Ding Xiaotian sighed: "I want to say that you are young. Jia Erhu seems to be one year younger than you. I want to say that you are ignorant. Whether you are in college or staying at home for the past two years after graduation, it is better than sitting here. Is Jia Erhu in prison more knowledgeable?
Why don't you understand what Jia Erhu is going to do today?
You must first put aside the grudge between us and him. If you don't let go of this, then whatever he does will be against you.
To criticize you is to suppress you without any bottom line.
Praising you is just to numb you.
If you are an outsider today, then you should clearly realize that what he did today achieved at least three purposes.
First of all, I want to tell everyone that the Red Star Company in his mind is definitely not a family workshop.
Although most of the backbone of the company now are either nepotism or buddies and sisters in society, they are full of hooligan vibes.
Today, he did not call you directly, but gave you instructions through Gao Yide, just to let everyone know that from the beginning, Red Star Company was based on the management methods of large international companies.
No matter whether it is uploading or delivering, it must not be skipped.
Especially subordinates must carry out the orders issued by their superiors to the letter.
No matter you are a shareholder of the company or a lover in bed, as long as you sit in the office, you must understand the distinction between superior and inferior.
This is the rule Jia Erhu set for Red Star Company. "
Ding Gang reacted immediately, lowered his head and remained silent.
Ding Xiaotian continued: "Secondly, he wants to tell everyone that in Red Star Company, superiors must accurately issue instructions to subordinates, and subordinates must seriously and deeply understand the instructions of their superiors, and they are never allowed to hold meetings freely.
Especially as a subordinate, if you are not sure that you have understood the instructions from your superiors, you must further confirm with your superiors.
I heard your mother say that Jia Erhu already taught you a lesson at the headquarters in Haicheng. How come you forgot? "
Ding Gang was speechless.
"Third," Ding Xiaotian continued: "He also told everyone that everyone must understand their own position and responsibilities, and at the same time understand the duties and rights of others.
Let's talk about Cao Yadan. Since she is Jia Erhu's secretary, not to mention you, not even Gao Yide has the power to arrange her work, not even the chairman Wu Niya who is your current name.
Just like when he announced a meeting today, why did he call Gao Yide directly instead of calling you and Cao Yadan?
The reason is simple: if he doesn't call you, it's because he can't overstep his command.
He didn't call Cao Yadan because he didn't want Cao Yadan to attend the meeting.
It would be better for you to not only notify Cao Yadan to attend the meeting, but also ask her to take minutes of the meeting. You have disrupted his plan.
Then there are the two girls who went to the north with him at first, and now come to Red Star Company together.
If he wanted them to participate together, do you think Jia Erhu would only name one person and forget the other?
If the theme of his meeting today is to discuss the expulsion of Cao Yadan and that Ronaldinho, how can he hold the meeting with your arrangement? "
Ding Gang sighed, this time he was not dissatisfied, but completely convinced.
However, he was not angry with Jia Erhu, but sincerely admired his father.
He always believed that his father only engaged in eating, drinking, prostitution and gambling. The reason why the company became so big was simply due to good fortune.
Now he understood that his father, who had the same academic qualifications as Jia Erhu, was probably like Jia Erhu, who grew the Ding Group from small to large step by step, and finally became one of the top ten private enterprises in Haicheng.
It is precisely because of this that his father can have a very accurate insight into everything Jia Er is doing now.
Ding Gang asked: "Dad, what should I do now? Should I take the initiative to apologize to him?"
Ding Xiaotian said: "You don't need to ask me about this, you can do whatever you want."
Ding Gang smiled bitterly and said, "If you say that, you might as well ask me to apologize directly!"
"You misunderstood what I meant." Ding Xiaotian explained: "If you apologize at this time, do you think he must think you are sincere?
He may think that you may be determined to endure hardship and accept the consequences, just to continue to stay by his side and wait for the opportunity to completely break up with him.
It is even possible to determine that you called me and I gave you the idea.
Of course, it may also be thought that you realize your mistake and are willing to express your attitude to him candidly.
If you don't apologize, he may feel that you are dissatisfied. Although you are very aggrieved now and work as an assistant in his company, you are also a person with personality, which will make him more vigilant towards you.
At the same time, it is also possible that although you are one year older than him, you are still too young, expressive of joy, anger, sorrow, and joy, and that you are an easily manipulated person, so he relaxes his guard against you.
In other words, as long as you make a decision, it may be right, or it may be wrong.
This world is complex, and everything is a double-edged sword. It is very likely to hurt the enemy, and it is also possible to hurt yourself, so I will not make decisions for you.
As long as you are aware of your weaknesses and want to work hard to overcome them, I believe you will make the right decision in the end.
Whether your decision is correct or not depends entirely on your control over the subsequent development of events, not on other people's attitudes.
Because other people's praise or criticism, smiles or anger may be exactly the opposite of his original intention. "
"I understand." Ding Gang asked again: "Dad, Gao Yide came to see me just now. What do you think he meant?"
Then, Ding Gang relayed exactly what Gao Yide said to Ding Xiaotian.
Ding Xiaotian shook his head: "He is a professional manager, and he knew very well who you were at that time. Although he was invited by Jia Erhu, he did not dare to offend you.
What he is doing today is no different from what almost all professional managers do. You don't need to think about it.
Remember, our only enemy is Jia Erhu, no one else is and will not become our enemy. "
Ding Gang explained: "What I mean is, can we take advantage of Gao Yide's ulterior mentality..."
Before he could finish speaking, Ding Xiaotian interrupted: "What are you thinking? I just said that he is not worthy of being our enemy at all. Is he worthy of being Jia Erhu's enemy?"
By using him, you will not get any benefit or help except for the backlash.
For people like him, just don't offend him. Even if you do, it doesn't matter.
Understand? "
"clear!"
"Also," Ding Xiaotian said, "This Sunday or Saturday, you bring Luo Shan over and let me meet her."
"OK."
After hanging up the phone, Ding Gang thought for a while and decided not to take the initiative to apologize to Jia Erhu.
