Old people like to laugh at children and young people most. They are unmarried and do not understand taste. When couples quarrel, they quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. So her mother complained about her father every day, but actually she never thought about parting ways with her father. In the same way, her father complained about her mother every day and never thought of separating from his wife.
This kind of quarrel between couples does not hurt themselves. After all, it is the path they have chosen that they cannot blame others for. Who is hurt? It's a child.
The psychological shadow caused by parents to their children is definitely lifelong.
So for children, does the love and happiness of parents definitely have a good influence?
Medical science has long proven that the influence of one person on another can never be explained clearly, and even brain science has yet to understand it.
For example, her grandfather was a well-known lover in the neighborhood. He took care of his sick wife for many years and never left her until her death. After his wife passed away, he never thought about marrying again when he was young. Otherwise, with her grandfather's handsome appearance, many women would be willing to take the initiative to hook up with her.
As a result, my grandfather’s two daughters, their mother and their aunt, all had unhappy marriages.
Parents who are too loving may give their children the illusion that all marriages in this society are happy? ? ?
Influenced by her father's view of love, her mother believed that after establishing a nuclear family, everything should focus on the nuclear family.
Her father had accepted the clan concept cultivated by the old Xie family on his son since he was a child. A small personal family must make all concessions for the big Xie family.
Therefore, a strange thing happened. Even though his family could not open the rice pot, Xie Changrong was told by his family that he used the scholarship his daughter received from studying to support his younger brother in buying a house.
It would be the same if this matter were dealt with in a wealthy family. Believe it or not, if one party takes most of their assets and gives it to others, even wealthy couples will fall apart. For example, rich gay men hate the devil's wife who supports his younger brother. It can only be said that men and women are mutually exclusive in this matter.
Why is marriage said to be the grave of love? It’s just because you didn’t fully understand the logic of the other person’s mind before marriage.
To ensure a good marriage, we can only wait until the day when medical science advances to the point where we can first detect what kind of ceiling logic line is in the other person's brain and whether it is the bottom line of work that we can tolerate. Otherwise, we will never be able to solve the problem of whether a man and a woman are fully compatible.
What to do if it doesn't fully adapt? I can only make do with it. More often than not, couples laugh at themselves that their marriage is a makeshift one.
Sun Rongfang has no confidence in her own brain, so she can only rely on her daughter to be unlike herself, so it is best to study medicine. Knowing more about the human body will help her make good life choices.
Talking about the specific process of the incident that year, after sending his son away, Mr. Du described:
Sun Rongfang took care of Grandpa Du when she was young and was appreciated by Grandpa Du, and then met Mr. Du's eldest brother. Mr. Du's eldest brother wanted to marry her mother, but her mother refused because her father was the marriage partner.
Not only that, because she had to draw a line with Brother Du on this matter, her mother didn't protest even though she knew someone had secretly hacked her exam results.
The so-called examination refers to the personal medical examination selection conducted by Grandpa Du to recruit a medical staff who will take care of him for a long time.
"Your mother's grades were not replaced by anyone, but were deliberately lowered. My eldest brother did this."
It can be heard that Brother Du was very angry at that time. If you would rather reject me than choose that boy who is much worse than me, I might as well do whatever you want.
After suppressing her mother, supporting Dr. Shao became a must.
(End of chapter)
