move forward with determination

After walking a long way, look back. I can say with a clear conscience that everyone I have met on campus has been sincere to each other, but I also have to admit that sometimes my motivations for making friends are indeed selfish.

Many times, communication with others is indeed selfish. Maybe there is something wrong with my thinking. I really don’t think there is a conflict between my selfishness and my sincerity towards others.

What I dream to accomplish cannot be accomplished by just a few people. It requires a group of people with the same mind to work together.

Some people think that no one can empathize with others' experiences, so don't reveal your feelings to others, otherwise it may become a weakness when others attack you.

But I think you don’t need to be so afraid of the above-mentioned things. The way is to expose your mind completely and let most people in your life know your thoughts.

When everyone knows what you are thinking, I think whether the idea is a ridiculous dream talk or a reliable truth in real life, it cannot become a weapon for others to hurt you.

To put it bluntly, even if all those "youthful arrogances" are not realized in the end, the worst result is that it will just become a topic for others to talk about before tea and after dinner.

In fact, from another perspective, there is nothing wrong with this. At least they remind you that your existence has meaning no matter what. Even if they are some jokes, maybe in a few years they can add some fun to a life that may be boring.

Compared with the final result, I think the process of making friends is worth cherishing more. People's experiences are bound to be different, even completely different. Therefore, I think making friends is one of the most convenient ways for people to understand the multifaceted nature of the world.

I cherish every memory, even if the original motives were not pure.

Finally, I would like to quibble: "Making friends has a certain purpose. You must feel that you can gain something before you choose to get closer." Whether it is the intuitive material value or the somewhat ethereal emotional value, I think it is always There are certain things that people strive for.

I don’t think the so-called purity without any purpose is what people are pursuing. Let me make a bold guess: Even in that ideal society where everyone is equal, 'purity' without any purpose should not be what people want.

The dream situation requires long-term hard work. Dear fellow travelers, in the days to come, there is no need to be afraid of other people’s comments. Just make progress and just want to grow and mature.