The rating of "Warm and Inner Light" on the popular film review website is not particularly high, not reaching the height of nine points, but there are many people who left comments.
"I originally thought it was a sweet love story, but I didn't expect it to be about a breakup. Fortunately, I felt relieved in the end. Since we love each other, even if the other person has many shortcomings, we can tolerate them and change them for each other."
"A person who is used to your existence will not be used to your non-existence! The movie is not a love story, but a love philosophy, which can be said to be suitable for each of us. We often complain that the things we have are not good enough. , but when you lose something you already "own", you will cherish it very much, even to the point of turning a blind eye to what is left after the loss."
"Even if the memory is deleted, two people who love each other will still love each other, but what makes people uncomfortable is that even if they love each other, they will still be separated in the future for the same reasons!"
"Many times what is lacking between men and women is just tolerance. There is no such thing as a perfect couple. The people who make it to the end are just tolerant and forgive each other, change and restrain themselves."
"I watched a movie with my girlfriend. We had just passed the love stage and had had a fight recently. It was a running-in period. We were sitting in the cinema watching this movie, and suddenly we were..."
"Looking at how bad everyone is, I always think about whether I and my girlfriend will have such a day?"
"I feel the same way from upstairs. After watching it with my girlfriend last night, she started to become sentimental. She was worried that we would have such a day, and she would be depressed to death!"
"There is a feeling that makes me feel the same, the same personality differences, the same conflicts and quarrels. Would you like me to do it again? My answer is yes."
"This movie is so simple, but it digs deep into the loneliness of modern people. In the "Forgetting Clinic" that helps people delete painful memories, the staff smiles very unrestrainedly and is also very numb. Everything is maintained well, even the pain The proportion of happy memories has been adjusted very accurately, and the doctors and staff who lived so correctly are paler than loneliness, and they don't know what they have lost, completing a kind of emptiness."
"No matter how many sweet memories two people have together, they can't overcome the irreconcilable contradictions discovered when they separate rationally. Maybe you will fall in love with this person again, but this person is still the wrong person, even if you lie down Looking at the stars together is just meaningless repetition.
So, people who have broken up, it’s time to find a new partner! "
“This movie tells us not to hang yourself from a tree, because even if you don’t die once, you will die the second time, so it’s better to find more trees!”
"This interpretation is awesome!"
"If one day the memory between us is deleted, will you still love me as you did before, as if we have never hurt each other?"
It can be said that romance films like "Warm and Bright" are incredible to many people. In the past, romance films could be said to be exclusive to female viewers. For many male viewers, if they went to see romance films, most of the time, it was because of their girlfriends. Relationship.
But this time it's different, because "Nuan Nuan Containing Light" is too different from past romance films.
As for film critics, female film critics used to prefer romance films, but this time, many male film critics also favored this film.
The editor-in-chief of "Film Weekly", Zhou Qingquan, specially wrote a review for this movie.
"In the past, romance films have already selected an audience group at the beginning of filming, that is, female audiences, but this time, "Warm and Bright", in my opinion, is the real way to open a romance film.
It can be said that this is a movie suitable for couples entering the running-in period to sit together and watch quietly while holding each other and saying sorry!
If we can't stand each other, the first things that come to mind are the negative feelings about each other. The person who hurts you the most is often the person who loves you the most. If we have the opportunity to forget all the memories about him or her, the easiest things to forget are the conflicts and contradictions, the hurt and embarrassment between each other, and the bad words made in anger.
In "Warm and Bright", the male and female protagonists tell each other what they have buried deep in their hearts for a long time. If a stranger comments on you like this, you may not feel too much, but when the person you once loved the most has changed, If you become the person who dislikes you the most, those words will cut into your heart.
A romantic encounter, a wonderful mutual attraction, dopamine rushes into the brain, and the heart beats faster. After confirming love, you can eliminate many worries and connect the bridge of relationship between the two islands. The freshness at the beginning will be replaced by the real feeling. The triviality is wasted away...
Chen Qiao and Jiang Tingting had many romantic encounters like lovers. On that midwinter beach, the silent Chen Qiao was attracted by Jiang Tingting, who was walking alone on the beach. Her orange coat and green hair were so eye-catching on the quiet beach, but she was It's not funny, that kind of lively contradiction is something that the taciturn and quiet Chen Qiao doesn't have.
Similarly, this kind of Chen Qiao also attracted Jiang Tingting. They went through the routine that many couples have gone through, chatting, tug-of-war, expressing their feelings, and the two established a relationship.
She is just a pessimist who wants to pursue inner peace, even though she looks weird and deviant.
He was gentle and kind, and could even be said to be cowardly, but to her, he seemed to represent the peace she had always longed for.
Let’s put Chen Qiao’s memory erasure process into perspective. The conflict between the two initially stemmed from their differences in the definition of intimate relationship.
Chen Qiao did not want to expose herself to Jiang Tingting. She told him everything about herself. In his eyes, nagging did not mean love, but he loved her because of her vulnerability when she exposed herself. When it comes to himself, he is more willing to reveal himself to the diary than to her. I don't mean to blame Chen Qiao. In fact, most of us are Chen Qiao's kind of person.
For men like Chen Qiao, taking the initiative to ask others to talk is just a distraction. I cannot guarantee that when I look for you, you will be in a suitable state to listen to me and then continue chatting with me. The person who takes the initiative to contact you There is no doubt that she was the one who confided in the beginning.
More often, I can listen to your confession and also confide to you, but I will never take the initiative to talk. Taking the initiative to talk would appear too fragile and deliberate in the eyes of such people, so Chen Qiao chose not to say it because he was convinced that the two People have the same mind. Even Chen Qiao has always had doubts about Jiang Tingting. He loves Jiang Tingting who is completely different from him.
But he is also suspicious of her because of this. He can only restrict her to act within his boring and boring life through his increasingly expanding desire for control. Desire for control is just a kind of mental abuse in the name of love. Love must be exclusive. One of the adjuncts of exclusivity is selfishness, which cannot be overcome.
Because of this suspicion, Chen Qiao did not dare to commit to a future with Jiang Tingting, because he did not believe that she would become a good mother. This distrust laid hidden dangers for this relationship from the beginning.
After the relationship entered a stable period, Chen Qiao began to complain from the bottom of his heart that the relationship between the two was like many sad couples in restaurants who only eat and don't talk on dates. However, this situation was not caused by Jiang Tingting. It was something that both of them had to face. Case
How to maintain love when the novelty has worn off?
This is also a question that people must go through in love relationships.
This process of retention is accompanied by suspicion, jealousy, self-doubt, and self-exposure.
When Chen Qiao reached the stage of deleting the beautiful memories of the two of them, he began to escape with Jiang Tingting in his memory into a memory space that he had never shown her. It was so beautiful there and he never mentioned it to her.
The assistant at the amnesia clinic fell in love with Jiang Tingting at first sight. After her memory was deleted, he occupied the magpie's nest and used her memory materials to get close to her. However, even if all the memory points were copied and imitated, the feeling could not be reproduced.
When she meets Chen Qiao again after her memory has been deleted, she will start again without hesitation.
In fact, there are not many fixed routines and traces that can be used repeatedly in the relationship between men and women. First of all, the clumsy techniques that can be seen through at a glance are not conducive to the development of the relationship. The repetition of boring routines is not good for the user or the user. It is a kind of meaningless repetitive labor for both users. Both parties instinctively move to the next step without thinking, which saves time but is boring.
The sensory experience of love should not be homogenized and nailed to the tombstone of fantasy with some clichéd adjectives.
Writing and language are probably the greatest inventions of mankind. Apart from the complicated summary of its meaning in history books, we can use words to express our inner real feelings or feelings distorted by reason as much as possible, so as to let ourselves have a better understanding of self-awareness. Menghua has a more profound memory, which also increases the traces left by the other party in self-awareness.
Sometimes I also feel that the so-called love is just a product of adrenaline secretion, which later turns into psychological dependence, but this kind of adrenaline cannot be brought by anyone.
At the end, Jiang Tingting and Chen Qiao listened to each other's last recording, like a public execution. You have just met, but someone told you that you will have conflicts and quarrels. Will you insist on continuing at this time?
Fortunately, in the end they were brave enough and desperate enough to go through hardships and return to each other again.
I believe that if one day the two of them quarrel again, they will remember the way they first met and throw themselves into each other's arms regardless of their own safety. At that time, they both had light in their bodies and attracted each other.
But this is always just a possible fairy tale ending that the movie gives us.
If both of them could tolerate each other, they wouldn't have reached that point. Therefore, this ending is always a scam for the audience.
Many people who are extremely moved by this film will definitely think of their own past when they see this story. However, in fact, when we are struggling with whether we can let go, we always forget one thing. Why not let ourselves accept this The results of it? Worried about gains and losses, we struggle with whether we should completely delete a person from our minds, but we forget that even if this person does not have an emotional spark with us, he is still a normal person, a person who has appeared in your life. Since it has appeared before, why not keep it?
Back to the movie itself, in order to forget each other and let each other completely get out of their lives, they chose the most extreme way-to delete their memories!
No matter what, even if all memories about each other are cleared, they can always bypass all detours, get to know each other, fall in love with each other, and vow to forever.
However, everything seems to be destined, he is boring, sensitive, rigid, and suspicious, while she is impulsive, indulgent, childish, and girlish.
These shortcomings, even if the recording had not been leaked in advance, one day, they would still end up like this.
She couldn't stand his control and dullness, and he couldn't stand her indulgence and impulsiveness.
Regarding the ending of the movie, some people feel that whether I have lost my memory or not, I will still fall in love with you, which praises great love.
In fact, this is not the case. The film portrays the person involved as a bystander, examining every relationship between him and her, and witnessing the experiences that lead to failure. To paraphrase the audience, forgetting really doesn’t solve anything.
When a relationship comes to an end, both parties forget their initial love. In the end, they have no choice but to forget the pain and quarrels. When everything returns to zero, the direction of development still cannot be changed, it can only start over and over again.
After experiencing three forgetfulness in the movie, I had the opportunity to face the conflict calmly and finally break out of the cycle.
Is it possible to be so lucky in reality?
I have made mistakes again and again...but I can only allow myself to make mistakes like this, because fate dictates and character dictates.
Delete that part of the memory, starting from the most recent memory until the time when we just met.
Ironically, when I deleted the first period, I began to feel reluctant to let go and began to recall the good times.
In fact, it is just telling us that in the face of time, we will always be defeated.
I couldn't help but think of that popular poem: If life were just like the first time we met, why would the autumn wind be so sad as to draw a fan?
Yes, couples in love always hope to go back to the beginning, because at that time, they only saw the best side of each other, and what they showed to each other was also the most attractive side to each other.
But life is too long to stop at the first meeting.
In the long race of love, how many people can stay together till old age?
In fact, even if you do it, it is just because love has become a habit. It cannot be said that it is not good, but the original feeling has long been only in the memory. When the romance and excitement are no longer, when you put it down When you have explored everything about the other person, but find that it is better not to know him..., love is actually long gone.
In fact, the real world in the movie just gives us a "what if" and explores certain inevitable and accidental factors in meeting and falling in love.
And in the later part of the dream: the memories played backwards, we are moved by the warm memories and at the same time think about it. What made the feeling of being in love disappear? When did it disappear again? "
