Jia Erhu really had to admire Xu Feili's psychological analysis ability and judgment of men, especially her own analysis and judgment. It can be said that it is quite accurate and has no flaws at all.
Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Director Xu, you seem to have overlooked a key issue. This issue happens to determine whether the results of your analysis and judgment are correct or not, so your conclusion is completely wrong."
Xu Feili smiled: "If it is for the purpose of trying to get you to invest in Changling, I can admit that I was wrong without asking anything.
But if we regard today as just a gathering of friends, and at the same time we are interested in this issue, and the outcome of winning or losing does not affect our friendship, I would like to ask why? "
Jia Erhu said: "In such a beautiful environment, facing such a beautiful lady like you, if I still care about winning or losing an argument, let alone the gentlemanly demeanor, it is completely incomprehensible. .
In the words of my friend's doctor friend, my life is simply occupying a man's quota in vain. "
Xu Feili signaled Jia Erhu to eat quickly, and cut off a small piece of steak herself, put it into her mouth provocatively, and chewed sexily: "Then I would like to ask Mr. Jia, what key issues have I overlooked? "
Jia Erhu explained: "You seem to regard me as a married man, and at the same time, you regard the way I look at women as the eyes of a married man searching for prey in search of a lover.
But I'm not married, and I don't even have a girlfriend.
In this case, when I look at a woman, I don’t judge her based on whether she is suitable to be my lover.
Take you for example, I know that you are already married, and you are not suitable and impossible to be my girlfriend for the purpose of marriage, so when I look at your eyes, I don't have that kind of desire.
I just regard you as a beautiful leader, or at best a pretty young lady. My eyes are full of appreciation and surprise, so I have no other evil thoughts. "
Xu Feili was stunned for a moment, then laughed dumbly and said: "I'm sorry, I really made a fundamental mistake, maybe I have seen too many men with evil thoughts.
So whenever I make eye contact with another man, the first thing I think of is to remind myself to take a closer look. Does the other person have ulterior motives for me?
Now it seems that in addition to men who like me and men who don't like me, there is another kind of person, that is, people like you, who only appreciate me as a piece of art, not a consumer product in life. "
Jia Erhu shook his head and said: "Director Xu, your views or your language are really unique. How come you treat women as consumer goods?"
Feili Xu explained: "In fact, in a person's life, whether he is a man or a woman, he only has needs for people and things in the outside world. One is appreciation, and the other is consumption. I don't mean to belittle them."
Jia Erhu nodded and said: "What you said is right, and it also taught me a life philosophy lesson. Thank you, Director Xu."
"However," Xu Feili said instead: "I still insist that you appreciate Lin Yue more. Because I know very well that men will only regard me as a consumer product, but some people are worried that they can't afford it, or that I simply can't afford it. Don't want to be consumed by him.
But Lin Yue was different.
I'm afraid more men will only appreciate her as a work of art, because her characteristics make her more suitable for being a work of art.
From a consumption perspective, I am more attractive to men than she is.
But from an appreciation point of view, she can win the favor of men more than me.
Since you regard both of us as works of art, you must appreciate her. "
Jia Erhu smiled and said: "Director Xu, I already admire you very much, but I have to point out your mistake again.
Although I appreciate women as works of art, not all women are works of art in my eyes.
You are a perfect work of art in my eyes, but Team Leader Lin is not. "
Xu Feili asked: "Then what does she look like in your eyes?"
"She's the head of the Discipline Inspection Team of the State-owned Assets Supervision and Administration Commission! If your leader hadn't asked her to contact me before, I would have had nothing to do with him. I wouldn't have even looked at her twice on the street."
Xu Feili smiled slightly: "Is this really the case?"
Jia Erhu asked, "Why not?"
Xu Feili asked again: "Then if I ask you for help with something, and this matter is related to the competition between me and Lin Yue, would you be willing to help me?"
Jia Erhu said: "If you ask me to hurt Lin Yue, I'm afraid I will refuse, because I will never hurt someone who has nothing to do with me.
But if you need my help and I can do it, why not? "
Xu Feili said: "Then let me tell you the truth. Now our unit is about to promote a deputy director. Considering various reasons, the above means that it is best to select a lesbian as the deputy director.
Among all the middle-level cadres in our unit, Lin Yue and I are the only ones with undergraduate degrees, and both are at the major level, so the future deputy director will be chosen between the two of us.
To be honest, our network conditions should be about the same.
I have people in the city and she has people in the province.
As for our own conditions, you can probably see that my advantage is that I am the director of the Human Resources Department, so I have better personnel relations.
Her advantage is that she is the leader of the disciplinary inspection team, which gives people the impression that she is unparalleled in the field of clean government.
But I have an obvious disadvantage, that is, I always seem to make men have some evil thoughts. People don't blame those men, but they say that I am a playboy. "
Jia Erhu asked puzzledly: "I roughly understand the advantages and disadvantages between you. What I don't understand is, how can I help you?"
Xu Feili said: "Let the project you invest in start moving as soon as possible."
Jia Erhu was startled and smiled in confusion: "I chose this project myself, and it will definitely be launched in the shortest possible time. Even if you don't ask me, I will do my best to speed up the investment progress.
But I don’t understand, what does this have to do with the competition between you two? "
Xu Feili explained: "Because of what happened today, you said that our investment environment in Changling is very bad, which made me feel like I was slapped in the face.
Between me and Lin Yue, when neither of us has made any achievements, whoever makes mistakes in his work will have to lose points in the competition.
Originally, your investment project was assigned to our unit, and no matter who did the liaison work, it would be a bonus for him. Because of this, Lin Yue took the initiative to take the responsibility of liaising with you in front of the two directors.
If the project you invested in starts construction, at least in the competition between the two of us, the result will be attributed to Lin Yue.
Because of this, my friends in the city found two directors and asked them to change the liaison officer to me.
If you get off to a good start, that's a plus from me.
But if you withdraw your investment because of today's events, or postpone the construction start date indefinitely, even if you express your desire to give up investment, this is a minus for me. They will only say that I am not sure about the investment projects you sent to me, and no one will find objective reasons for me.
Moreover, the results of our team’s adjustment will be released next month at the latest.
In other words, any remarks you make that are not conducive to investment in this project will directly affect the outcome of the competition between Lin Yue and me. "
