After Dongfang Daxing watched the car leave, he said to Dongfang Kun in a serious voice: "Son, sometimes the things you see with your own eyes may not be true, let alone what you heard from others, even if it was said by your mother.
There are no absolutely good people or absolutely bad people in this world. Even the best people have a few enemies, and no matter how bad people are, they have a few friends.
Whether Jia Erhu is good or bad depends on whether you are his friend or enemy.
You can wonder why an enemy treats you so well, or you can wonder why a friend treats you so badly, but don’t jump to conclusions before you understand the truth.
Even if you say that he has an improper relationship with your Aunt Tu, haven’t I already divorced your Aunt Tu?
It’s understandable that he’s nice to Xiaokun, but why should he be nice to Xiaona and you? And you, the fiancée, seem to be reused in his company now. This is definitely not just because of your relationship with Aunt Tu.
Therefore, when you judge whether a person is an enemy or a friend, you must not be influenced by anyone else's thoughts. You must make the correct judgment based on your own feelings or feelings.
At your age, your education, and your years of experience abroad, you should have this ability. "
After saying that, Dongfang Daxing walked back.
Dongfang Xiong chased after him and asked, "Dad, what do you think my attitude towards Jia Erhu should be: friend or foe?"
Dongfang Daxing said: "Didn't I just say it? You need to judge for yourself whether you are an enemy or a friend. Just like your mother's friends must be your friends, her enemies are not necessarily your enemies. "
Dongfang Xiong was a little confused: "Dad, why do I feel that you have been corrupted by him? Did he ask you for help and gave you many gifts, so you have a special affection for him?
If nothing else, just say what you just said. What do you mean by my mother’s friends, who are not necessarily my friends, and my mother’s enemies, who are not necessarily my enemies?
Whether it's mom or you, your friends, maybe I won't treat them as friends, but your enemies, I will definitely treat them as my enemies! "
Dongfang Daxing stopped and asked: "Let's talk about Jia Erhu. His father died that year because of your mother. It should be okay for him to regard your mother as his enemy, right?
If he takes revenge on your mother, or hurts your mother, it's okay for you to treat him as an enemy.
The problem is that he has not hurt your mother now, nor me. Tell me, what grudge do you have against him? "
Dongfang Xiong was stunned for a moment and said: "He doesn't do any harm now, which doesn't mean he won't do any harm in the future. At least he is also my potential enemy."
Dongfang Daxing nodded and said: "You are right to have this idea, and it is even necessary to be mentally prepared for this, but you cannot regard him as an enemy at this time, or deliberately antagonize him.
Let's take this hospital for example. Your sister is being treated here, and the doctor who treats her is very likely to have a medical accident, making your sister's condition worse and worse, or even becoming disabled or losing her life.
Can you regard his attending doctor as a potential enemy and be your enemy at every turn because of this potential risk? "
Dongfang Xiong was left speechless by Dongfang Daxing's question.
Although he felt that his father's words were right, he always felt that something was wrong, at least his father's attitude was wrong.
Dongfang Daxing added: "One more thing you have to remember is that, let alone potential enemies, even if you are facing a clear and real enemy, you must also consider your own strength and weight.
Look at Ding Gang from the Ding Group. You are all about the same age. The matter of Jia Erhu's father also has something to do with his father.
Speaking of which, Jia Erhu is also a potential enemy of Ding Gang, but he is now working next to Jia Erhu. I heard that their Ding Group is also a major shareholder, but Ding Gang has only served as an assistant to the general manager.
Why?
It is obvious that he has restrained his wings and stuck to Jia Erhu's side like a nail. Once there is any trouble, he can not only inform his father, but also coordinate his father and become his father's insertion. A dagger for Jia Erhu's heart.
When you are not strong enough to compete with powerful enemies, you can only treat your enemies as friends, partners, or even brothers and relatives. .
On this point, you have to learn from Ding Gang. "
Dongfang Xiong nodded, feeling that this was what his father should say to him.
Dongfang Daxing added: "As for Jia Erhu, even the rest of us can see that Ding Gang has ulterior motives for being around him, can't he not see it?
Isn't it because your sister came here this time for your mother? Don't you think Jia Erhu can see that?
But in the end, he accepted your sister's shares, made your fiancée their marketing director, and made Xiao Kun their assistant general counsel.
You just said that you think he is very kind to the people in our family. Since he has a grudge against your mother, why is he so kind to everyone?
If you think that he has an affair with your Aunt Tu, it only means that you are too small, or that you are not as mature as Jia Erhu.
In the final analysis, if there ever comes a day when they face each other face to face, you are no match for Jia Erhu.
Treating an opponent who is too powerful to defeat as your own enemy will ultimately lead to your own death. "
Only then did Dongfang Xiong understand that his father did not regard Jia Erhu as a potential enemy, and he did so out of helplessness.
Maybe I wasn't afraid when I was in power in the past, but now that I'm down, I can't compete with Jia Erhu in any aspect, so I try to find a compromise way to interact with Jia Erhu.
And I worry that my recklessness and ignorance will eventually cause misfortune to me.
Dongfang Xiong nodded frequently while following Dongfang Daxing, feeling that his father was still his father and was not on Jia Erhu's side.
But he didn't know that Dongfang Daxing was not his father.
The driver was another new driver, driving a Tank 300.
When getting on the car at the entrance of the hospital, Jia Erhu directly opened the door of the back seat and got in the car.
In front of Dongfang Daxing and Dongfang Xiong, Cheng Caini did not sit in the co-pilot's seat, but sat in the back seat from the other side. She felt that this made her selfless heart even more generous, no matter Dongfang Daxing It's still Dongfang Xiong, so there won't be any doubts.
This is also true, Dongfang Daxing and Dongfang Xiong didn't even mention this matter.
In fact, Jia Erhu thought the same way. When he saw Cheng Caini sitting next to him, he immediately stretched his hand to her thigh and said to the driver: "Drive!"
When the driver started the car, Jia Erhu leaned into Cheng Caini's ear and said, "Wear a skirt at work these days, not jeans. It's inconvenient."
Cheng Caini nodded.
Originally running around on site, Cheng Caini felt that wearing jeans was convenient and more hygienic.
Now Jia Erhu makes her spend more time sitting in the office, and she always wants to eat tofu every now and then. It's really inconvenient for her to wear jeans.
After returning to the company, Cheng Caini went directly to her room, put on a pleated skirt and high heels, and came to the office happily.
