184 thinking

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Although Cao Qinbin asked girls to go shopping with him, he actually took the girls shopping himself.

Through chatting along the way, he knew the girl's name, Li Miaomiao.

Along the way, Cao Qinbin took Li Miaomiao to various luxury stores.

Cao Qinbin introduced the general situation of his friends, and then asked Li Miaomiao to serve as a consultant.

Just ask her if she looks good in everything, and whether a pretty girl like you would like it.

But for every product placed in front of Li Miaomiao for her to choose, the densely packed numbers on the label completely dazzled her.

After buying more than ten gifts, Li Miaomiao had had enough of the clerk's compliments.

She really wanted to be one of Cao Qinbin's friends, not just an ordinary person who went shopping with him.

At this time, Cao Qinbin had no vacancies in his hand.

Although Li Miaomiao tried to help him share some of the weight, Cao Qinbin still did not choose to hand the things to her.

"A pretty girl like you shouldn't do such menial tasks. Things like carrying things are what a rough guy like me should do."

Although he said that, in fact, Cao Qinbin was just worried that Rou Baozi would beat the dog and never come back.

What if Li Miaomiao kept her head down and took the things in her hands as if they were gifts from her.

By then, wouldn’t I have suffered the loss of being dumb?

Although the other party may not necessarily be this kind of person, there are always people who are like this.

A smart scumbag would never give the other person such a chance in the first place.

So Cao Qinbin invited her to drink a cup of milk tea, and then walked outside with her things.

Cao Qinbin put everything in the trunk.

Looking at the trunk door, which covered all the valuable things inside, Li Miaomiao's heart twitched inexplicably.

Sitting in the passenger seat, Li Miaomiao asked with milk tea in her arms: "You said you were buying things to give to friends, but why are you buying them for girls?"

Cao Qinbin smiled and said: "As I said, I am a well-known scumbag in the neighborhood, so it is normal to have more close friends."

"Then there are many girls you like?" Li Miaomiao glanced at Cao Qinbin secretly.

Cao Qinbin shook his head: "There are many girls who like me."

Hearing this, Li Miaomiao held milk tea in both hands, lowered her head, crossed her two index fingers, and turned them around.

Seeing her like this, Cao Qinbin asked: "You must also like me, right?"

"No way!" Li Miaomiao retorted simply.

"That's good." Hearing this, Cao Qinbin seemed to be relieved.

"A scumbag like me is not a good person. If you fall in love with me, it will definitely be very difficult."

Li Miaomiao turned around, looked at him and said, "Don't you plan to have a vigorous love affair? The kind that only involves two people."

"Vigorous?" Cao Qinbin smiled. "There is not so much excitement in love. What's more important is that you understand my evil intentions and I understand your pretense of being reserved. In the final analysis, it's not all biological instincts that are stirring."

Li Miaomiao didn't seem to understand what Cao Qinbin said, but she also knew that Cao Qinbin didn't intend to fall in love.

Cao Qinbin immediately discovered that her expression and demeanor were a little abnormal.

He seemed a little surprised and asked, "You really have fallen in love with me, right?"

"How could I! It's impossible for me!"

But Li Miaomiao looked straight ahead, and she did not dare to meet Cao Qinbin's eyes.

Seeing her look like this, Cao Qinbin knew that Li Miaomiao was about to fall.

He stretched out his hand, handed it to Li Miaomiao, and said, "Then let's hook up, okay? You promise you won't fall in love with me."

Li Miaomiao stretched out her hand, pulled the hook and sealed it in one go.

He also said: "I promise I won't fall in love with you. If I fall in love with you, I will... I'll just forget it."

As soon as Li Miaomiao waved her hands, she looked ahead again and became sulky.

She couldn't figure it out.

As beautiful as she is, she has always been sought after and licked fiercely.

Why was it that when I arrived at Cao Qinbin's place, I was not welcomed?

Is the makeup I put on tonight too ugly?

Thinking of this, Li Miaomiao pulled down the passenger's sun visor, revealing the mirror placed behind it.

She looked at herself in the mirror, and she still looked that beautiful.

Why is he not attracted to a beautiful woman like me?

He obviously likes women too! Does he look down on women like me?

Cao Qinbin felt Li Miaomiao's scrutinizing eyes on him, so he turned his head to look at her.

But as soon as their eyes met, she immediately looked away.

Cao Qinbin smiled slightly and said, "Where do you live? I'll take you back."

"I live at No. 13, North Chaowood, Haoxiang, Gir City."

"kindness."

Cao Qinbin didn't say anything, just responded, started the vehicle and drove away.

The luxury car roared, causing everyone around to cast surprised glances.

Looking at the beautiful woman in the passenger seat, many boys and girls had eyes full of envy.

Feeling this unique feeling of being watched, many strange thoughts suddenly came to Li Miaomiao's heart.

Along the way, Cao Qinbin chatted with Li Miaomiao all the time.

Even if Cao Qinbin has nothing to talk about, Li Miaomiao will take the initiative to find a topic.

But how far is the distance for her to walk?

Not long after, Cao Qinbin's car stopped below Li Miaomiao's house.

Cao Qinbin said: "We're here."

"oh."

Li Miaomiao responded, but was reluctant to unfasten her seat belt.

She looked at Cao Qinbin: "Why don't you go up and drink a glass of water before leaving?"

Although there were still less than half-drunk milk teas beside each other, Cao Qinbin did not tell the truth.

He showed a smile: "It's so late, it's not appropriate for a man and a woman to be alone, isn't it? I don't care, I'm just afraid of ruining your good reputation."

Li Miaomiao immediately replied: "What's the matter? It's okay, let's go."

At Li Miaomiao's invitation, Cao Qinbin parked the vehicle and followed Li Miaomiao upstairs.

After entering the room, Cao Qinbin sat on the sofa and felt a little surprised when he looked at this clean and tidy room.

In his cognitive circle, beautiful girls don't look at their glamorous appearance, but in fact, the houses they live in are usually very messy.

Leftover takeout, unwashed underwear, finished drinks and bottles were everywhere.

Unless it was anticipated and tidied up in advance before people arrived.

But with his unexpected visit, Li Miaomiao didn't have time to clean up the house.

Therefore, beauties like her who can always keep their rooms tidy are indeed rare.

Cao Qinbin waited for a while, and Li Miaomiao brought something to drink.

Li Miaomiao obviously said she was going upstairs to drink a glass of water, but at this time, Li Miaomiao brought a bottle of wine and two glasses.

As soon as Cao Qinbin saw the packaging of the wine, he knew the name of the wine and that the alcohol content was not low.

Cao Qinbin said with a smile: "Wow? Why are you still drinking? What if I drink and mess with you?"

Li Miaomiao pursed her lips and smiled: "I know you are not that kind of person."

What she said was like saying nothing.

Seeing her bending over, she didn't even cover her chest. She just put the glass in front of her while facing his burning gaze.

I admired the pink grapes for a moment, and then watched the brown wine slowly pour into the glass.

Cao Qinbin knew that he probably wouldn't be able to sleep well tonight.

The two of them just drank wine and continued chatting.

The two of them were sitting not far apart, but there was still some distance between them.

During the chat, Li Miaomiao learned that Cao Qinbin was the dean of Gill Medical College, and she was immediately shocked.

In her opinion, a person who could sit in a position like the dean of a medical school should be a greasy, bald, middle-aged man.

But Cao Qinbin, who was sitting on the same sofa as him, looked heroic and handsome.

Is the gap between imagination and reality too big?

She had heard many people say about Cao Qinbin's superb medical skills.

But even though she knew Cao Qinbin's name, she never connected the former with the handsome guy sitting in front of her.

In her mind, she quickly reviewed the experiences she had heard about Cao Qinbin.

She suddenly felt that she could also ask him some of her questions.

She asked: "Dean Cao, how can a girl like me become smart?"

"Smart? What kind of smartness do you mean?"

Li Miaomiao said: "I often make some mistakes at work, but other colleagues seem to be very efficient in doing things."

Cao Qinbin said: "What you do is both physical and mental."

Li Miaomiao thought for a while and said, "Both are there. Some help with documents and the like, which is physical, and sometimes they need to make some plans, which is mental."

Cao Qinbin nodded after listening.

"Then to answer your question, I have to start with the human thinking system."

"What do you think, Dean Cao?"

Li Miaomiao's tone couldn't help but respect Cao Qinbin.

“In the human brain, there are two independent thinking systems: the intuitive system and the rational system.

The intuitive system is unconscious and has a fast reaction speed. The advantage is that it does not require any brain effort, and simple problems can be handled by it.

Known as a rational system, it usually thinks and analyzes problems consciously. It is characterized by high energy consumption and slow speed, but it can solve complex problems.

Both systems will play an important role in people's decision-making behavior.

But due to the laziness of the rational system, many times the intuitive system will dominate.

However, the intuitive reaction of the intuitive system can easily lead to biases and errors in decision-making.

Therefore, we should always use the rational system and use slow thinking to make up for fast thinking, which will help improve the quality of our decision-making. "

Hearing this, Li Miaomiao asked again: "If we use a rational system to do slow thinking everywhere, won't it make us dull? It won't be like the redundant company approval process, which makes people laborious and inefficient. Low?"

Cao Qinbin smiled and said: "Not necessarily. In real society, there are not so many things that are definitely like this or that."

“First of all, whether to think slowly and score things, in the early stage you have to pick the important ones and not be in a hurry.

Secondly, what we need to do is to use a multi-purpose rational system to exercise and optimize our intuitive system.

Because the level of the intuitive system is the key to reflecting the differences between people. "

Li Miaomiao asked: "Why do you say that?"

Cao Qinbin replied:

"Ask a question, have you ever noticed that among us ordinary people who all have similar IQs, there are also differences between people?

So where does this gap most commonly exist? Is there someone who, no matter how hard they try, can't catch up to a drop of sweat from a genius?

No, that is the difference between geniuses and ordinary people, not between ordinary people and ordinary people.

Putting aside geniuses and ordinary people, the common gap I mentioned between ordinary people is mainly reflected in the following situations.

It is a decision-making plan that you need to think about for a while, and a technical level that you need to practice for a while to develop. Some people can just open their mouths and do it without thinking.

For example, if you are just learning to drive, you need to think about how to engage the accelerator, brakes, steering, wipers, etc.

But for experienced drivers, this is all instinct and can be done directly.

For example, during an exam, you still need to spend time calculating a knowledge point that you have just mastered.

But students who have studied a lot of questions can choose the right ones just based on their "question sense".

For example, if I had an argument with a shrew, I would probably have to think about it for a long time as to how to say the most offensive sentence.

But by this time, that shrew had probably scolded me to the thirteenth generation of my ancestors.

In fact, most of the problems in the world can be smoothed out as long as enough time is given.

There is a big gap between people who can't drive and people who can drive.

But there is no difference between someone who has been driving for fifteen years and someone who has been driving for thirty years.

If you give a few more hours to the exam, good students who are slow in answering questions will have a higher chance of getting high scores.

I couldn't quarrel with the shrew at that time, but as soon as I lay in bed, I could come up with so many dirty and curse words in a sleepless night, and I regretted that I didn't think of them in the first place.

Therefore, as long as there is time, many gaps between people can be smoothed out.

It's a pity that we don't always have enough time for me to think at critical moments.

The problem at hand will force you to make a decision as soon as possible, so the level of your intuitive system at this time is the difference between us ordinary people. "

Li Miaomiao nodded in understanding.

"According to you, an ordinary person's instinctive reaction in certain aspects is not innate, but is the result of extensive practice of the acquired rational system and intuitive system?"

Cao Qinbin replied affirmatively:

"Yes, we just need to think more deeply and practice more about the problems we face when it is not urgent.

When we can smoothly transform the laborious rational system into a relaxed and happy intuitive system, the gap between us and others can be truly widened. "

Li Miaomiao asked: "Dean Cao, did you realize these things yourself?"

Cao Qinbin shook his head and said:

"No, this is all written in the book. It's just a matter of learning. There is a way out.

You can still survive if you don't study well, but you can't survive if you don't do your job well.

So you will find that not everyone can endure the hardships of study, but everyone must endure the hardships of life. "

After listening to Cao Qinbin's words, Li Miaomiao finally knew what to do.

She already has many ideas about the direction of future work.

As she thought about it, her heart began to get restless.

"Oh, it's so hot!"

Li Miaomiao took off her coat.

Li Miaomiao saw that she had already revealed her original headlights, but Cao Qinbin remained unmoved.

She moved a little towards Cao Qinbin.

Now she was completely butt-butt-butt to Cao Qinbin.

She leaned on Cao Qinbin and asked: "Dean Cao, thank you for guiding me in the direction. How can I repay you?"

Cao Qinbin put his hand on her waist and said with a smile: "It's better."

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