It was related to Ziyou's health. With the form just now and the slight something wrong with Yan Ziyou, Tian Yulan finally realized something and was willing to talk to Qian Wen calmly about Ziyou.
Qian Wen understood Tian Yulan's gaffe and unreasonable attitude just now.
Yan Peng had never cared about Yan Ziyou's studies, and now he suddenly accused Tian Yulan of his teaching methods, saying that Tian Yulan was not good to Yan Ziyou, which Tian Yulan certainly could not agree with.
You, an old man who only knows how to play games when he has nothing to do all day, suddenly said that I don't know how to teach Ziyou and you want to educate me. It's really nonsense.
She would get excited if the most proud part of a person was suddenly erased by others.
You must know that Yan Ziyou is the last dignity of Tian Yulan, who has low self-esteem.
"Husband, why did Ziyou's math scores drop?" Tian Yulan leaned next to Qian Wen and said pitifully.
"I had a chat with Teacher Zhong Yi. Ziyou's foundation is not solid. Most of the knowledge and formulas are applied forcefully without understanding. Learn and apply them flexibly..." Qian Wen said softly.
"Impossible, Ziyou has such good grades and has a tutoring class, how can it be possible that his foundation is not solid!" Tian Yulan became excited when she heard Qian Wen's words, with an expression like you were talking nonsense.
"Look, you get excited when it comes to Ziyou." Qian Wen pointed at Tian Yulan and said helplessly.
Whether it is a negotiation or discussion, as long as one party does not cooperate, it will not proceed at all.
Tian Yulan now feels that Qian Wen is denying her hard work over the years.
"But what you said is wrong." Tian Yulan stood up and walked to the most conspicuous place in the living room, where is the cabinet dedicated to Yan Ziyou's trophies and certificates.
Tian Yulan reached out and picked up a trophy, touched it carefully, and then looked at Qian Wen, "Look, this is the first prize won by Ziyou in the competition, and this one, the second prize won by the third grader, and this... …”
Tian Yulan kept showing Qian Wen Ziyou's trophies, hoping to let him know that it was wrong to say that Ziyou's foundation was poor.
Qian Wen looked at Tian Yulan's proud face and did not interrupt the other party's story. He listened carefully to what she said. After waiting for a while, Qian Wen waved Tian Yulan to sit back.
Tian Yulan seemed to prove that Ziyou's foundation was very good, and sat back with her head held high.
"Are we looking for the reason why Ziyou's math score dropped this time?" Qian Wen asked, looking at Tian Yulan.
"Yeah, what else are you doing?" Tian Yulan said of course.
"Then can you wait until I finish speaking? You are rebutting, otherwise this discussion will last forever." Qian Wen spread his hands.
Tian Yulan pursed her lips, knowing that she was a little anxious, "Okay, you go ahead, I will never interrupt."
Qian Wen rubbed his eyebrows, and then said, "Do you think that Ziyou has won so many awards, which means that Ziyou has a solid foundation, otherwise how could he win the award?"
Tian Yulan wanted to answer after hearing this, but Qian Wen stared at her with wide eyes.
Tian Yulan had no choice but to take her words back obediently.
"Actually, this is all because you made Ziyou crazily answer questions. Ziyou was in elementary school, and there were only so many questions on his exam paper. They are all the same. As long as they don't deviate from the outline, Ziyou can do it.
Just apply the formula rigidly. It doesn’t matter whether you know the principle or why you do it, because the answer is correct.
But if you deviate from the outline a little bit, Ziyou will be a little confused because he has never done it.
Just like the last two extended questions in the math test at the beginning of the semester, they were somewhat out of the scope of Ziyou's questions, so he wouldn't do them.
I also read Ziyou's paper this time. You must know that there are dozens of students in Ziyou's class. The children who have been ranked in the top ten can more or less write some steps in the last two extended tests. They have their own some ideas.
But Ziyou was totally in trouble, he had no idea at all.
The reason for this was because he didn't have a formula to solve the problem, so Ziyou couldn't figure it out. "
Tian Yulan raised her hand when she heard this, and Qian Wen nodded to say so.
"Isn't that normal? Of course it won't happen if you haven't done it before!" Tian Yulan said matter-of-factly.
Qian Wen smiled and continued, "The most important thing in mathematics is basic knowledge and understanding of mathematics.
Needless to say, basic knowledge of mathematics. This understanding is to use your own words to explain the meaning of things and fully understand the meaning of the questions. Every time you solve a question, you must solve multiple problems, change multiple questions, and unify multiple problems.
When encountering unfamiliar questions, you can also use the knowledge you have learned before to give yourself some ideas, instead of knowing it if you have never done it before. If you cannot fit in the formulas memorized by rote, you will go beyond the outline.
You must know that mathematics is a course that requires mathematical thinking. There is not much mathematics knowledge to be learned now, and there are few formulas in each class. It can be memorized by rote, cope with it, and apply it by force.
You have also experienced junior high school, high school, and college. You must know how much you have to learn in the future. Is rigid learning the way out?
Of course, I didn't say that brushing up on questions is wrong. Brushing on questions is also a process of stabilizing and learning new things by reviewing the past.
But if Ziyou continues to study like this, his foundation will only get worse and worse, because his foundation does not allow him to keep up with the rhythm of the class, and his grades may get worse a little bit. "
"Probably not..." Tian Yulan hesitated a little at this time.
She has always been responsible for Ziyou's studies, and she knows best what is going on with Ziyou. Tian Yulan was thinking carefully about what Qian Wen said just now, and it seems that Ziyou does have this problem.
"Do you know the newly transferred student Mi Tao?" Qian Wen suddenly asked.
"Mi Tao?" Tian Yulan was confused for a moment, and then said, "Is she the new girl from Ziyou's class? At the parent-teacher meeting today, teacher Zhang Xueer said that Mi Tao scored 100 in the math test, and Mi Tao's mother He is still a part-time worker in our family.”
"Yes, she is Mi Tao, the new transfer student from Ziyou's class. She has been going to school in the countryside and has never attended any tutoring classes. How come she got 100% in the math test this time?
You must know that she and Ziyou took the same paper. "
Tian Yulan frowned and thought for a while, but she didn't understand. However, she saw Mi Tao's mother often, but she never signed up for a tutoring class for Mi Tao.
"Why?" Tian Yulan looked at Qian Wen and asked in confusion.
"Because Mi Tao has a solid foundation, has his own unique mathematical thinking, and adds a little talent, he can get twice the result with half the effort." Qian Wen explained.
"Are you saying that Mi Tao is smarter than our Ziyou?" Tian Yulan said in surprise.
Women sometimes don’t know where to focus.
“What I mean is that you should first master the lessons learned in class, lay a solid foundation, don’t apply rigidly, and also review the past to learn the new.
Guidance classes, cram schools, etc. are all supplements!
If you learn the things in class, at least you will be fine in school exams. Qian Wen said softly.
"Then what you mean is a cram school for Zi Youbao to cover the basics?" Tian Yulan's eyes lit up, and she felt that she had found a solution.
Qian Wen suddenly reached out his hand and patted Tian Yulan's forehead.
"Ah~ what are you doing!" Tian Yulan said coquettishly.
"I said, after I talked for a long time, you just concluded a cram school for Ziyou?" Qian Wen looked at Tian Yulan in disbelief.
"What about that?" Tian Yulan asked.
"What I'm saying is, don't let Ziyou put the cart before the horse. You must reduce his time for tutoring, let him get enough sleep, and let Ziyou listen carefully in class. Don't just point to the cram school to improve his grades.
Our son You is not stupid, he is diligent and obedient. When we are at the helm, why not give him a certain amount of space appropriately so that he can be happy and learn voluntarily? Qian Wen said and patted Tian Yulan on the forehead to stop her brain from being filled with water.
"But what if Ziyou gets too playful and loses control." Tian Yulan hesitated.
"Aren't we still watching? We just have to act softly and hard." Qian Wen looked like Tian Yulan had no idea.
Tian Yulan was somewhat convinced by Qian Wen, but she was still uneasy. After all, her education method was time-tested and Ziyou's grades had indeed improved.
As for what Qian Wen said, she was afraid that Ziyou's grades would plummet. After all, Ziyou would be promoted to junior high school in a year, and Ziyou had to take the Hanlin Middle School exam, so she couldn't afford to delay it.
Qian Wen saw that Tian Yulan was still hesitant and knew that Tian Yulan was not easy to convince, but he promised Ziyou that he would buy him a certain amount of time.
It seems that another method has to be used.
Now that the first rituals are done, the rear soldiers will follow.
Qian Wen's face turned into a tiger's face, and he looked at Tian Yulan seriously, "I think Ziyou is very tired now, and I want to exercise my rights as his father.
Ziyou needs to reduce stress and have her own child space!
Whether you agree or not, I won’t allow Ziyou to study all year round!”
If Yan Peng had such a tigerish face before, Tian Yulan would definitely not give him a good look, but Qian Wen made her change her mind in the past two days. She also listened to what he said just now, just because she was afraid of delaying Ziyou.
"You are the only one who feels sorry for Ziyou, don't I feel sorry for you?
Also, is your method reliable?
Don't delay Ziyou just because you feel sorry for your child. "Tian Yulan rolled her eyes at Qian Wen.
"Everything has an experimental process. Besides, with your high-pressure study, I'm not afraid that Ziyou will suffer from mental illness." Qian Wen said as he picked up the mental institution form on the table and patted it.
"You must know that if you learn like this now, even if Ziyou is okay, you can guarantee that Ziyou will be okay mentally in the future. You should know the term "too much is not enough".
This psychological chart shows that the number of students who go to them for treatment of mental illness increases by a percentage every year.
Don’t regret it when the time comes!”
Tian Yulan thought of the document she had just read, and then she thought of Ziyou's aggrieved face when she resisted going to cram school, and her heart trembled. She was really afraid that something would happen to Ziyou, and she couldn't live without Ziyou.
"Then who is the red face and who is the bad face?" Tian Yulan suddenly raised his head and asked.
This sentence was a bit abrupt, and Qian Wen, who was still thinking about what reason to use to persuade Tian Yulan, was confused.
"If Ziyou disobeys me in the future, whoever will be the loser will be the loser." Tian Yulan looked at Qian Wen with wide eyes.
Qian Wen laughed, does this make sense?
Some of it was expected, and some of it was unexpected, which made him lose a lot of words.
"Everyone in the family knows that you are a white-faced person..." Qian Wen didn't finish his sentence, watching Tian Yulan raise his eyebrows.
When Tian Yulan heard this, she was angry, but then she thought that it was like this. She sighed helplessly, stretched out her hand and patted Qian Wen, "Good people have done it for you!"
Qian Wenhan stood up with a smile and massaged Tian Yulan's shoulders, "Isn't this all for Ziyou.
And when will we make a new study plan for Ziyou?
Ziyou's basic skills are not good. Don't you believe it? Ziyou has to brush two papers every night. You will know if you give him some questions. Just test it.
Don't mention what you have done recently, test him. "
Regarding Yan Ziyou, Tian Yulan immediately took action and ran to the study room to start writing papers by hand.
"Yan Peng, it's almost time for Ziyoupu's tutoring class. Go pick it up." Tian Yulan, who set the question, said without raising his head.
"I know~" Qian Wen changed clothes and went out.
After picking up Ziyou, Ziyou was jumping up and down on the way back. It seemed that she still remembered Qian Wen's promise.
"Dad, will mom agree to let me have time to play?" Ziyou looked at Qian Wen nervously.
"That depends on your performance." Qian Wen said, holding Yan Ziyou's little hand.
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