The leader of the Education Bureau had a very kind and kind face. He smiled and touched Qin Xing'er's head. He looked like an elder in the family without any pretense.
"So you are Qin Xing'er, a little classmate. I heard about your deeds of saving people from fires. You are a little hero. You did a great job."
Qin Xing'er couldn't help but puff out her chest, "These are what I should do."
This appearance made the adults present laugh.
"Study hard and become a good girl with both civil and military skills in the future."
Principal Zhou said at the right time: "Qin Xing'er is not only keen on helping others, but also has very good academic performance. She is always at the top of the class."
The leader looked a little surprised when he heard this, "Really, that's even better. Heroes really come out of youth. It seems that we are all getting older."
His eyes fell into the void, as if he recalled some memories, and then fell on Qin Xing'er, adding a bit of love, "I'm waiting for you to speak on stage again as an outstanding graduate."
Qin Xing'er nodded, "Don't worry, I can definitely become an outstanding graduate."
The leader of the Education Bureau said a few words of encouragement to encourage all the students present, because the commendation meeting was held for Qin Xing'er, and there were only a few procedures in total, and it ended quickly.
After school, those parents came to visit Qin Tian with thick thank-you gifts.
Even though Qin Tian's home is relatively large, it is still a bit crowded with so many people coming all at once.
Qin Tian looked at the beautifully wrapped gift boxes in their hands and said, "You are here right now, why are you bringing these gifts?"
The parents forced it into Qin Tian's hands, "Professor Qin, this is our little kindness, and we hope you can accept it."
Qin Tian wanted to refuse, but these parents were so kind that it was difficult to refuse.
"If it weren't for Xing'er, I'm afraid something might have happened to our child. If you refuse to accept this gift, we will feel bad about it."
In fact, the conditions of these parents are pretty good. If they were not worried that Qin Tian would not accept them, I am afraid they would all give gold bars.
Qin Tian had no choice but to take it and invite them to sit down.
"Actually, we don't have anything to do here this time. We just want to thank Professor Qin for his good teaching and raising such a powerful daughter."
After what happened to Qin Xing'er, these parents also checked online and learned that Qin Yue'er and Qin Lan'er also looked at Qin Tian with eyes full of admiration and respect.
There are many people teaching and educating people these days, but there are very few people who can teach such skills, let alone the rare existence like Qin Tian.
Each of the three daughters is a talented person, and each one can stand alone.
"Hey, if I had half the conditions and ideas of Professor Qin, I would still worry about my child being disobedient. This child has become more and more rebellious recently and even talks back to me."
"If I hadn't quarreled with you this time, I wouldn't have refused to go home from school, and ended up being trapped in a fire and almost dying."
The parent who said this was a middle-aged man wearing glasses. He looked like a successful person, but he had a headache when talking about his child.
These words quickly attracted the approval of other parents, who were also very moved.
"Who can say otherwise? The same goes for my family. He used to be very obedient, but now that he has grown up and reached puberty, he doesn't even know what he is thinking, and he won't tell us anything."
The curly-haired middle-aged woman sitting next to him couldn't help but sigh.
"Children today are different from before. They all have very strong ideas. They can't be spanked. Even scolding has no effect. They get angry and even run away from home with you. I really don't know how to deal with it."
With so many parents sitting together, all they can talk about is their own children. Once the conversation starts, it seems like there is endless talk.
"Actually, I'm quite envious of Professor Qin. All three daughters are so good. I wonder if they have any special skills that I can teach to us."
Many people nodded in agreement, "Yes, I think so too. If my children were so considerate and sensible, they would probably wake up laughing in their dreams."
"I'm not greedy either. As long as I can learn half of the excellent qualities, that would be great."
It was originally intended to be a thank you, but somehow it turned into an exchange meeting about how to educate children well.
In fact, Qin Tian was the youngest among those present, but everyone acted like he was the leader and asked Qin Tian for his experience in educating children.
It's not surprising that they were like this. Qin Xing'er's performance on the day of the fire was really amazing. Whether it was her words or the way she handled things, she didn't look like what a person of her age should be like at all.
Qin Tian was confused by their words. In fact, he really didn't have any special parenting methods.
It seems that Qin Yue'er and the others have not had to worry about themselves since they were young. They are often so sensible that it makes people feel bad. Except for teaching the skills, they don't have much control over other aspects. They all rely on their own consciousness.
However, Qin Tian did not say these words because he was too angry. After hesitating for a moment, Qin Tian still used a tactful way.
"Actually, most of this depends on themselves. If they are like Xing'er, they are very self-conscious, but as an older sister, Yue'er is a little more playful."
He said it but didn't seem to say it. As expected, those parents stared at Qin Tian with resentful eyes. This was not Versailles.
"Actually, I think the most important thing is not to suppress the child's nature, but to let nature take its course. In today's society, not enrolling children in a few cram schools is like falling behind the times, and instead neglecting what the child likes the most."
Nowadays, parents are tiger parents and tiger mothers, so their children are also involved in the study. It is already tiring to study on a regular basis, and they only have two days of rest on weekends, and they also have to face various cram schools.
At least two people start, and more often there are four or five. I wish I could keep spinning 24 hours a day without any rest time.
The child is still young and suppresses his own nature, which will be released sooner or later. Isn't this how conflicts accumulate?
Many parents looked thoughtful.
"So that's it. I feel like everything is enlightened. Maybe I need to re-examine the way I get along with my children."
"What Professor Qin said makes sense. Letting our children develop according to our wishes is our subjectivity, but it is not what the children themselves want. No wonder they are unhappy."
"Hey, it seems I have to reflect on it when I get back."
Perhaps it is the regret of the adults themselves, who want to make up for it with the children and let them move forward on the path they envisioned, but they really ignore what the children themselves want.
Qin Tian said seriously: "If I really have any special education method, it might be to let the children fly freely. Try to put the right of choice in their hands, and maybe they will get unexpected surprises. maybe."
These parents stayed for a long time before coming out of Qin Tian's house, looking a little emotional.
I believe these words can bring a lot of changes to them in the future.
(End of chapter)
