Seeing his performance, Xia Li knew that this child was far stronger than she thought and was not the kind of person who would collapse easily.
She is not a caring little cotton-padded jacket to others, and she is certainly not a caring big sister to others.
Cut open the skin covering the surface with a single cut, revealing the bloody truth underneath.
"Go back and be a burden to them?"
Xia Dabao gritted his teeth and looked up at Xia Li, making eye contact with her. The right hand he held in his left hand couldn't stop shaking, and his voice was hoarse from not speaking for a long time.
"You're staying with your parents too, why can't I?"
He doesn't want to stay here, he wants to go home.
No matter how good it is here, no matter how full he can eat, his parents are also suffering in the Northeast, and he wants to go there and accompany them!
Xia Li remained calm after hearing his question, and looked at Xia Dabao without flinching.
His calm tone was completely opposite to his usual cheerful temperament, and was even a bit sharp, "I can fish my parents out, can you?
If you have strength, staying together as a family is called helping. If you don't have strength, it's called adding chaos.
I don't object to you wanting to be with them, but I hope you can at least strengthen yourself and become their support rather than a burden.
Self-pity and self-pity are the most useless and time-consuming things in the world, because they can't change any status quo. Only those who love you will pay attention to your emotions. Others will only treat your vulnerability as a talking point or even a joke.
Showing your weakness to outsiders won't do you any good.
If you think about it carefully, when you were in Northeast China, besides your parents, was there anyone else who really cared about your current state? Or is it more of a mockery?
With all due respect, what you are doing now will only make your loved ones angry and your enemies happy, and it will not change any status quo. "
Thirteen-year-old boys have already understood everything they should know. Maybe they are not understanding, but they are not as ignorant as children.
In peaceful times, children who grow up in a flower house and whose parents love them naturally have time to grow up, but Xia Dabao does not have that long.
Now that decade has just begun, and the next few years are only going to get worse, and there's no time to give a kid a chance to be weak.
Xia Dabao is very smart.
It was precisely because of this intelligence that he was able to quickly understand the reason why his family was being targeted and was devolved after he was devolved.
Xia Li can understand Xia Dabao's anger towards Xia Jianguo, and can also understand his resentment towards Xia Jianguo.
But... that's her dad. She just isn't happy when someone bullies her dad. She just helps her parents but doesn't help them.
Even if the other person is a child.
Ever since Xia Li brought Xia Dabao into the room, Xia Jianguo and his wife had been leaning on the door quietly listening to the conversation between the two inside.
Xia Jianguo made this decision without feeling too guilty about his eldest son, because his eldest son was a soldier and was in the same faction as him, so he should be responsible for supporting this place.
But Xia Jianguo really couldn't bear his eldest grandson, and he felt sincere regret.
After hearing what my daughter said so bloody, I immediately wanted to go in and tell my daughter to stop talking. The child was still young, and it didn't matter even if he hated him. It was him, the grandfather, who had harmed him.
It's okay not to understand him.
Seeing that her old man had the urge to go in, Li Xiuli quickly reached out and pressed his arm, looked at him, and shook her head in disapproval.
Although what my daughter said was a bit heartbreaking, it was all true.
The most important thing for them now is to keep the child first. They can't finally fish the person out and then send the person back to that difficult place, right?
What if...what if the child wants to think about it?
Seeing her like this, Xia Jianguo had no choice but to give up.
He stared closely at the movement in the room, fearing that his daughter would get excited and beat the child again.
Xia Li in the room had no urge to hit anyone at all, and directly showed Xia Dabao all the bleak conditions.
"The situation will only get worse in the next few years. Not only will you not be able to help your parents after you pass, but they will also suffer together.
What you have to do is to strengthen yourself to change the status quo, so that you can become their support. "
The originally excited young boy was quietly listening to Xia Li explain the current situation one by one. Instead, he was very calm, and there was not much emotion in his dark eyes.
After Xia Li finished speaking, he had a cool and somewhat mocking smile on his face, placed his hands in front of Xia Li, and quietly let go of his left hand with his right hand.
His tone was calm to the point of sarcasm: “You said it nicely.
Look at my hands, how can I change this? ! "