Doctor Tong straightened his back, and a premonition told him: It's bad.
He guessed wrong again.
In clinical practice, especially in the top three hospitals in China, the number of patient visits is large and the doctor's time for diagnosis and treatment of each patient is short. Under the condition that there is not enough communication time, doctors over time become the comrades of parents in China, habitually helping patients with advice, euphemistically saying that they think for the patients.
Not to mention a great person like Dr. Tong. When patients come to him for medical treatment, they almost always treat him with respect. As a doctor, he does whatever he says. There are one or two exceptions that Dr. Tong can easily ignore.
The concept and habits of doctors should be the same as those of parents. Good intentions may not always be rewarded well.
Everyone is an individual, every child thinks differently, and every patient’s demands are destined to vary from small to subtle to vastly different.
Some of the patient's ideas may go beyond the doctor's imagination.
For example, for the aunt who loved to dance in the general surgery department, her most important concern was not to live a long life but to avoid having an ostomy and to preserve the anus.
Teacher Tan, like most doctors who are benevolent doctors, never thought of this, but ended up hitting a wall with their patients.
The reason why classmate Xie has a sensitive sense of smell for these patients is because they are both women.
There are gender differences in the demands of male and female patients, which stems from the different social requirements for men and women.
For example, society is more picky about women's appearance than men, and men are stricter about their height than women. This social atmosphere has led to gender differences in the medical field. Men have greater demands for height-enhancing surgeries, while women have greater demands for cosmetic surgeries.
Society's individual constraints on patients sometimes even become brand names, which are deeply engraved in the bones of some patients. If you ask her/him to change, he/she is willing to die.
An aunt who loves to dance may have been deeply influenced by the surrounding environment all her life and developed the habit of loving beauty. She cannot go out with an ostomy and be laughed at in private. Rather than endure such humiliation, which is so different from the first half of life, it is better to die. Anyway, you don’t live long with cancer.
You really can’t say whether the patient is wrong or not with this kind of thinking. As classmate Xie said to Teacher Tao before, don’t forget that the patient’s right to choose his life is not in the hands of the doctor.
Men are more accepting of ostomy than women, and men are more accepting than women of the sequelae that affect appearance after surgery. Therefore, there is a saying: male patients are more rational than female patients.
Can you blame the female patient for her poor brain? Let’s take breast cancer surgery as an example of breast-conserving or breast-conserving surgery.
Young female patients choose not to have breast-conserving surgery in order to live longer. Whether it is their husband or boyfriend who stays with her for a short period of time, it is common for them to divorce and break up within a few years. Even the top tertiary female breast surgeon in the country has said that fellow women generally advise young women to conserve breasts if they can. The reality is cruel, and it is an exception that love does not disappear with the young lover's "Ru" room.
Young people have more opportunities to choose, so why should they hang themselves from a tree? Not only women think this way, but men also think so.
After being reminded by classmate Xie, Dr. Tong finally realized: the patient's focus is not on vision but on endocrinology.
He tells patients a lot about how to maintain their vision without leaving scars after surgery, but they don't take too much care.
There are some blind musicians, but sight is not the most important thing for musicians. On the contrary, as a star who often performs on stage, it would be absolutely terrible if she changed from a beautiful woman to a fat woman.
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