in daily life;
The scenes described are also very small, as small as a few sparse streets and the corners of a few depressing rooms;
At first glance, you may feel that the circle of life is too narrow? But looking back on our reality, our parents, grandparents, when they reach that age, their circle is actually very small, very narrow, or in other words, very lonely.
In fact, the way the film tells the story is also very small, as small as a pair of leather gloves, or as small as a date schedule with a painting as a letter.
But it was this small thing that made me feel the truth and made my eyes red from crying, just because the warmth they gave me through this movie was enough to support me through any loneliness and coldness, but still believe in the power of love.
This is a story about the twilight love of the elderly, but unfortunately, it is also a story told to us.
The film tells two love stories, one in ongoing tense and one in present perfect tense.
The story of these two elderly couples depicts the love ideal of all young people: "hold your child's hand and grow old together with your child." "
In fact, as the netizen above said, this is a love story about the elderly, but it is also a story told to people of previous generations.
Because everyone gets old!
There are many lines in the movie that make people cry inexplicably, such as what Song Weiwei said when he looked at Zhang Junfeng's back staggering away with his wife on his back. "I want to grow old like this too!"
Some netizens wrote: "When you get married, you take an oath: no matter whether you are rich or poor, no matter health or disease, no matter the good times or bad times in life, when the other person needs you the most, will you never leave her forever?
The answer from all the newlyweds at that time was yes!
But how many people can really do it?
In this way, the story of Zhang Junfeng and his wife seems so touching, because he did it!
It is said that there is no filial son in bed for a long time. Is this not true for a husband or wife?
Because at that time, she had forgotten the roads we had walked together, the sea we had seen together, and the promises we had made together, and she would become like a 5 or 6-year-old child. I can’t button up my buttons, I can’t eat, and even going to the bathroom has become so difficult.
There is a picture of a smiling and happy family on the table.
At that time, we were not too old and the children were completely innocent. The girl is still clinging to our arms and acting like a baby, saying that she will never leave us for the rest of her life.
At that time, you were smiling so hard that you couldn't even see your eyes.
In fact, how come we don’t understand?
Why don’t we understand how long a lifetime is?
The children eventually moved out of our small hut one by one, with different but basically the same reasons.
The dining hall, which had always been a bit crowded, was now so empty and lonely.
Maybe it's because people are more likely to be lonely as they get older.
You slowly become unable to remember anything and can't do anything. You just smear on the wall with crayons stupidly. I think it's okay if you can't remember.
When you were young, I made you suffer too much, had too many troubles, and made you feel too guilty. Now you have forgotten everything, but you still remember me.
Then, let's spend the rest of our short lives cuddling together.
Honey, I'm really a coward. Without you, I'm afraid I won't be able to survive.
You leaned on my back and opened your arms to hug the cherry blossoms with a smile like the spring breeze. I can still see it when I close my eyes. Even now I can't imagine that one day you won't be here.
I'm really sorry for not treating you well when I was young.
So, old woman, the tenderness in this life is here first, and we will meet again in the next life.
I don’t know why, but it was suddenly easy to step into the role of Zhang Junfeng. In fact, I have always felt that there is no tragedy in this film. It is really a very complete story, a very beautiful story.
The reason why I am moved to tears is not because of sadness, but because it is love!
Zhang Junfeng and his wife fulfilled their vows when they got married, but it was another beautiful fantasy for Old Man Jin and Old Mrs. Song. "
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