"Dear" is a group drama.
Tian Wenjun and Lu Xiaojuan are the protagonists, but other characters also have a lot of similar scenes.
As for the success of a group drama, it still depends on whether the characters are fully portrayed and whether the audience can remember them.
Obviously "Dear" is very successful at this point.
Many viewers are very emotionally invested in the characters in the film.
Zhao Zhong wrote a film review for "Dear" from the perspective of each character.
""Dear" is a reality-themed movie. As we all know, the biggest fear of reality-themed movies is that they are divorced from reality.
The story of this movie is certainly not a universal story, but through this movie everyone can see the collective portrait of society, their own inner anxiety and indifference to family affection, and the depth and sadness of loss, In fact, it is something that everyone can feel and understand in life. However, this is not only not a common story, it is not simply about the loss and search of children, but also reflects the loss and search of something in people's hearts in society. People come and go, we are confused, we are lost, where is our "home"?
Tian Wenjun is not a successful person. He is divorced in middle age and runs a small shop. The only thing that makes him proud is probably having a son named Tian Peng, right?
In the movie, Tian Wenjun initially said: "I accept my fate, but you don't!"
That's because he felt that although he was divorced, he opened a small shop and ran a small business. Although he was not rich and powerful, it was enough for him to raise his son Tian Peng. So he accepted his fate and didn't want to deal with it.
For Tian Wenjun, who has been divorced and has no wife, he only has one identity left that he values —the father of his child!
Therefore, when the child is lost, he will say, "Why should I accept my fate?" He accepts his fate because he has a son, which is enough, but if his son is gone, how can he accept his fate?
So it was this energy that made him search desperately and not give up. Only by "eating hope" could he still hope to regain a little bit of dignity when he lost almost everything. The night he found Pengpeng, he cried bitterly in the stairwell of the police station. It was the first time he had truly shed tears in three years. It was like he had been holding in a long breath and finally burst out. His face twitched and his voice was hoarse. He couldn't spit it out. One word, but we can fully feel how tired he has been in these past few years. Lin Yunbin's performance was so explosive. In the silence, it gave us a heavy blow to our hearts. Although we have never experienced such pain, watching him hug his head and cry, we seemed to suddenly understand that what he was desperately looking for was not just Pengpeng. , only by bringing Pengpeng back can his home be there and he can "go home".
Where is Lu Xiaojuan? He doesn’t accept his fate! Not accepting her fate, she divorced Tian Wenjun and started a middle-class family in order to climb up the ladder.
But even though she was divorced, her son Tian Peng was still something she couldn't let go of. She refused to accept her fate, and of course she hoped that her son Tian Peng would have a better future, so she quarreled with Tian Wenjun every time!
It was not until she lost Pengpeng that she finally discovered that identity and money could not withstand such pain. She had always wanted to get rid of her status as a servant, but then she realized that she had lost herself. In fact, this is very similar to many people around us, but they live in such a hurry that they cannot stop to look at their original selves and then look at their current selves. After losing Pengpeng, she became like Tian Wenjun again; finding Pengpeng became her only obsession, but her husband's courtship made her feel sick. In fact, it was more because she didn't want to betray her son.
The psychiatrist described her depression after losing her child as a heavy burden, which made her extremely angry, so she would say: Your child was not lost! In fact, her marriage to her current husband was already experiencing problems at this time, and divorce was inevitable.
Because Qin Hao has always wanted a child, and even after Tian Peng lost her, his desire became even more urgent.
This made her understand that as long as Tian Peng is here, he will always be her child, not Qin Hao's child.
There are many details in the movie. Lu Xiaojuan was either crying or had red eyes all the time. She could hardly laugh. She would only laugh when facing her son! Therefore, after finding her son, she still cried a lot because he had not really come back yet. It was not until he took the initiative to hold her hand that she really cried and laughed!
Han Dezhong, the mutual aid he established gave those desperate parents a little hope, and it was only with his financial support that Tian Peng could be successfully found. From the moment he appeared, he gave people the impression that he was a man with a very strong heart. The first time he appeared, he said loudly in front of everyone at the Wanli Zi Searching Association: "We must keep looking for him, and we will never give birth to another one!"
On the way to meet the traffickers, he loudly encouraged everyone. He was like a leader, a powerful leader!
He was Mr. Han who led everyone along the way and used a big stick to repel a large number of approaching villagers. However, no one expected that he was actually the most vulnerable in his heart, so after Tian Peng was found, he was the first Break the rule of "never give birth to a second child". In the movie, he is actually a character who has not "returned home". He has lost too much. He thought he could get redemption by helping everyone, but in the end he found that the search was too tiring and he eventually betrayed everyone. In the movie, he seems to be going further and further on the road "home", and finally realizes that money cannot erase his unsavory past, let alone a death certificate.
Therefore, in the end, he fled the scene like a deserter, huddled in a corner, and cried bitterly, because he not only betrayed everyone in the Wanli Xunzi Society, but what made him even more painful was that he betrayed his son, betrayed He found the son he had been looking for for six years. Because since he gave up the search, his son actually "died" in his life!
Li Hongqin, the fate of this character is extremely complicated and contradictory.
What she lost was everything. Her husband was dead, her adopted son was taken home, her daughter was taken away, and her family was completely broken up. If her daughter couldn't come back, seriously speaking, what was the point of her life? To a certain extent, this is similar to Tian Wenjun, but in terms of social recognition, she stands on the opposite side of Tian Wenjun and countless people, because strictly speaking, her mother's identity is her The trafficker's husband "robbed" her son and daughter, and neither her son nor her daughter belong to her. Even the law seems to be coming to cut her last straw. Life is so cruel to her that we should morally and ethically I hate such a "trafficker's wife", but in the end I can't help but feel pity and emotion for her. Can she go home? Does she still have a home? At the end of the movie, a lot is left. When the camera pans, we can faintly see that there is still a little light at the end of the darkness, but is it hope or a more terrifying despair? "
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