at night.
Fu An held his wife in his arms and refused to let go, Ming Hua was tortured so much. The next day, she didn't wake up until three o'clock in the morning. When she touched the place next to her, she felt that it was already cold.
Opening her eyes drowsily, Minghua sat up, rubbed her eyes, and pulled a few handfuls of her hair. The physical discomfort made her want to continue sleeping, but she took her phone and looked at the time. It was almost twelve o'clock.
I had to get up lazily, tidied myself up slowly and went downstairs.
"Good afternoon, Mom and Dad." After saying that, he couldn't help but yawn.
Yu Youyi saw the tiredness on her face and said considerately: "Did you not sleep well? You can continue to sleep after lunch."
"good."
Minghua stared at her son anxiously, "Why is he asleep?"
"I refused to sleep last night and didn't go to bed until eleven o'clock at night. I woke up again in the early morning and played for a long time. I drank milk and fell asleep again in the morning." Yu Youyi looked helpless.
Children's sleep is really difficult to control. If they sleep too much during the day, they can't fall asleep at night; if they can't sleep at night, they have to sleep during the day. If the cycle continues, the child's sleep time will be completely disrupted.
Minghua knew this too well. During the month of confinement, the child stayed up at night and made noises. She spent a lot of effort to calm him down, but she didn't expect that it would only take a long time for him to become chaotic again.
"Mom, wake him up; otherwise you won't be able to sleep at night. Once or twice is okay, but after a long time, you and dad will not be able to sleep well."
As you get older, your sleep becomes lighter and it becomes more difficult to fall asleep; the time to sleep is very precious, and parents are unwilling to leave their children to nannies and sleep with them every day, which drags them down and they can't sleep. She The daughter and daughter-in-law also feel distressed.
Yan Fanghong and Yu Youyi don't have any troubles in this area for the time being, but what she prevents is that they didn't have insomnia originally, but instead developed insomnia because of the child.
"If the child likes to sleep, let him sleep. If he is coaxed well at night, he can fall asleep." Yu Youyi felt sorry for her grandson and couldn't bear to let him sleep.
Yan Fanghong also felt sorry for his eldest grandson, and would rather be tormented by him in the middle of the night than wake him up now.
Minghua sighed silently, this is probably the current situation of most grandparents raising their grandchildren; when they are a generation apart, the younger generation feels very sorry for them, and they are just supporting and coaxing them.
"Mom and Dad, he must change his bad habits as soon as possible and form a habit."
Yu Youyi couldn't help but think of what her son was like when he was a child. Didn't she come here like this at that time? She always wanted to teach her son well, so that he could develop good habits from an early age and become an excellent child.
Minghua added: "It's right to spoil your child, but you can't spoil your child's bad habits; that will harm him. Not sleeping at night is bad for your health, don't you think so?"
"Yes." Yu Youyi nodded and had to admit that what Huahua said was right; children are too young to understand, how can adults like them not understand? If they are used to it, they are harming others and themselves. "Listen to Huahua. Cultivating good habits in children requires long-term maintenance."
What a person's habits and upbringing are can be seen from the other person's daily words and deeds; truly well-educated children will speak and behave gracefully, and their table manners are pleasing to the eye.
She has raised her son, and she cannot harm her grandson in this regard.
Yan Fanghong stopped talking. He was not good at teaching children, so he was right to listen to his wife.
Minghua personally picked up her son and woke him up. When he woke up, the little boy had tears in his eyes, yawned a little, and felt uncomfortable. Minghua coaxed him for a while before coaxing him.
Just like that, during lunch, in order to prevent the little guy from falling asleep while she was no longer asleep, Minghua ate with him in her arms.
While eating, I kept an eye on the little guy's mental state. Once he saw his eyes and faces close, I would push him to wake him up. The little guy was so sleepy that he couldn't sleep, and there was an unscrupulous mother next to him who would harass him from time to time.
Yu Youyi felt distressed when she saw it. She wanted to persuade him but couldn't.
She has experienced the trouble of children not sleeping in the middle of the night; children who have not slept well since childhood are not good for the development of their internal organs.
"Huahua, let's take the child out for a walk after dinner; let him see the new things outside, and he can hold on for a while." It's okay to go to bed at seven or eight o'clock in the evening, but it can't be in the afternoon anyway.
After hearing this, Minghua thought it was feasible, "Okay, let's take him out for a walk after dinner; get in touch with more people so that he won't grow up to be introverted and shy."
Yu Youyi thinks this is right.
Many children who rarely see outsiders tend to be introverted and shy; children who often see outsiders and are in contact with peers have different temperaments.
The mother and daughter agreed that after lunch, they said something to Yan Fanghong and went out with the child in their arms.
Yan Fanghong was bored at home and had no choice but to take a nap; his retirement days were so leisurely that people doubted his life. Few of his peers retired so early. All of them still stick to their posts and have no Retirement ideas.
"Meow meow, what do you see in front of you?" He held his son upright and pointed at the child in front of him who walked crookedly like a little duck. That was a girl. From the look of her clothes, she looked like a child from a wealthy family. She was followed by A nanny.
Miaomiao followed her mother's pointing and looked over. The expressionless look on her face made Minghua want to kiss him; her son was soft and cute, but she didn't spend much time with her, so he wasn't too familiar with her, but he was a little unfamiliar with her.
"Yeah." Open your mouth and pronounce.
Minghua smiled and said, "Yes, that's little sister. When you grow to be as tall as little sister, you will be able to walk. When the time comes, your mother and grandma will take you out to play, and you can walk by yourself like little sister."
The nanny who was following the little girl watched them all stare at the little girl and nervously separated them.
Minghua withdrew her gaze. It was indeed impolite to keep staring at others.
"The child is still young, he can't understand now." Yu Youyi smiled softly and poked her grandson's chubby face, "Our meow is so cute."
She has a pair of big watery eyes, a plump face, and a fair face that makes people want to eat her.
"Mom, talk to him more. It won't be too difficult to talk in the future. When I have time, I will take him outside to meet other children of the same age and let them play together. Meow Meow will become a cheerful child in the future."
Yu Youyi shook his head, "It doesn't matter if the child is a cheerful child, as long as he is healthy physically and mentally. When my mother taught An An, she always wanted to make him an excellent child and an excellent man when he grew up."
"You did a good job, An An is outstanding." Yan Fu An's current achievements are destined to prevent him from being called mediocre; instead, because of his great achievements, everyone talks about him well.
Yan Fuan had a clear mind.
Of course, in front of unexpected people except Minghua.
In front of Minghua, he can be called a love brain. Whatever Minghua says is fine; he will give Minghua whatever he wants. As long as Minghua opens her mouth, he will not say a word no.