Before coming to Shihai Brigade, Xia Qingmai was well prepared to deal with everyone in the Sun family, but she didn't expect that apart from saying a few words when she faced Uncle Sun and Aunt Sun at the beginning, other people in the Sun family would have something to do later. He was immediately blocked by Sun Fugui.
Because Sun Fugui did a good job, when the family returned to their home in the county in the afternoon, Sun Fugui carefully asked her if she was used to it in the Shihai Brigade. She shook her head and said, "You did a good job. I’ve been wronged, so there’s nothing I’m not used to.”
"If you are not at home when you are out of the car, I might take the children back to see my parents, sister-in-law and their children."
"Between relatives, only those who come and go get closer."
Having said this, Xia Qingmai paused for a moment before continuing: "My eldest brother is a bit conceited, but my eldest sister-in-law is a nice person. You see, my eldest sister-in-law also gave me two pieces of coarse cloth that she woven herself."
The two pieces of coarse cloth given by Zhang Qin are definitely not as good as the fine cotton cloth they bought. They are only big enough for Xia Qingmai to make two pieces of clothes tightly. But people know how to give gifts in return, unlike Sun Xiaoli, the sister-in-law who received the meeting gift from her. , both hands were empty and nothing was returned.
Not even a word of thanks, as if what she did and what she gave was what she should have done.
Although Xia Qingmai didn't mention the following words, it could be seen that she only mentioned sister-in-law and not sister-in-law, so Sun Fugui understood.
Seeing that both children were so tired that they fell asleep and would not wake up in a short time, Sun Fugui also took Xia Qingmai's hand and took her outside before sighing and saying: "Actually, we all know that Xiaoli is not doing this, but Unless we can deal with her severely, we have tried other methods before, whether it is reasoning or beating her, she will never remember it."
Xia Qingmai was going to be a quiet audience, but she didn't expect that after Sun Fugui said this, he immediately asked: "Qingmai, there are so many things going on at home, do you feel unhappy?"
After hearing Sun Fugui's words, Xia Qingmai did not answer immediately. Instead, he looked at him and asked, "There are a lot of things going on in the Xia family. Do you feel unhappy?"
After asking such a question, without waiting for Sun Fugui's answer, Xia Qingmai answered his previous question, "I shouldn't say anything more about other people in the Sun family."
"First, we just got married, and I don't know much about the rest of the Sun family. Everything I know about them depends on you. The other reason is that we just got married, and I am your lover, but they are also your relatives. I shouldn’t be judging your loved ones. It’s disrespectful.”
"They may consider some things from your standpoint, but your standpoint is not necessarily my standpoint."
"This is the first time you've asked me this question, and I hope it's the last."
"I won't judge you for your affection. Likewise, I don't want you to say anything to the Xia family."
"Of course, if one day they annoy you, you can just act according to your standards without worrying about me. In the same way, if one day your relatives annoy me, I will also act according to mine. Standards to deal with.”
After saying that, seeing Sun Fugui's ugly face, Xia Qingmai paused and continued: "Maybe one day in the future, we will get along with each other's relatives and become relatives, but by then, you will not ask this question again. It’s a problem.”
"But now, my family is you and my two children, and everyone else is just a relative."
After listening to Xia Qingmai's words, Sun Fugui remained silent for a long time.
Seeing that Sun Fugui was silent, Xia Qingmai was not in a hurry.
She could indeed say some nice words to make Sun Fugui happy now, but she was planning to live with Sun Fugui for the rest of her life. Some things could be hidden for a while, but they could not be hidden for a lifetime.
Her mother had taught her that husband and wife should be honest.
The interpersonal relationships in the royal family are more complicated, but the queen mother has never taken the initiative to give advice on the conduct of the royal family members.
Only when those female relatives find her will she come forward to deal with these matters.
Similarly, if there is something going on in the Cheng'en Palace, the Queen Mother will not wait for her father to deal with it. She can completely suppress the group of people in the Cheng'en Palace.
But Duke Cheng'en's palace took the initiative to fall into the hands of his father, and the queen mother would not intercede for them.
After only two times, both the royal family and Duke Chengen learned the lesson.
In the mother's words, from the day she married her father, her family changed from the group of people in Cheng'en Palace to her father.
As long as they are a good family and other relatives don't get along, then don't embarrass yourself by accommodating them.
Influenced by her mother, Xia Qingmai also felt that she should not point fingers at the Sun family's affairs, because they were only Sun Fugui's relatives now, and they might become her relatives in the future.
But now, she doesn't want to wrong herself.
She expressed her dissatisfaction directly and left the rest to Sun Fugui.
If Sun Fugui doesn't care, then what she needs to consider is not how to deal with the Sun family's affairs but whether to find another man.
If you can't tell the difference between the inside and the outside of a man, don't let him go.
Xia Qingmai didn't know if her idea was right or not. She thought that the relationship between her father, the Queen, and her mother was better than that between Hu Jianhua and Xia Hongjun, so she naturally imitated her mother's behavior.
Maybe one day the facts will prove that she is wrong, but at least for now, she has not wronged herself.
I eat a lot at lunch and don’t want to eat something greasy at night, but there are kids at home. How about making egg drop vegetable porridge?
As the name suggests, this egg drop vegetable porridge is white rice porridge with some vegetables added and egg drop in it.
Considering that I only eat porridge, the porridge needs to be thicker.
There are also pastries bought for the wedding at home. If you feel that the porridge is not full, you can also eat some pastries.
This porridge needs to be simmered slowly and carefully, so even though it was still a while before dinner time, Xia Qingmai started to prepare the meal.
So when Sun Fugui came to his senses, what he saw was Xia Qingmai tilting her head and preparing to light a fire.
"I'll do it, I'll do it." As he spoke, Sun Fugui carefully moved to Xia Qingmai, looked at her and said, "I shouldn't have asked that question just now. I also know that we just got married. Can you just say It’s good to come up with your own ideas.”
"But, I think in our family, from now on I will be responsible for making money and you will be responsible for raising children and taking care of the family."
"I know you work hard, and you are willing to do more things when I am not working, but you may still need to be more responsible for the interpersonal interactions at home."
"I will do what I promised. From now on, you will make the decision on the small things at home, and we will discuss the big things."
"As for the Sun family, I will also look for opportunities to mention my mother. I will also have a family in the future. I want to think more about you and the children."
Having said this, Sun Fugui sighed and continued: "Qingmai, thank you for your hard work."
