"You said that there will be in-class exams at the beginning of the school year. Doesn't it put too much pressure on children?
Fengfan Primary School has not always been based on correct educational concepts. It says that education is a long-term process, not a 100-meter race. It is a bit of a slap in the face to take a test at the beginning of the school year. Qian Wen said while washing the dishes.
Tian Yulan, who was cutting meat with a kitchen knife, glanced at Qian Wen and said, "What's the point of stress? It's just a test. You can teach your children better by touching it.
Besides, our son You is a natural child prodigy, so this exam is nothing but water for him. "
When Qian Wen heard this, he looked at Tian Yulan. Ziyou was smart and he didn't refute, but he was a bit too much for being a born prodigy. However, Ziyou was Tian Yulan's pride, so he just smiled and felt happy after hearing this.
"Is there a parent-teacher meeting tomorrow?" Qian Wen put the washed vegetables into the vegetable rack and shook off the water drops on his hands.
"Oh, whatever you throw at me, it's all stuck in my neck." Tian Yulan shuddered and rolled her eyes at Qian Wen.
Qian Wen laughed, reached out in front of her, and wiped his hands on her apron.
"Isn't there a toilet paper next to it? Why are you wiping it on my apron?" Tian Yulan raised the knife in his hand and shouted.
Qian Wen was so frightened that his eyes were fixed on the blade in front of him, and some of his hairs stood on end.
"Knife, what are you doing with your sword? I don't have enough meat and I want to give Ziyou an extra meal!" Qian Wen quickly held Tian Yulan's wrist and told her not to act blindly.
"Hmph~ I'm asking you to do me a disservice, but you dare to cause trouble..." Tian Yulan said as she wanted to dance with a kitchen knife.
Qian Wen held her wrist tightly, and Tian Yulan snorted and told him not to cause trouble.
"There is indeed a parent-teacher meeting every day. The teacher communicates with the parents and talks about the children's exam situation." Tian Yulan took back the kitchen knife in her hand and continued to cut her own meat.
"Then you should go or I should go. I have more freedom to commute to and from get off work. How about I go." Qian Wen took out a few plates from the sideboard and placed them next to Tian Yulan.
"I have already asked for leave in advance. Besides, I will be the one to attend Ziyou's parent-teacher conference, so why are you joining in the fun?
Can you communicate with the teacher?" Tian Yulan glanced at him, eyes full of disgust.
"Hey~ It's just Zhong Yi's partner Zhang Xue'er. We've become more familiar with each other. Why can't we communicate with each other?" Qian Wen said unconvinced. Why was he looking so irresponsible? You know I did it quietly. How much?
"Are you familiar with Teacher Zhang Xueer? Are you familiar with Ziyou's math teacher, Chinese teacher, and English teacher?
Are you familiar with the other parents in the class? Can you tell me something useful for Ziyou?" Tian Yulan looked at Qian Wen and said softly.
When Qian Wen heard this, he snorted and walked away.
Does a broken parent-teacher conference need to be so troublesome? It's as complicated as underground work.
Tian Yulan looked at Qian Wen's back and smiled.
When Tian Yulan prepared dinner, Cai Juying came back with Ziyou.
"Dad~" Ziyou ran towards him without changing her shoes.
"Change your shoes. They are all footprints. Be careful if your mother asks you to write an extra paper." Qian Wen said with a smile.
Hearing this, Ziyou looked at the row of little feet behind him and stuck out his tongue cutely. He looked around but didn't find Tian Yulan's figure, so he hurriedly slipped back to change his shoes.
"Is Lan Lan cooking?" Cai Juying changed her shoes and walked in with Ziyou's schoolbag in her hand.
"The food has been cooked, it's up to you." Qian Wen said with a smile.
Cai Juying put Ziyou's schoolbag in the study room and walked into the bathroom. She came out with a mop and wiped clean the footprints that Ziyou had just stepped on.
The current study room is not the small partitions of the past. It has ample lighting, a large space, a row of large bookcases, and green plants decorating the entire study room. It is quiet, simple and elegant, and full of study atmosphere.
"Dad, where's my gift?" Ziyou trotted to Qian Wen after changing her shoes, looking at him expectantly with her eyes wide open.
"How can I give you a gift when your test scores haven't come down yet?
If I fail the exam, won’t my purchase be in vain? "Qian Wen and Zi You said playfully.
"That's impossible. I performed exceptionally well this time, and I'm going to order your gift!" Ziyou said proudly, holding his head high.
Now Qian Wen not only cultivates Ziyou's good study habits, but also cultivates Ziyou's good character and ability to withstand stress.
Ziyou's current personality is much more cheerful than in the show, and she is very sensible, making her even more likable.
"Awesome! Our Ziyou is the best. How can a small class test make my son, a top student, fall down? Just kidding." When Tian Yulan held up Ziyou, she did not forget to look at Qian Wen, as if you were Looks like he has no vision.
Then Ziyou moved his position and went to Tian Yulan's side to act like a good boy.
The family finished the meal talking and laughing.
Ziyou went to study, and Tian Yulan followed for tutoring.
Cai Juying couldn't help but tinker with something in the kitchen, it seemed to be some snack.
Qian Wen had the most leisure time. He lay down and watched TV for a while, then went to the kitchen refrigerator to get some fruit, cut it into small pieces, and sent it to Ziyou and Tian Yulan in the study.
"Ziyou, do you think the set of papers you just made is difficult?
Is there anyone who doesn't know it or can't understand it? Tian Yulan asked, sitting next to Ziyou.
Ziyou thought for a while and recalled the paper just now, "There are no difficult questions. I was taught by Teacher Zhong Yi in class and it was very easy."
"That's right. I accidentally wrote a wrong step on the last extended question in this paper. Everything else is good. Ziyou is great." Tian Yulan looked at the paper with satisfaction and said happily.
Ziyou also smiled happily, he wanted to see his mother's smile.
"Dong dong dong~ Can I come in?" Seeing that Ziyou was not doing the questions, Qian Wen knocked on the door quietly.
After delivering the fruit, Qian Wen went to see Cai Juying and wanted to help, but he was kicked out.
I had no choice but to continue lying leisurely on the sofa.
Cai Juying went home in the evening, and Qian Wen and his family also turned off the lights.
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After the parent-teacher meeting, Tian Yulan’s face was glowing.
Ziyou did very well in the test this time, with full marks in mathematics, English, and 98 points in Chinese. The teacher just praised Ziyou by name at the parent-teacher meeting, which made Tian Yulan look proud in front of all the parents.
"Ziyou did really well in the exam this time." Nan Li and Tian Yulan walked side by side outside the school gate.
Without Nan Jianlong, the conflicts between Tian Yulan and Nan Li have decreased sharply. Now the two have not had conflicts or quarrels for a long time.
"The reward after hard work is as expected." Tian Yulan said with a smile.
"Do you think it's true that Teacher Zhang Xueer just said that there will be a lottery for primary school students? If so, wouldn't the efforts of many parents and children be in vain?" Nan Li asked.
Tian Yulan suddenly became less happy when she thought about the tidbit she had just learned in the classroom.
"Find a place to sit." Tian Yulan said.
"Okay, I happen to be worried about Huanhuan's studies, so I also have something to ask you." Nan Li agreed.
This time, Xia Huanhuan's other grades were average, but her math performance plummeted, giving Nan Li a headache.
Ever since she heard from her colleagues about the probability of entering higher education and the difference between good schools and ordinary schools, she became extremely anxious and directly took over Huanhuan's education from Xia Junshan.
But I don’t know if I don’t have tutoring. I was shocked when I came into contact with her. This Huanhuan is not worry-free at all. She can study, but asking her to review the past and learn the new is like killing her. She says it again and forgets it. If she talks too much, she will He lost his temper and cried profusely.
She doesn't realize her own fault at all. She looks like she has worked hard and she can't be blamed.
In the end, I had no choice but to find another way. I learned about the existence of Yade Middle School from my mother some time ago.
Yade Middle School is a good choice. It is very consistent with her and Xia Junshan's educational philosophy. Moreover, the admission rate for junior high school students is very good, much better than Fengfan Middle School. Although it is worse than Hanlin Middle School, it can make them both happy. very satisfied.
Yade is a direct admission system, which means that residents with local household registration can directly enter Yade Middle School, so Huanhuan's pressure will be less.
But she and Xia Junshan had just discussed transferring their household registration with Nan Jianlong, who was in a nursing home. Just after completing the procedures, the Education Bureau issued a new policy for further education.
We only look at school registration and not household registration, which means that if you want to go to Yade Junior High School, you must be a student of Yade Junior High School. Otherwise, if you want to go to Yade Junior High School, you will be in trouble.
This made her and Xia Junshan's newly warmed-up hearts suddenly cool down and return to their original point.
Now she can only take advantage of the fact that she still has time and let Huanhuan struggle like crazy, one step at a time, one step at a time. She doesn't want Huanhuan to not be able to go to a better university in the future.
They found a cafe near Tianlun International and sat down.
Just as Nan Li was ordering, Tian Yulan's cell phone rang.
"You have something to do? I also want to ask about tutoring classes and how to help children study." Nan Li said disappointedly, holding the coffee order.
Tian Yulan took out her cell phone and saw that it belonged to Qian Wen. She smiled and said, "It should be fine. It's Yan Peng's number."
Tian Yulan answered the phone.
"Hey, Yulan.
How did Ziyou do in the exam?" Qian Wen asked.
"Why is it so related to my son's grades? I wasn't so active before." Tian Yulan said with a smile. When she mentioned Ziyou's good grades, she couldn't help but be happy from the inside out.
"Isn't this a promise to buy a gift for Ziyou if he succeeds in the exam? I'm going to find out about the enemy and see if he can give you this surprise." Qian Wen is currently wandering around the toy store, surrounded by a dazzling array of toys.
“Mathematics and English were full marks, but two points were deducted for the Chinese composition, 98.
You can surprise your primary school bully. "Tian Yulan's face was filled with smiles.
Nan Li, who was opposite her, felt unhappy. They had been fighting for more than ten years, and now her child's grades were so far behind hers, which made her feel miserable.
"Okay, okay, Nan Li and I are at the Tiantian Cafe on Hengnan Road. Yeah, I got it. I'll wait for you." Tian Yulan smiled and hung up the phone.
"Yan Peng wanted to prepare a surprise gift for Ziyou and asked me about Ziyou's grades." Tian Yulan raised her phone with a smile.
"Yan Peng has changed so much, I almost don't recognize him anymore." Nan Li said with emotion.
"What's changed? I'm still as lazy as before." Tian Yulan complained with a smile.
She is extremely satisfied with her current life. Her son is willing to work hard, her mother no longer has to work hard, and she no longer has tit-for-tat with her parents-in-law. The most satisfying thing is that her husband has changed a lot. Although he is still as lazy as ever, I now act like the head of the family, and I can always be at the forefront of important events. Now I have nothing to be dissatisfied about.
Tian Yulan smiled broadly, and Nan Li laughed bitterly in her heart.
"Nan Li, if you have anything to ask, I can still solve a problem in terms of study, tutoring classes, and tutoring children's studies." Tian Yulan called the waiter and ordered coffee and desserts.
Nan Li swallowed the bitterness in her heart, ordered a latte for herself, pursed her lips and thought for a moment, "Yu Lan, Huanhuan's math score is really bad. She got a 61 this time and almost failed. Yes, do you have any suggestions?"
Tian Yulan looked at Nan Li in surprise, "No way, Huanhuan has always signed up for the optional intensive class."
Nan Li had been hiding Huan Huan's grades just now. Seeing Nan Li's bad expression, Tian Yulan just guessed that the grades were bad, but he didn't expect it to be so bad.
Nan Li sighed, "I'm not nitpicking. This intensive number selection class was useful at the beginning. Huanhuan's math scores did improve, but then it continued to decline. Until now, if Xia Junshan and I didn't attend, we would have gone home to give Huanhuan explained it carefully, but Huanhuan couldn't keep up and couldn't understand.
I even want Huanhuan to drop out of class. This is simply wasting time, putting pressure on the child, and has no effect at all. "
Tian Yulan blinked. The number selection was indeed a bit of a cramming education. It was indeed difficult to keep up with the super forward education and learning.
Even before, Ziyou had some difficulty following it. If Zhong Yi hadn't provided the foundation, the effect might have been halved.
Tian Yulan thought for a while and said, "As for Zhong Yi, didn't Huanhuan also sign up for a tutoring class, but it didn't work?
Zhong Yi’s teaching level is still very good. Yan Peng and I should really thank him for Ziyou’s current achievements. "
Nan Li shook her head, "Zhong Yi's teaching skills are indeed good, but now he is the person in charge of the tutoring class. With how many students there are in his tutoring class, how can he take care of Huanhuan.
Huanhuan's foundation and patience are both poor.
Especially during the summer vacation, Huanhuan felt a lot of pressure to study and made trouble for a while. We felt sorry for the child, so we didn’t let Huanhuan go to Zhong Yi’s school for a while. "
The coffee and dessert came, and Tian Yulan took a sip.
Nan Li is also a little melancholy. In the past, the happy education method was used, and everything was good for the children's healthy growth. Now that they have contacted the school, parents, and the college entrance examination situation, she and Xia Junshan are anxious.
"Hey~ where are you? It's really hard to find." Qian Wen walked in empty-handed.
Tian Yulan, who was about to give Nan Li some advice, turned her head when she heard Qian Wen's voice.
Seeing that his hands were empty, he asked strangely, "Didn't you prepare a surprise for Ziyou? Where are the things?"
And why did you come here so quickly?"
Qian Wen smiled and sat down. "I'm right here. As for the surprise..." He made a big gesture in the air. "The surprise is a bit big. It's in the trunk."
"What are you preparing for?" Tian Yulan asked curiously.
Nan Li also looked at Qian Wen, she was too curious.
"Big Lego bricks," Qian Wen said.
Hearing this, Tian Yulan rolled her eyes at Qian Wen and said, "You spend money indiscriminately, why buy such expensive things!"
Looking at the size Qian Wen had just drawn, and thinking about Lego bricks, she knew they were expensive.
"I don't agree with Zi You anymore. Let's talk about surprises. It's not a bit shocking!" Qian Wen said with a smile.
Tian Yulan rolled her eyes at Qian Wen again, but no matter how much she said, she was happy today, so she wouldn't talk about spending money randomly.
"Now all students and parents are working hard to advance from primary school to junior high school. Are you not afraid of delaying your studies and affecting Ziyou by buying such a big toy for Ziyou?" Nan Li asked.
Nan Li would never have asked this question before, but since tutoring Huanhuan in her studies, she really knows how easily children can be distracted.
"It's not that serious. Lego bricks can train children's spatial imagination, thinking ability, and hands-on ability. It can also be regarded as a kind of learning.
Besides, Ziyou is very worry-free. He studies consciously, knows when to study and when to play, and has developed good study habits.
We just need to correct it from time to time, it doesn't take much trouble. "
Tian Yulan also nodded repeatedly. Ziyou is really sensible now.
When Nan Li heard this, she thought of Huanhuan. She would get distracted from time to time. It was difficult to study alone, and she also liked to read little books.
Qian Wen saw Nan Li's frown and asked curiously, "What's wrong with you? I heard that Brother Xia is already opening his own personal studio. What else do you have to worry about.
From now on, when Brother Xia's personal studio name is announced, your hands will get cramped when you count the money. "
Qian Wen joked that Xia Junshan finally decided to open a personal studio after failing to find a suitable workplace.
There are no requirements for the office location of a personal studio. Now that Nan Jianlong's house has been vacant, Xia Junshan opened his personal studio somewhere after asking for permission.
But everything is difficult at the beginning, and now he is taking the first step.
"Don't be ridiculous, we are talking about Huanhuan." Tian Yulan patted Qian Wen's arm.
Qian Wen called the waiter, ordered a cup of coffee, and looked at Nan Li, "What's wrong with Huanhuan? What a lively and cheerful child, everyone likes him when he sees her."
Nan Li and Tian Yulan repeated the topic just now.
Qian Wen pondered for a moment, then Nan Li looked over and said, "Yan Peng, do you have any idea?"
"I don't know if I should say it. Maybe you and Brother Xia don't agree." Qian Wen said hesitantly.
"If you have anything to say, why are you hesitating?" Before Nan Li could speak, Tian Yulan became anxious.
She had watched Huanhuan grow up, and she also hoped to get better.
"I have some humble opinions. I don't know if they are right or not. Nan Li, just listen to them and don't take them seriously." Qian Wen said softly.
"You said, let's brainstorm, and I'm willing to try any method for Huanhuan's future." Nan Li said hurriedly.
"Actually, Huanhuan's unwillingness to study cannot be all blamed on the children, adults have more reasons.
You see, Ziyou was taught by Tian Yulan from a young age.
Although the education method is somewhat undesirable, Ziyou is used to this kind of learning. By reducing his pressure, giving him a certain amount of space, encouragement, and appropriate corrections, Ziyou is very worry-free.
As for Huanhuan, your family adopts a happy education method, which means that it is more important for children to be happy. If you force her to study, she will bounce back from you like a spring.
To put it bluntly, you and Xia Junshan are too spoiled and doting on your children.
Huanhuan is a little too willful. She can't stand it or understand that you suddenly put pressure on her to study. "
"But it's Huanhuan's decision to sign up for a tutoring class and get good grades." Nan Li said.
"Children are like a blank slate. They are still young and like to act on their preferences.
Huanhuan insisted on joining a number-optional tutoring institution. Was it because she had not become a class cadre, her grades had declined, and her classmates didn't like her anymore, so she cried and made a fuss about going. Qian Wen asked.
Nan Li nodded.
"That's because you pampered her too much before and didn't catch her studying, and she didn't find it difficult to study.
But after she really started to study and you started to take care of her, she found that it was different from what she thought, so she got emotional and resisted.
The more you push her and think it's good for her, the more she won't understand and thinks you've changed and has a rebellious mentality. "Qian Wen said.
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