My daughter is not interested in obstetrics and gynecology.
This sentence made Sun Rongfang suddenly remember a few years ago. At that time, her daughter told her cousin's house what department she wanted to be a surgeon. It didn't seem to be obstetrics and gynecology, which made Zhou Ruomei furious.
"Her learning ability is very good, and it is not a technical problem or ability problem." Cao Zhao followed closely and explained the meaning of his words to Xie's mother, "It is more important for medical students to choose the department where their personality is suitable. Department work. Each department faces different specialist diseases and faces different patient groups. For example, after going to the obstetrics and gynecology department, Yingying should have experienced some of the special requirements for doctors in the department of obstetrics and gynecology. "
What Brother Cao said should be referring to the situation that she had heard introduced by her senior sisters before going to the obstetrics and gynecology department. When it comes to obstetricians, they should take care of the patient's psychology just like the patient's parents. After going to Beito San, she saw with her own eyes in clinical practice that teachers acted like parents, comforting psychologically fragile mothers.
"What's your mentality?" Sun Rongfang asked.
"The teacher Du she follows is called the obstetrics dad." Sure enough, Cao Zhao said so.
"You mean like the mentality of mom and dad? That's over. She's like a child." Sun Rongfang decisively patted her thigh and admitted that her daughter was not up to par.
Others were shocked by Mama Xie's words.
"The ancients said that people before they start a family are like children." Sun Rongfang said that her daughter has never started a family or got married.
"That's not the case." Cao Zhao couldn't help but laugh, and continued to thank his mother, "It doesn't mean that to be an obstetrician and gynecologist, you must be married and have children. There are obstetricians and gynecologists in our country who never marry, and they devote themselves to He devoted himself to the cause of medicine until death and made significant contributions to the academic field."
"By that, what do you mean?"
"It means someone who has a mother-father complex."
Even if they are not married, such obstetricians and gynecologists have mother's love and father's love in their hearts. People who cherish maternal love and paternal love do not necessarily need to get married and have children. The simplest example is that Dr. Zheng is not married but only has a boyfriend, but he fantasizes about having children after getting married. No matter how criticized Shen Xifei is, Dr. Hu can see that her dream is simply to work, get married and have children, and she has long wanted to be a mother. Although Dr. Peng is young, she is the mother of a two-year-old child.
In stark contrast, classmate Geng Yongzhe was preoccupied with thinking about how to treat his younger brother's leg. Xie is pursuing a career outside his heart. Clinically, there are more than just two of these medical students, there are many, and they are not suitable for obstetrics and gynecology. Being an obstetrician and gynecologist is very tiring, and you have to be a good parent to your female patients. There are many diseases in obstetrics and gynecology. To put it bluntly, it requires a parent's heart to understand, tolerate, worry and discipline.
Du Haiwei is a famous doctor and teacher who has high demands on his students. Generally, units do not require this level of requirements. These need to be expressed clearly.
People who hear this will inevitably have a question. Obstetricians and gynecologists are like parents, what about pediatricians? Aren’t children in the pediatric department more pursuing the feeling that doctors are like their parents?
uncertain. You can refer to the performance of the two children at the scene. Do they pursue the doctor brother as they pursue their parents?
Sun Rongfang realized: "My son is in the rebellious stage and he hates listening to me."
The complexity of pediatrics is here. Children are developing and their bodies and minds undergo unforeseen individual changes every year as they age. Maybe last year I was still attached to my parents, but next year I suddenly no longer want them.
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