Jia Erhu smiled slightly: "Your face is red again, why can't you be more confident? Do you think the age difference between me and the local leader is too big, or do the two of us have different statuses in the same world?
Or maybe after all, she is your elder, and I am the brother of your classmate. Putting me and Leader Tu together is far-fetched. I always feel that it is not the case. At least such words should not come out of your mouth. .
Is it right? "
Cheng Caini nodded: "Since you can think of everything, it seems that I don't need to add superfluous things."
Jia Erhu said "Yeah": "Let's discuss the matter. Regardless of whether I have anything to do with Leader Tu or not, if that was your judgment just now and you really want to express it in front of me, then you should finish your sentence.
That way, you can show your confidence.
You said half a sentence and left half a sentence, and you listed all the prerequisites, but when you were about to come up with the answer, you stopped abruptly.
This is because you are hesitant in your heart, even a little regretful, and your mentality of worrying about gains and losses makes you unable to control your emotions easily, so your face turns red.
In other words, whether you want to say something or do something, as long as you hesitate, it can easily cause psychological imbalance.
This imbalance will make you habitually express it in the form of blushing. "
Jia Erhu's words may sound a bit convoluted to ordinary people, but Cheng Caini not only understood what he meant accurately, she was also a little confused: How could a person who went to jail before graduating from high school seem to have some foundation in psychology?
Just when she was looking at Jia Erhu in a daze, Jia Erhu suddenly stretched out his hand and pinched her face. Cheng Caini was stunned for a moment and looked at Jia Erhu with a blushing face.
Jia Erhu said calmly: "If I really want to eat you, you will definitely hesitate. After being pinched by me, will you remain silent or will you explode?
If it's silence, do you acquiesce, or do you want to see my next move?
If it were an outburst, would you give me a slap in the face, threaten to call the police, or would you jump into my arms?
If I have these distracting thoughts in my mind, do you think my face will not turn red?
The reason why my face is not red is just because this action of mine is to prove one thing to you, that is, when you say a word or do something without any distractions, anyone can be very good. to control your emotions.
Let’s talk about you.
If you are angry, even if you don't get angry, at least you will have a black face.
If you are not angry and even want to have some relationship with me, you will definitely act coquettishly.
However, you were completely confused just now, and you didn't know what my sudden move meant, because there was no warning.
You want to get angry, but you hesitate because you are sure that I will not pinch you for no reason, but you really can't think of the reason.
Plus, at least so far, you have a pretty good impression of me, at least you don’t think I’m a gangster who likes to do something.
Also because there is no warning, even if you like me in your heart, you will not miss my embrace.
When you face me, you don't know what to do, so your face turns red again.
Do you understand what I mean now? "
Cheng Caini shook her head: "I have to admit that your point of view is theoretically valid and very convincing.
But I still want to say, you just took the opportunity to eat my tofu. "
Jia Erhu glanced at her and asked, "Are you sure?"
Cheng Caini raised her neck: "Of course!"
Jia Erhu took out his mobile phone, clicked on the camera, and then held it up in front of Cheng Caini.
"What?" Cheng Caini asked in confusion.
Jia Erhu said: "Look, your face is not red. Because you just confirmed that we are not flirting. I pinched your face to explain a problem. You said that I took the opportunity to eat tofu, which is also to explain. one question.
You think so and say it with such confidence, so your face won't turn red. "
Cheng Caini shook her head and said with a slight smile: "You are really powerful. I am not saying that you got into a fight. Your speech, behavior and persuasiveness are beyond the capabilities of someone with your experience and age. of.
You and Zhao Jiawei are twins. Speaking of which, I should be a month older than him, and at the same time, I am also a month older than you.
In front of you, I really think that I am your brother's classmate and your little sister.
From the first time I met you to now, no matter what you say or do, you make me feel like a real big brother, or even a big brother. "
Jia Erhu smiled: "You are also very good. You flattered me in person for so long without even blushing. It made me think that everything you said was true."
Cheng Caini said: "What I said is true."
Jia Erhu said: "So you are confident, so your face is not red, because when you were going to say these words of praise for me, you did not hesitate. We were worried about gains and losses.
So if you remember these two feelings, you can overcome the problem of blushing all the time.
The reason why Leader Tu said that the two of us have that kind of relationship, at least you like me, is because when you came back from Changling and talked to them about me, you probably had a mentality of worrying about gains and losses.
I wanted to say nice things about me, but I was afraid of being misunderstood by them.
Say I'm not good, just think that I'm not bad to you.
It is this kind of hesitation that makes you blush when you mention me, which leads to Leader Tu's wrong judgment.
If she can make this kind of judgment, doesn’t your future father-in-law also?
What about your fiancé? I'm afraid he's more sensitive than them, right?
Therefore, your blushing problem will not only affect your career, but may also affect your marriage, that is, your life.
Is there anything wrong with what I said? "
Cheng Caini had to nod her head very seriously: "Mr. Jia, I understand."
Jia Erhu continued: "The reason why Leader Tu mentioned this matter in front of me is because his son is still in the West Country, and your future father-in-law does not want her son to come back. Your future mother-in-law in the West Country also Even Gong Wenxia doesn't want her son to come back.
After all, Leader Tu still had real power, and Gong Wenxia kept her son as a bargaining chip.
Leader Tu understands that Gong Wenxia is most afraid of me, so you let me go to your family gathering just to let Gong Wenxia know that I have intervened in the matter of Leader Tu's son, and she will not ignore it.
But if there is a scandal between you and me at this time, it will be counterproductive and self-defeating.
So Leader Tu is not making fun of you when he is flirting with me, but he is reminding me to pay attention to you.
And when we were eating at the table that night, the way you looked at me and the expression on your face were always abnormal. Anyone at the table at that time would probably think that we had an affair. "
Cheng Caini nodded and said, "I understand."
