Ordinary people go to the hospital to see a doctor, usually because they feel something is abnormal about their body or their family members. It is normal for doctors to judge that patients are not sick through examination, but it does not mean that patients and their families will feel completely at ease when they return home.
As long as the symptoms are not relieved, patients and their families will always have a knot in their hearts.
There is a paradox here. Why do I say I am not sick but have abnormal symptoms? There are some abnormal signs that patients and their families think are abnormal when their bodies are different from others, but in fact no doctor is well-informed. Doctors have seen various patients in clinical practice and know that such "abnormal" symptoms are not abnormal but are relatively rare signs among the population. It stands to reason that after such a formal medical explanation, patients and their families should be able to understand and accept that "abnormality" is actually normal.
The above is too simple. To accept "abnormality" as normal and to coexist with "abnormality" is a huge test for human psychology. Psychologists say that only time heals all things, and this is not inconsistent at all.
"Mom, if you are worried, your sister-in-law and my brother will take the child to another hospital for examination. Do you want to come to Shour for examination?"
"It doesn't seem necessary. It's just, you know, it looks uncomfortable."
What is the abnormality in this child? It turns out to be a birthmark that is often seen on children.
"Mom, listen to the doctor. Observe first. If it grows up or has other abnormalities, let's talk about it later. The birthmark will slowly disappear. You have raised two sons, don't you know?"
"I don't remember you and your brother having such large birthmarks."
"You must have remembered it wrong." Wei Shangquan said that after struggling in the clinical internship, he now has a certain understanding of the exaggerated words of patients' family members. What does a big birthmark mean? I’ve never seen it before? impossible. If this were the case, the doctor would have already told the child that something was wrong when he went for an examination.
Snapped! Mother Wei threw her younger son's phone: This younger son dared to say that she, the mother, remembered it wrong.
Classmate Wei Shangquan looked at the broken cell phone in confusion, and suddenly realized that the most difficult person to communicate with was not strangers but family members.
Families hope that their children will study medicine. The general purpose is to make it easier for their children to take care of their own health after completing medicine. Unexpectedly, after seeing many clinical experiences, the child became as "cold and heartless" as the doctors in the hospital.
What's normal! What I want is your comfort, and what I want is for you to tell me that you attach great importance to the patient's condition. As a result, you always told me that it was normal, and even accused me of remembering it wrong, and you were more indifferent to my appeals than the doctors in the hospital. ——Mother Wei was probably too angry to speak on the other side.
Classmate Wei scratched the back of his head and walked back. When he walked to the kitchen, he stopped and suddenly said, "Yingying, do you make flowers?"
Um. There happened to be some ribbons on the table, so I made a small bouquet for Senior Brother Cao. Xie Wanying thought. Attached is a thank you card written to Senior Brother Cao. Looking back on the many cares I received from my senior brother over the past year, I feel more and more like what my mother said, remember to be grateful.
Classmate Wei was very happy: the hard work of their classmates today was meaningful.
I was in a hurry to deliver cakes to Senior Brother Cao’s house, but it was already dark outside.
Winter has not passed yet, and the wind and cold outdoors have not abated.
The driver was not there, so Mr. Wei, who had a driver's license, ran to the garage to drive his car to prevent Mr. Xie from freezing.
Xie Wanying, who was standing on the doorstep waiting for the bus, put her hands in the pockets of her cotton-padded jacket and looked around casually.
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