Chapter 1064: Empathy is a sign of high emotional intelligence

Style: Romance Author: Known destinyWords: 2333Update Time: 24/01/12 02:34:29
Lu Zhongliang found that Jia Erhu's IQ and EQ were far higher than he expected. Such a person is most suitable to be his secretary.

However, he also understands that a person with high EQ and IQ like Jia Erhu cannot be content with just being a secretary to a leader, even if he works within the system.

The fact that Jia Erhu can think so carefully about himself is enough to show that he does not regard himself as an outsider, and this is exactly what Lu Zhongliang hopes to see.

Lu Zhongliang smiled: "Xiao Jia, you are very thoughtful, but there is no need, my lover will be here soon."

Jia Erhu was stunned. He didn't expect that Lu Zhongliang had already informed his lover. This was also Lu Zhongliang's cleverness, or prudence.

If you show up with your lover, even if others know, there is nothing to say.

Because Jia Erhu was present and his lover came forward, it means that his meeting with Dongfang Daxing this time was more due to the normal interaction between the two families, rather than anything personal between him and Dongfang Daxing. thing.

Just like last time, Lu Zhongliang took his lover to the hospital to see Zhao Jiawei.

If he just takes the chief secretary with him, or goes alone, it will seem too official, too formal. What does it mean for a man from the city to see an ordinary employee in the system?

It's completely different if you take your lover with you.

It not only shows his personal importance, but also makes people think that the relationship between their two families is unusual and would not cause criticism from others under normal circumstances.

Just then, a car drove in.

At this time, the secretary opened the door and got out of the car, walking directly towards the car.

After the car stopped, Lu Zhongliang's lover got out of the car. The driver opened the trunk and the secretary took out two large packages of gifts. Jia Erhu believed that she must also have brought red envelopes, which are envelopes. .

Although the interactions between these people do not only value the size of the gifts, nor do they mind the thickness of the red envelopes, the problem is that the officialdom has accumulated for many years.

It was originally a casual visit, or a gift exchange on holidays. It was originally meant to deepen the relationship, but I had to prepare a generous gift.

Some people are puzzled by the fact that some corrupt elements have stolen hundreds of dollars that will never be used up in their lifetimes. They really can’t understand why they want so much money.

Are they stupid, just to add a few more years to their sentence when they commit a crime?

It's not that far actually.

Because after they reach a certain position, although they do not originally value etiquette over etiquette, there is a hurdle in their hearts that they cannot overcome.

Everyone is at the same level, so why should you be thicker when you give it to him, and thinner when you give it to me?

Some corrupt elements accept gifts and money from others without even touching them, but it's not enough if you give them less.

If a person is given a thousand, they will never find it too little.

But if you give someone 100,000 and give him 99,000 words, then you might as well not give him a gift, because you have completely offended him.

Jia Erhu immediately went over and called his sister-in-law first.

In fact, given his age, it would not be an exaggeration to call Lu Zhongliang's lover aunt, but they were both related and were not old enough to call each other senior according to their actual age.

Calling sister-in-law can appear affectionate, not rude, and avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

After that, Jia Erhu went to receive the gift from the secretary.

The secretary didn't even hesitate and handed the gift directly to Jia Erhu, because he knew that Lu Zhongliang called his lover over to show that the meeting was unofficial.

As a secretary, it is not appropriate to follow him at this time.

Lu Zhongliang's lover was very impressed by Jia Erhu. In addition to discovering that he had a twin brother last time, Lu Zhongliang often mentioned Jia Erhu at home.

Otherwise, she would not understand why Lu Zhongliang valued this young man Jia Erhu so much.

"Xiao Jia," Lu Zhongliang's lover said to Jia Erhu with a smile, "Thank you for your hard work."

Jia Erhu quickly smiled and said: "It's okay. Sister-in-law, be careful where you step."

In fact, the road underfoot was very smooth, but his words of warning did not sound like nonsense.

Lu Zhongliang looked at his lover and nodded silently. Jia Erhu immediately took the gift and walked in front, followed by Lu Zhongliang and his lover.

His lover said nothing, just glanced at him, and Lu Zhongliang nodded.

The couple made eye contact that only they understood.

The secretary watched them walk into the inpatient department before returning to the car and sitting down.

Jia Erhu walked into the ward carrying two large bags and saw Dongfang Na sitting by the bed with her coat on, and Dongfang Daxing sitting on the bed inside.

"Good leader, Dongfang is always good," Jia Erhu said with a smile, "Boss Lu and his wife are here to see you!"

Hearing that Lu Zhongliang's lover had arrived, Dongfang Daxing, who was originally expressionless, immediately stood up. When he saw Lu Zhongliang and his lover coming in, he immediately smiled and said: "Oh, why are you here? I heard from Xiao Jia that Zhongliang is It’s been a very busy time!”

In any case, if Lu Zhongliang can come, Dongfang Daxing will at least feel more face-saving in front of his daughter and Jia Erhu.

In addition, he was kind to Lu Zhongliang and had no contact with Lu Zhongliang's lover. He was always a guest when he came. Although he criticized Lu Zhongliang's cautiousness, he must be enthusiastic towards his lover.

Lu Zhongliang immediately went over, stretched out his hands to hold Dongfang Daxing's hand tightly, and said: "The leader didn't say hello in advance when he came. I didn't know about it until just before the meeting, so I rushed over after the meeting.

Why is the leader alone here? Do you want to..."

As he said this, he looked back at his lover, indicating that his lover could stay and take care of Dongfang Na if necessary.

Jia Erhu quickly said: "Leader Lu doesn't know, President Dongfang's lover and two younger brothers are also taking care of him. I just called to ask them to stay away."

Lu Zhongliang was startled: "What is there to avoid?"

"Oh," Jia Erhu said with a smile: "Since I'm here, I won't hide it from Leader Lu, because Mr. Smith from last time was President Dongfang's lover.

Last time, in order to build up momentum, I asked Mr. Smith to pretend to be the owner of a foreign-funded enterprise. I was afraid that if Leader Lu saw him here, everyone would be too embarrassed. "

When Lu Zhongliang entered the door and saw Dongfang Daxing alone, he felt very comfortable, but he was worried that Dongfang Daxing mistakenly thought that he had spoken and Jia Erhu asked them to avoid it.

Although that was what he was thinking, he did not speak after all, and he could imagine that although Dongfang Daxing could understand that he had to avoid it, he would definitely feel uncomfortable, so he had to make it clear.

He thought that Jia Erhu would find other excuses, which might not necessarily make sense, and might even make Dongfang Daxing mistakenly think that they were acting.

Even so, this step must not be omitted. He must let Dongfang Daxing know that he really did not ask others to avoid it.

I didn’t expect Jia Erhu to tell Smith’s story, it was perfect!

Moreover, this reason will convince Dongfang Daxing that this request for avoidance was entirely made by Jia Erhu out of his own considerations and has nothing to do with him, Lu Zhongliang.

Dongfang Daxing understood and believed it was true. He immediately said to Lu Zhongliang and his wife with a smile on his face: "Please sit down quickly and I will pour you some water."

Lu Zhongliang's lover immediately said: "Where can I keep the leader busy? Leader, please take a seat. I will come if you need anything!"