All I can say is that I pity the hearts of parents in the world.
The doctors looked at each other in shock after hearing this.
Chief Yang, who used to be a surgeon, has never changed his humorous style after moving from surgery to the logistics department. He put his hand on Tao Zhijie's shoulder, patted him, and said with sincerity: "You are not bad, it turns out you are a surgeon." A heartthrob, how come I don’t show it off normally?
Tao Zhijie maintained a calm and smiling face in front of the leader.
Section Chief Yang turned back and pointed at him to the patient's family members: "We all want to introduce him to a girlfriend so that he can get out of his single life as soon as possible. I think Dean Wu wants to do the same."
Mother Lin, who was crying like a tearful child, suddenly heard what the doctor said was beyond her expectation, and she was confused. You think her motherly love prepared her daughter to go through fire and water, to be scolded, and to beg after being scolded. How did you know that the doctor didn't scold her at all?
Father Lin was anxious to explain a few words to his wife: "Doctor, we know that our request is too much. But there is really no way, no one can convince her. Don't worry, Doctor Tao. We will never pester you. Wait until she is done. Surgery, we will explain the truth to her immediately. Let her leave you no matter what, so as not to cause you any trouble."
"You didn't understand what Section Chief Yang meant." Dean Wu, who was sitting behind his desk, criticized Section Chief Yang for speaking half-sentences and causing misunderstandings.
Section Chief Yang accepted the education from Dean Wu and said to the family members: "If you really want to do this kind of thing, just give them two a red line. Why lie? They are both alone, and there is no moral issue involved in being together." It would be a good thing if we can really get married."
"But -" Lin's father and mother Lin hesitated.
"Look, you don't think it's appropriate to do this, right?" Section Chief Yang said.
Leadership speeches are very artistic. Therefore, Tao Zhijie remained silent all the way, and there was no need for him to appear on stage. The leader took care of it.
Dean Wu and Section Chief Yang are not only cunning hospital leaders, but also experienced doctors who have practiced medicine for many years. They have very reliable philosophy of life on how to deal with clinical interpersonal incidents. It's enough to talk to people and talk to ghosts, there is no need to get angry and forceful.
You said that the requirements that Father Lin and Mother Lin made for their daughter sounded unrealistic and seemed excessive at first glance. But a doctor is a doctor, and the professional requirement is to have the benevolence of a doctor. The essence of a doctor's benevolence is to clearly realize that getting sick is a tragedy in itself.
Father Lin and Mother Lin are very pitiful, and the patient Lin Jiayin is very pitiful. As a doctor, you must have basic sympathy for patients and their families. As for the unrealistic demands made by the other party, the appropriate approach is to take care of the family's temporary emotions and then slowly explain the medical issues involved.
Section Chief Yang first made a joke, and then Dean Wu used it to calm the other party's emotions.
Every great doctor is also a great psychologist. Otherwise, he will not be a good doctor and may get into trouble first. Clinically, there are many demands from the families of patients who are more extreme than this.
"Why do you think it's inappropriate? Do you think your daughter is not worthy of Dr. Tao? Your mentality is not correct." Section Chief Yang said.
Father Lin sighed, and Mother Lin seemed to be calmer.
The problem for this family is that it is understandable for the patient to be pessimistic when he gets sick, but the family members become more pessimistic or even more pessimistic than the patient himself. This is a serious problem.
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