Not only did Jia Erhu not take his hand away, but he pinched Li Yanli's leg hard, but it was not a small area, but a large area, so it did not cause pain, but it was a proper ambiguity. Li Yanli had goosebumps all over her body.
"Aunt Li," Jia Erhu immediately changed the topic to Ding Gang: "I think you, Ding Xiaotian is unreliable, let alone Li Zhigao and other pretty boys. Aside from money and sex, putting aside whether he really likes you or not, with Ding Xiaotian's strength, do they dare to offend him?
As for Min, he will get married sooner or later, and there is a high probability that he will marry somewhere else, so you can only rely on Ding Gang.
For Ding Gang, in addition to limited beatings, I also want to bring out his potential as much as possible so that he can take responsibility for his family and you as soon as possible. "
In addition to these objective factors mentioned by Jia Erhu, the concept of favoring boys over girls is still quite serious in the minds of Li Yanli's generation.
No matter how unsatisfactory a son is, he is still a son; no matter how filial a daughter is, she is still someone else's wife.
When he heard that Jia Erhu wanted to focus on training Ding Gang, he was not only doubtful, but also full of curiosity: "What do you want to do?"
Jia Erhu explained: "Let's talk about what happened just now. I can totally blame him in your way. In that case, it will only cause huge pressure on him.
Although I can train him in the same way, the problem is that I am younger than him, have lower education than him, and have a far lower family background than him. If I push hard, it can easily backfire.
While severely damaging his self-esteem, it also caused him to give up on himself.
I am also a young person, and I also like others to wear high hats, so thumb education is equally essential for Ding Gang and people of my age.
I didn't blame him today for making the decision without reporting to me. I just wanted to stimulate his creativity and responsibility for his work to a certain extent.
Just like you don't always talk coldly to me, sometimes you should give me a thumbs up appropriately. "
Li Yanli glanced at Jia Erhu, and then at his hand that was still squeezing her thigh. Although she had a look of disgust on her face, she didn't say a word.
Jia Erhu patted her leg: "Aunt Li, did Ding Gang make you angry again just now?"
"He is here to collect debts. I owed him in my previous life! By the way," Li Yanli sighed, and suddenly approached Jia Erhu and asked, "Is there any way you can make him change his attitude towards me?"
Jia Erhu reached out and touched her face and said, "It's very simple. Don't treat him as a subordinate, but show your true nature as a loving mother in every aspect!"
Li Yanli moved her head to the side, trying to avoid Jia Erhu's hand.
Jia Erhu's hand chased and touched her face.
Li Yanli frowned, no longer paying attention to Jia Erhu's hand, but asked: "How to show it?"
Jia Erhu said: "The 10 million I paid to register the company this time came from Ding Xiaotian. He said that it can be considered as a shareholding or lent to me.
Just work it out and count the ten million as Ding Gang's shares. "
Li Yanli shook her head and said, "This little bastard won't agree."
Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Don't tell him, I will just make insinuations when the time comes. Sometimes a son's feelings for his mother are very strange.
On the surface, he is unwilling to accept his mother's education and management, or even his mother's help. In fact, in his heart, he still hopes that his mother will do everything he wants in secret, just like he did when he was a child.
Maybe you won't say anything with your mouth, or even say bad words as usual, but in your heart you will be grateful for your mother's kindness, and you will definitely stand up for her at critical moments.
Let me tell you this, don't look at Ding Dang who always looks disgusted when he sees you. Needless to say when he has conflicts with outsiders, once you and Ding Xiaotian have irreconcilable conflicts in the future, he will not hesitate. On your side. "
Li Yanli nodded, unconsciously feeling that Jia Erhu's hand was warm, touching her face, which made her feel particularly comfortable.
Jia Erhu added: "If our company has any new projects to invest in in the future, or if we need additional funds for the current education base project, I will call you privately.
Then you call Ding Gang with the money, and invest or buy shares in his name. And when you do this, you must behave as you should, and don't keep nagging about it.
Especially when you have a quarrel over trivial family matters, don't talk about these things, otherwise all your efforts will be wasted. Not only will Ding Gang not be grateful, but he will completely turn against you. "
Li Yanli was not stupid, and of course she could tell that Jia Erhu's words were definitely for her own good, and even for the sake of their mother and son.
Especially Jia Erhu's reminder, don't nag about how good you are to your son, and when you quarrel, don't talk about the things you have done to help your son. Li Yanli kept it in mind.
She longs to be a good mother, but because of the generation gap, she doesn't know what kind of mother is considered a good mother in her son's heart.
Jia Erhu's words were undoubtedly a revelation to her.
"Jia Erhu," Li Yanli suddenly said seriously: "Forget it if you don't harm our family, there is one thing I really don't understand. Why are you helping me so much?"
Jia Erhu patted her face and said: "If you and Ding Xiaotian are in love, of course I won't help you. The problem is that you are almost like bedfellows. My helping you is, in a sense, a kind of kindness to him." Punishment!"
Li Yanli didn't believe it: "That's it?"
"Of course," Jia Erhu said with a smile: "Ding Min is indeed a good woman. I have to please her family no matter what, right?"
Li Yanli suddenly reached out and slapped Jia Erhu's hand away, yelling: "Get out!"
She thought: You are no one anymore. You touched my face and talked about my daughter. What do you think of me?
Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Aunt Li, I thought that after being the financial director of a large company like Ding Group for so many years, your way of thinking and ideological realm must be much higher than that of ordinary housewives.
But I didn't expect that after a long time, you can't even tell the difference between right and wrong, and can't tell the truth from lies. It's no wonder that you will be coaxed around by a pretty boy like Li Zhigao.
Even if he sells you, you still count the money for him. "
Li Yanli said angrily: "Don't mention him in front of me in the future! What do you mean that I can't tell the difference between right and wrong, and can't tell the truth from lies?
You kid is eating my tofu and still thinking about my daughter. Do you think I'm mentally retarded? "
