Finished lunch at noon.
Fangyuan and Tong Wenjie walked out of the welfare lottery station in confusion.
"What are you doing? Let's go quickly. I'm so sleepy. Go home quickly!" Qian Wen, who was walking in front, waved and turned his head and shouted after a few steps.
Hearing the sound, Tong Wenjie and Fangyuan blinked, looked at each other, and then looked at the welfare lottery station behind them.
Are you sure they're on the right track?
Is there any possibility of scratching the prize? Obviously I'm just here to withdraw money.
Qian Wen just walked in and blindly touched the scratch cards with his eyes closed. After a minute, he still selected three.
Two missed, one was 200,000. Although it was not as much as the first win, making tens of thousands a day is not a dream.
Qian Wen felt that there should be a reason for the small number of hits this time. He had just finished lunch and didn't wash his hands carefully. Since it is metaphysics, he must respect the rules.
What about washing your hands, taking a bath, and cleaning your clothes?
But once again...
"Hmph~ It's too troublesome, 200,000 is enough."
Fangyuan, Tong Wenjie returned home in a daze.
As soon as he got home, Qian Wen was so tired that he fell asleep. For some reason, he just wanted to sleep. Is it because he was in puberty and was about to grow taller?
"Hey wake up." Fang Yuan waved her hand in front of Tong Wenjie.
"Ah?" Tong Wenjie came back to her senses, and then said in shock, "Is this Fanfan's luck so good?"
"The child is lucky, isn't it? Come on, don't think about it. It's a good thing to win the lottery. Fanfan will graduate from college and want to start a business, and he will have money." Fangyuan accepted it quickly. Although he also found it incredible, the miracle was there. Now, even if you don’t believe it, it’s just two steps, close your eyes and win, that’s it, in addition, there is an additional process of scratching the prize.
Tong Wenjie rubbed her brows. This really had a big impact on her finances. It was too easy to get money.
"Okay, let's take a look at the admissions information from major universities we got back.
After Fanfan scratched the prize, didn’t we each scratch off a hundred dollars?
I'm the Air Force, you get five bucks, this is not something ordinary people can do, let's just go to work honestly. "Fang Yuan poured a glass of water for Tong Wenjie to calm down her shock.
Tong Wenjie blinked hard, regained her composure, and turned to look at the closed room. Her son was so lucky.
He lowered his head and began to look through the admissions information of major universities in the imperial capital.
After the oath-taking ceremony in the morning and the release of the wish balloons, the school organized the admissions offices of various universities in the capital to conduct a round of consultation in advance for the Chunfeng candidates.
She took a bunch of information, studied it in advance, and was prepared.
"By the way, Fangyuan, put the scratch-off ticket you just won in the safe.
On Monday, take some time to redeem it. Tong Wenjie said softly, looking down at the enrollment information.
"Aren't you going?" Fangyuan asked.
"I won't go." Tong Wenjie said calmly.
Fangyuan nodded and went back to the bedroom to play scratch music.
Although they were shocked by this incident and felt happy about winning the lottery, they didn't think too much about it. They just regarded it as a lucky star coming to earth. Besides, the big test of life was about to take place, so they let some small things go.
Qian Wen slept until five o'clock in the afternoon when he was woken up by a call on his mobile phone.
Without opening his eyes, he kept groping around with his right hand.
"Hey, who is it?"
"Fang Yifan, wherever you are, I'll be waiting for you!" Huang Zhitao said.
Qian Wen hadn't fully woken up yet, so he muttered, "Why are you waiting for me? What's the matter? Can we talk tomorrow? I'm so sleepy~"
"Didn't we agree to go to the movies together? Why don't you let Yingzi and I go?"
Qian Wen opened his eyes and looked out the window. It was still bright. "Didn't Yingzi refuse them all at that time and say they couldn't go?"
"Don't worry about it. Hurry up. If you don't come, Yingzi and I won't wait for you." Huang Zhitao said.
He rubbed his head and yawned hard to drive away his sleepiness, "I'll be there in a minute. Is this the same place?"
"Well, hurry up!"
After hanging up the phone, Qian Wen stared for another five minutes. It was impossible to act immediately.
Five minutes later, the big toe moved, then the ten toes. After a period of turbulent movement, Qian Wen woke up.
He stood up hard and went to the bathroom to sober up with some cold water.
"Fang Yifan, get up. Is there freshly cut fruit for you to eat?" Fang Yuan held the fruit plate and rested his feet comfortably on the coffee table while watching TV.
Qian Wen passed by and said, "Pour me a glass of iced Coke, thank you!" After saying that, he walked into the bathroom.
After washing and drying my hair, I felt sober.
The afternoon nap is the hardest to wake up from.
He took the iced Coke handed to him by Fangyuan, with a chill in his heart, and looked around, "Where is your wife?"
"Your mother went shopping for your cousin." Fangyuan said while eating some fruit.
Qian Wen nodded and put down the empty glass, "Yingzi and I have made an appointment to watch a movie. You don't have to wait for me to eat tonight."
"Do you want money?" Fangyuan asked.
"Forget it, I don't want your little treasury." Qian Wen waved his hand and went back to his room to change clothes.
"Hey, this damn kid..." Fang Yuan looked at the back and smiled.
Twenty minutes had passed after a lot of dithering. Qian Wen left the community, got into a car, and went straight to the mall.
When they arrived at the place, Qiao Yingzi, who was impatient to wait, came up with a throat lock.
"Fang Houer, do you know how long we have been waiting for you? More than an hour, you know, more than an hour!
When did you become a woman? You're so annoying!" Qiao Yingzi was confused and angry.
"I was sleeping soundly when you called me, and besides, you said that your mother wouldn't let you go and you wouldn't participate in the evening activities.
It’s not like you don’t know how far my home is from here. How can I get there just like you? Qian Wen said softly.
"Then we'll be waiting in vain." Qiao Yingzi refused.
"Have you bought tickets?" Qian Wen asked.
“No, the last show just happened half an hour ago.
We have to wait half an hour for the next one. If you haven’t arrived yet, we won’t buy it. "People were coming and going in the shopping mall. Qian Wen and Qiao Yingzi were having a fight, which attracted a lot of attention. Huang Zhitao stepped forward to separate the two.
"I'm treating you to a treat, please." Qian Wen rubbed his neck, his small body was quite strong.
"Adding popcorn and Coke." Qiao Yingzi said with a raised eyebrow.
Qian Wen gestured, "No problem."
The movie we watched was Mission: Impossible. After buying the tickets, the three of us waited in the rest area.
"How did you get out? Your mother actually let you out and didn't let you indulge in the sea of questions?" Qian Wen looked at Qiao Yingzi and said.
Qiao Yingzi swallowed the popcorn in her mouth and sighed, "For you and to not break the promise, I sneaked out.
When I go home at night, I still have to be punished. I am a senior in high school..."
Qian Wen shrugged, "Are you a little too obedient and too sensible?
You are in adolescence now, can you show me how to be rebellious?
If you are a top student and have a solid foundation, how can you survive if you occasionally watch a movie and relax?
Tell your mother, I’m going to see a movie, what’s wrong! Does your mother have a glass heart?”
In the play, Qiao Yingzi is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed. Every time Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi have a dispute for whatever reason, Qiao Yingzi must be the first to apologize and coax Song Qian.
Then Song Qian, moved by herself, forgave Qiao Yingzi generously, and then established new rules.
And she never thinks that she is at fault. No matter who it is, as long as it touches her sensitive nerves, it is the other person's fault. Even her best friend Tong Wenjie can fall out with her.
Song Qian's breathtaking desire for control made Qiao Yingzi depressed and had nowhere to hide.
Qian Wen wanted to teach Qiao Yingzi today what adolescence is, what rejection is, and what is willfulness.
Being sensible is a good thing, but being too sensible can hurt others and yourself.
In the play, Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi are hurting each other.
After passing the college entrance examination, Qiao Yingzi went to Jinling University. Song Qian and Qiao Weidong remarried and lived happily together.
You must know that before the divorce, Song Qian tightly controlled Qiao Weidong. After the divorce, she never left her and strictly controlled Qiao Yingzi's food, clothing, housing and transportation.
Can the habits of these decades be changed in just half a year? Can Song Qian's breathless emotional control disappear?
If it were that simple, Qiao Yingzi wouldn't be depressed anymore.
Qian Wen felt that Song Qian must have a deep mental illness. If he checked it out, he would definitely be able to find out.
Qian Wen's words made Qiao Yingzi pause for a moment. She chewed the popcorn in her mouth unconsciously and said hesitantly, "My mother is very pitiful. She works so hard to take care of me by herself. I need to be more considerate and sensible and not be willful."
"What about you?" Qian Wen looked at Qiao Yingzi and asked.
Huang Zhitao on the side bit her straw, tilted her head, and looked at Qian Wen strangely, feeling that Fang Yifan was acting strange these days.
"What am I?" Qiao Yingzi looked at Qian Wen and asked doubtfully.
"Aren't you pitiful?" Qian Wen asked.
Qiao Yingzi was stunned for a moment, then hit Qian Wen, "You're so funny. Why should I pity you? I don't have to worry about food and drink. My mother takes good care of you. I will be as happy as you want."
But when she said these words, Qiao Yingzi was afraid that she wouldn't notice, and her eyes were a little dodgey.
Qian Wen ignored Qiao Yingzi and looked at Huang Zhitao, "Taozi, you are Yingzi's best friend. Can you objectively say, is she happy?"
Qiao Yingzi looked at Huang Zhitao.
Huang Zhitao blinked, looked at Qiao Yingzi, and stammered, "It's... not bad. I feel happy if I can see my parents from time to time."
Qian Wen slapped his forehead. Well, he forgot that this person was a left-behind child. He had been away from his parents for a long time since he was a child. He asked the wrong person.
This contestant was eliminated and looked at Qiao Yingzi again, "Divorce, Aunt Song Qian was injured, weren't you injured?
In the past six years, you have lived strictly according to a schedule every day. You can't even decide what your mother says. You can't even decide what to eat.
Even if you want to watch a movie or have a hobby of your own, you have to apply for permission and permission.
As far as I'm concerned, you are just a puppet, a puppet on a string. You were a puppet seventeen years ago, and you will be the same as an adult.
Your future school, major, job, marriage, partner, home address, friends, etc. will all be arranged by your mother.
Take your time and be happy. After all, everyone is different. This may be where your happiness lies, living for Aunt Song Qian, your mother. "
As Qian Wen spoke, Huang Zhitao shuddered, feeling a little chilly as he listened.
I can't decide anything by myself, I have to apply for everything, and I have to follow the arrangements for everything. Is this still me? Huang Zhitao felt that if this was the case, she would go crazy soon.
What Qian Wen said may be a bit exaggerated, but this may be Qiao Yingzi's life, because she has a terrifyingly controlling mother-Song Qian.
Qiao Yingzi didn't speak, she just ate her popcorn faster and faster, hiding her true emotions.
She has been stressed for a long time, but her mother is even more pitiful. She has only herself, so she has been trying her best to obey. What Qian Wen said just now, she can understand without closing her eyes and thinking, this may be her life.
She almost wanted to cry, but she still forced a smile. Qiao Yingzi looked like a bitter melon.
"How pitiful..." Qian Wen said softly.
He was stimulating Qiao Yingzi. Depression does not develop all at once. It is a mental illness caused by accumulation of emotions.
How could he develop moderate depression, anxiety, and suicidal tendencies in a short period of time, and then recover in a short period of time?
That is to say, in the play, in reality, depression is the invisible killer of modern times.
Qiao Yingzi has actually been accumulating negative emotions, but in this college entrance examination year, Song Qian's pressing steps made Qiao Yingzi's condition worse.
Today he began to gradually relieve Qiao Yingzi's pressure and slowly taught her to say no.
"Stop talking!" She was so pitiful that Qiao Yingzi burst out and suddenly roared.
If you feel sad, roar more often, it will be good for suppressed emotions.
This made Qian Wen laugh, and he just exploded, "I'm telling the truth, do you dare to yell at me, a person who talks about himself? Do you dare to yell at someone who puts pressure on you and controls your life?"
"I don't want to watch anymore!" Qiao Yingzi threw away the popcorn she was holding and ran out.
"What are you doing!" Huang Zhitao glared at him and chased him out.
Looking at the backs of the two of them and the popcorn scattered on the ground, he whispered softly, "I'm saving her."
"What are you doing? Throw it all over the floor." The cleaning lady came over.
Qian Wen stood up in a hurry and apologized, "Sorry, sorry, I'll clean, I'll clean."
He took the cleaning tools from the cleaning lady and cleaned the popcorn all over the floor with a smile.
The treatment has just begun, don’t rush...
"You young people, let's fall in love and have a rough time."
"Young man, let me tell you, you have to coax girls."
"Your girlfriend ran away, why don't you chase her?"
The cleaning aunt is still a chatterbox, chattering around Qian Wen and imparting experience.
Qian Wen finished cleaning with a smile, picked up the popcorn left behind, and went to refund the movie tickets, but no one watched.
One good thing about Qiao Yingzi is that she doesn't hold grudges. Believe it or not, tonight or tomorrow, she will take the initiative to apologize.
Put all the faults on yourself.
Blocking is worse than opening up. When depression reaches a certain level, it will last a lifetime.
I slowly walked out of the cinema and looked around. There was no sign of Qiao Yingzi and Huang Zhitao. It was already dark. I guess they were already on their way back.
At this point, he didn't want to go home. He touched his pockets. He didn't have much living expenses, so he went to help the poor.
After a while, he walked out of the welfare lottery station with about 1,300 yuan.
The sixth sense is not as good as luck in terms of metaphysics. He scratched almost thirty sheets, and that's all he got.
This welfare lottery station is not good. There are too few scratch tickets with prizes.
Luck makes the impossible possible, and the sixth sense means that among talents, the gap is too big.
Complaining, I found a restaurant and walked in.
Not long after he sat down, Huang Zhitao's call came.
Qian Wen picked up the answer strangely, "Hello? What's wrong?"
"Where are you? Why can't I find you?" Huang Zhitao asked.
"Looking for me? Why are you looking for me?"
"Aren't you watching a movie? Where did you go?"
Qian Wen looked at the two medium-sized buckets of popcorn in the bag and asked hesitantly, "Shall we take a look?"
"Have your big spring and autumn dream, Yingzi and I are waiting for you in the cinema, come back quickly!"
"I'm eating. I'll give you my location. You guys can come here first."
After hanging up the phone, Qian Wen took a bite of shrimp tail noodles and thought to himself, does this relieve his anger? It's too fast.
After a while, Qiao Yingzi and Huang Zhitao came in.
It could be seen that Qiao Yingzi had cried and her eyes were still red.
"Come... come, have something to eat?" Qian Wen said vaguely while eating.
Qiao Yingzi had a tigerish face.
"Whatever you want, I'm treating you." Qian Wen said with a wave of his hand.
Qiao Yingzi gritted her teeth and glared at Qian Wen, "Waiter, this, this, and this..."
Huang Zhitao looked at it and thought, "It's not expensive. Do you want to let Fang Yifan go?"
"No, I want everything else!" Qiao Yingzi gasped.
"Ah?" the waiter asked.
"No?"
"Yes!" the waiter replied.
Qiao Yingzi looked at Qian Wen's expression, wanting to see the expression of pain, "Then hurry up, I'm hungry."
Seeing Qiao Ying's fierce and angry look, Qian Wen smiled and looked at the waiter, "Roast the whole lamb. No need for pasta. I'll take her orders first."
This is a restaurant that specializes in barbecue, and most of what Qiao Yingzi orders is skewers.
Qiao Yingzi was disappointed that Qian Wen was not frightened, and she said proudly, "Who said we don't want the roasted whole lamb? Give it to me."
"If you order, you can eat everything. It's a shameful waste!" Qian Wen said with a smile.
Huang Zhitao on the side pulled Qiao Yingzi's sleeves and whispered, "I have a small appetite."
Qian Wen smiled upon hearing this.
Qiao Yingzi looked at her best friend with an unbelievable look on her face, an expression like "How can you bring trouble to me?"
Huang Zhitao's expression was like that of a small animal, "I have a small stomach."
"Spineless!" Qiao Yingzi turned her head and ignored her best friend.
"Why are you back? Didn't you leave? All my movie tickets were refunded," Qian Wen said while drinking water.
"Who said we were leaving? I just went to the bathroom. Why did the movie tickets get refunded? What should we watch if we refunded them?" Qiao Yingzi said harshly.
"Someone spilled popcorn all over the floor. I cleaned it up and there was no one to watch with me, so I came to eat." Qian Wen shrugged.
Qiao Yingzi blushed and stammered, "Who...who told you to say that about me."
"Discuss the matter as it is, without hurting feelings." Qian Wen said softly.
Qiao Yingzi was silent.
"You know whether what I said is right or not, if what I said is wrong..."
Huang Zhitao looked at Qian Wen.
"...Should I take it back?" Qian Wen looked solemn and nodded.
"..." Huang Zhitao rolled his eyes and twitched the corners of his mouth.
"My mother, it's really hard..." Qiao Yingzi ignored Qian Wen's antics and lowered her head in a low voice.
Qian Wen sighed silently and said softly, "I'm not asking you to resist or contradict Aunt Song Qian, I'm just asking you to speak your mind and let her understand what you think.
Instead, she thinks that what she does is what you want and need.
You are an adult and you are maturing little by little. Haven’t you noticed that you feel depressed from time to time?
Is this really..." Qian Wen didn't continue to say anything later. He just said it once. If he hurts his heart over and over again, he meant it.
In the play, Qiao Yingzi has been holding back everything. Every time she reaches the peak, she explodes, and then holds it back again, and so on.
Qiao Yingzi picked her hands and lowered her head so that no one could see her eyes. "We communicated, but it's useless."
Huang Zhitao felt her best friend's feeling of loss and held her hand to offer invisible comfort.
Qian Wen shook his head, "Yingzi, are you tired from studying?"
Qiao Yingzi was startled and didn't understand what it meant.
Qian Wen asked again, "Are you tired from studying?"
This time Qiao Yingzi replied, "Tired, very tired. After I entered junior high school, I basically started studying at six o'clock every day, and wrote papers until eleven or twelve o'clock at night. There were endless tutoring and tutoring classes. Sometimes I really didn't want to study anymore."
Huang Zhitao blinked. She was about the same, but she was freer than Yingzi. At least she could decide her own study time.
"Then why are you still working hard and persisting in learning?" Qian Wen asked again.
Qiao Yingzi did not answer immediately, but thought for a while, "Part of it is my mother's supervision, and the other part is that I feel that I must learn it because it is useful."
Qian Wen smiled and said, "You see that studying is very tiring and you thought about giving up, but you persisted for several years.
Because you feel you need it.
Then why can't you insist on communicating with Aunt Song Qian?
Why do you give up in a hurry after trying it briefly?
Just because she can't communicate, she can't understand?
Why can't you persevere? Obedience is a habit that will be cultivated unconsciously. After trying to communicate again and again with no results, you ended it in a hurry and accepted Aunt Song Qian's arrangement.
This makes Aunt Song Qian think that this is the best for you. You must think so too, and you can understand it.
Is this really the case?
Do you really understand?
You have to know that the identities of adults and their children are changing day by day.
When I was young, I went from random scoldings and beatings for disobedience, to gradual verbal scoldings, to equality between two people, asking for your opinion, and finally you make the decision, and she obeys.
The moment you can confront her, the emotions that have been building up for a long time are bound to explode.
What do you think the consequences will be?
Either both parties suffer, or one party suffers.
Communication is long-lasting. If it doesn't work once, just do it twice. If it doesn't work twice, do it three times. Many times.
Let Aunt Song Qian know what you are thinking and that you also need rest, entertainment, relaxation and decompression.
Instead of a puppet in her hand.
Don't always obey. Sometimes refusing may hurt your feelings for a while, but after explaining it, it will be good for everyone.
Sometimes saying no may be more effective than saying yes. "
Qiao Yingzi frowned and listened, always feeling strange. There was something wrong, but she couldn't explain it.
Qian Wen grinned. He was teaching Qiao Yingzi to be rebellious. Say no! You just don't obey parents.
If you still insist on saying no, do you want to go to heaven?
But it is useful for Qiao Yingzi. Qiao Yingzi is too obedient, too sensible, and too submissive. She is too depressed.
It's like being in a cage. Taking the initiative to communicate now is good for everyone.
Of course, it might not be useful to Song Qian, after all, Song Qian is famous for her stubbornness, but he said these words to Qiao Yingzi.
He wants to lead Qiao Yingzi to rebel, as long as it is good for Qiao Yingzi.
Besides, with Qiao Yingzi's character, if she could really fly, he would give her a thumbs up.
Qiao Yingzi was thoughtful, but she didn't listen to Qian Wen's nonsense.
Huang Zhitao rolled her eyes when she heard this. Only a child like Qiao Yingzi who was oppressed to the extreme could think Qian Wen's words were reasonable.
After all, Qian Wen spoke from Qiao Yingzi's starting point.
At this time Qiao Yingzi's cell phone rang.
"My mother~" Qiao Yingzi exclaimed.
"What's wrong with your mother? Pick it up." Qian Wen said calmly.
"She must have noticed that I was not at home and asked me where I was. If she knew that I didn't study and secretly came to watch a movie, it would be a long story." Qiao Yingzi said with a frown.
"What's wrong with watching a movie? Is it illegal to watch a movie? Just tell the truth.
Your mother said, if it goes in your left ear and comes out in your right ear, that's fine.
There's nothing to worry about. It's just a few words and it's not stress-resistant at all. "Qian Wen said.
"It's different..." Qiao Yingzi said anxiously, looking at the cell phone that kept ringing.
"What's the difference? You maintain your academic performance and then have fun to relieve stress. Does it matter?" Qian Wen said.
"Uh..." Qiao Yingzi hesitated.
"It's up to you. Anyway, I just said a lot. It's up to you whether you want to or not." Qian Wen picked up the skewers and started eating.
In the end, Qiao Yingzi hesitated for a long time, and when Song Qian called for the third time, she answered the phone.
"Yingzi, where are you? Why aren't you at home? I brought back a new set of exercises. Come back quickly." Song Qian's voice came from the phone.
Qiao Yingzi looked at Qian Wen with a worried look on her face.
"To be honest, you just came out to relax after studying.
It's not illegal!" Qian Wen said softly.
"Yingzi? Yingzi? Why don't you speak?" Song Qian shouted repeatedly.
Qiao Yingzi took a deep breath, then closed her eyes and said, "Mom, I'm tired from studying today. I'm watching a movie with Huang Zhitao and Fang Yifan."
Song Qian on the other side of the phone paused for a moment, then smiled and said, "Watch a movie, you can watch that, and mom won't disturb you.
But come back early before it's too late. "
Qiao Yingzi opened her eyes wide, but she didn't expect it to be blame.
Qian Wen shrugged, "You are tired from studying, relax, and ask Song Qian to say anything, and they are still here."
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Thank you guys for correcting me. I made a common sense problem and the balloon has been changed.
Thanks for the reward, Mr. Jue, thank you!
Thanks to boss 20180304162242905 for the tip, thank you!
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