"Minghua, guard against arrogance and impetuosity."
After the people left, Xu Shoufu talked to Minghua.
Minghua nodded in response, "Yes, master."
"Your two senior brothers are currently enrolled in Xingzhi Academy. Do you want to go? Xingzhi Academy is ranked among the top 23 academies around the capital. The gentlemen are knowledgeable and talented. After enrolling, what you can learn will be More. Even though I can teach you as a teacher, if you learn too much, it will be detrimental to you."
"I will obey the master's arrangements." The master will not harm her.
Xu Shoufu nodded with a smile, "Then go, I will write you a letter of recommendation, and I will take you out to visit the dean of Xingzhi Academy tomorrow."
"Master, thank you for your help in making arrangements. The disciple must study hard and not lose the reputation of the master." He happily promised that with such a good opportunity, it would be a loss not to study.
Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles.
She also wants to see more new things in the outside world. She has always known that the things she sees are different in every time period; and every world has its own unique charm, and she wants to see it.
As an actor in the modern world, she feels that the state of mind is constantly tempered. In the mixed circle of the entertainment industry, if you are in a bad state of mind, you will not be able to get out. Only those with a good and stable state of mind can make it to the end.
And this world was something she wanted to explore.
"You and I, master and disciple, don't need to be polite. If you are good, you can be a good teacher. However, the three grandsons of the master, who are not good at literature or martial arts, are also studying in Xingzhi Academy. After you go there, help the teacher to supervise and supervise , If it doesn't work, give them a good beating." If you can't teach them well, you will learn to learn them when the beating hurts.
"Ah?" Minghua was startled by his sudden words. She didn't react for a moment, "Master, you want me to beat...them?"
Xu Shoufang seriously agreed, "You are their master's aunt and have the right to discipline them; if they don't obey, they will be beaten. The environment in my chief minister's mansion is too comfortable for them, and they have never been hit. They don't know the dangers of the world, let alone Everything in the world depends not on your parents, but on your own ability to strive for it.”
"I can't beat them."
Xu Shoufu:......
"They don't dare to attack you. If they dare to attack you, come back and talk to your master; or ask your senior and second senior brothers to help you beat them up. If they dare to bully your master and destroy their ancestors, wait until they come back and teach them well." A double whammy.
He finally discovered that his two sons grew up in a comfortable environment and became people who knew all kinds of things. He hoped to have several grandchildren back.
Minghua reluctantly agreed, "Okay, I will listen to the master, but I really beat people up. My senior brothers and sisters-in-law won't give me any trouble, right?"
"They don't dare."
"Okay, if you say this, can I just let go?"
Xu Shoufu chuckled and nodded at her, "Cunning girl, fine, do whatever you want; as long as you don't torture people to death, fine, let's go read a book. I'll take you to Xingzhi Academy with them tomorrow morning. Now it's time to enroll. It’s time.”
The academy has holidays, and this period is a holiday; they are all at home, and once they enroll, there are fewer opportunities for them to come back.
Minghua didn't know yet, so she bowed respectfully and left the study. She found her two senior brothers and told them that she was going to Xingzhi Academy. The two senior brothers were happy at first, and then worried.
"The academy is full of men. Where did you go and live?"
"The master will make arrangements, and I won't be left without a place to live." He was very tolerant. Since the master would say this, he must have a plan.
Ji Jin thoughtfully said, "Yes, Master will definitely have arrangements. When we enter the academy, we may be assigned to the same class. When the time comes, no one will dare to bully you as long as we are here."
Cui Changhe nodded in agreement and thought of another question.
"Master has arranged the accommodation, but my junior sister is in and out of the same house as us men all day long. It's detrimental to the scenic spot!" People will talk about her wedding in the future.
"There is nothing we can do about it. Who allowed the junior sister to be so promising? It would be a waste of talent to stay in Beijing and not go to school. If you go there, you are afraid of losing your reputation. Should you let the junior sister stand still?" Ji Jin shook his head and sighed softly. , "We are always by our little sister's side, how can it be damaged?"
Cui Changhe was still worried but had nothing to do.
Minghua listened for a while and said, "Two senior brothers, I don't value reputation."
"You don't value it because you are still young. You will understand when the marriage is discussed. There is no family in the capital that does not value reputation. A girl with a good reputation will get married much more smoothly and marry well." Cui Changhe said anxiously.
Ji Jin said: "Stop talking, Master has Master's plan. It's useless for us to think so much here. Junior sister is also willing to go, isn't it just to go to school with the man! We are all by Junior sister's side, and we can't stay together."
Even if someone takes advantage of their reputation in the future, they will still have room to refute.
Cui Changhe glanced at him, and the senior brother still thought less; he who is dirty will see his dirty work! They are men too. If you want to ruin a person's reputation, who will reason with you? Cui Changhe, who had seen too many backyard tricks, was worried.
"First senior brother, second senior brother, please relax; I don't care about reputation, and I don't want to get married." Minghua curled her lips, "Men will only affect the speed of my progress. I want to be single; when I get old in the future, my brothers will The younger generation will take care of them, and at worst I will have two more adopted children; people don’t have to get married in this life, so I don’t want to get married, it’s not good at all.”
"What's wrong? Find a husband who loves you, and have someone to share the burden with you at all times. Isn't this good? Living alone is comfortable, but the pressure is also great. After a hundred years, you will have to Those who are buried in the husband's family, if there is no husband's family, they can only be buried in the family; and there are no heirs to worship in the family..."
Minghua finally understood that the second senior brother valued his family and heirs too much.
However, having experienced modern society, she understands better than anyone else that having children and raising them well is the foundation for old age. Poor upbringing, or even mistakes along the way, can be really fatal, sad and harmful to the body.
There are quite a few children who have worked hard to raise and grow up, but they don’t care about their elders when they are old; when people die and are buried in the soil, who would still think about incense?
Besides, she won't care about incense even if she dies.
"Second Senior Brother, I understand what you mean; I have already made up my mind about not getting married." Minghua continued firmly, "Actually, I have always felt that after a woman gets married, all her suffering begins. How wonderful it is to be at home! It hurts to have your parents in your hands. After you get married, your husband’s family is no longer a home, and your natal family is no longer a home. Instead, you become a person without a family. If you take good care of your husband’s family, I will praise you. If you don’t take good care of them, you can take care of them. Gossip can be extremely hurtful.”
"Although I'm not afraid of these gossips, I don't want to go to my husband's house and suffer this for nothing. Isn't it good for a person who is rich and powerful to live how he wants?"
