Hello! Nice to meet you!

If teachers are engineers of the human soul, then what are friends?

They are fellow travelers! They are those who can accept your shortcomings and shortcomings, and can also perceive and appreciate your strengths.

Making friends is often based on the first instinct upon first meeting. Every encounter in the past, and every time I mustered up the courage to approach, are all times that I regard as treasures.

That’s what I did ten years ago, and I think I’ll continue to do that ten years from now.

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"The bravest way to go against the grain is to turn your back to the crowd." Maybe it was influenced by those incredible experiences in my childhood. From the first time I meet someone to the time I get to know them, I almost always show my worst side directly. (I choose to believe that "human nature is inherently good" so that I can barely accept the false assertion of "childish talk".)

An inappropriate analogy: Empress Wu Zetian's wordless monument - "The merits and demerits will be judged by future generations."

After understanding the worst side of me, in your daily life and study, you can take another look and consider whether you want to go with me.

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I know very well that when people first meet each other, they will show each other what they think is their best side.

So as long as I'm different from other people, I can maximize the number of looks that are thrown at me when we first meet. Whether a person chooses to admit or deny it subjectively, this is an unchangeable fact that is louder than words, because this is the human heart! People are always difficult to understand or full of curiosity about things beyond their own cognition. . For people in a group, the above thinking mode will also be strengthened by the shortcomings of people's group attributes.

Now that the eyes are watching my behavior, speech and demeanor. Next, is the next step - "Do what I think is right!"

The rest is up to you: trust me, take a step forward, and we will be together from now on; deny me, take a step back, and we will be strangers from now on.

I think making friends this way will avoid the embarrassment and embarrassment of "old people don't know my current situation and new people don't know my past"; maybe in the future they will meet by chance in the crowd and become friends naturally through casual contact and communication.

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Life always likes to create some surprises, but it also gives me the hope of telling my old friends: "Time will be as it always is, stay safe again." At the same time, I will continue to move forward with the belief that "the world is big and the same dream is blooming".

Time always flies. Let time slip away quietly in the gap between me and people getting to know each other, getting to know each other, and being with each other. This is the most romantic "indictment" of the ruthless time that I can think of.

From childhood to adulthood, time seems to have been pressed on the accelerator button. Not only is the age increasing, but also the mind is constantly being 'ripened' by the outside world.

And all I was doing was delaying my encounter with the adult world, because until then I could firmly believe that the false fairy tale was still credible.

If one day I lose my persistence in childhood innocence and lose my way in this complicated world, I hope that all my fellow travelers can say to each other:

"Hello! Nice to meet you!"