Also, human energy is limited. If you spend more time and energy in this area, there will not be enough time and energy in other areas.
Good-looking vulgar women are just here for money. You can just throw money at her without having to talk to the other party. It is a fair transaction and saves time. Everyone is happy and rejoices with each other. It is simple and direct. How great.
But once you fall in love with a woman, money is not an issue, energy and time are.
The principle is very simple. If you want to be interested in a woman, you have to spend time and energy with her. You have to understand her emotions, and then have heart-to-heart conversations with her. Isn’t this all time and energy? ?
No wonder those great emperors in history were often heartless. In fact, they spent most of their time on national affairs, and the love between their children was almost in trouble.
On the contrary, those emperors who liked the love between their children often had poor results.
Of course, it cannot be said that there are no exceptions. There are also cases where family and career go hand in hand, but in that case, it is often because the other half is also a career-oriented wife.
On the contrary, if you really believe in those idol dramas and think that those big bosses or princes just talk about love with women all day long, then you are the one with the wrong brain.
Cao Zhiqiang knew this truth in his previous life, but in his previous life, he was limited by experience and had not experienced that kind of situation.
In other words, Cao Zhiqiang in his previous life didn't even have a serious girlfriend. He was a keyboard warrior online all day long. In theory, he was very good, but in reality, he was almost in trouble.
This can be seen from Cao Zhiqiang's series of performances.
He always shouts that he is not a good person, but in fact, most of the things he does are done by truly good people.
For example, his attitude and behavior towards Silly Zhu, although he always said that he was taking advantage of him, in fact, he was just helping him.
And for his biological sister whom he had not seen for more than ten years, Cao Zhiqiang said that this was to find a reliable helper for himself, but in fact, he still wanted to repay his kindness and help.
You know, the sister you haven't seen for more than ten years, even if you are a sibling, is actually far away from her. She is worse than a stranger. Her reliability may not be as good as Yang Ping'an's, and her available value for money is extremely low.
But Cao Zhiqiang went all the way to help his sister, and he took the initiative to help without being asked. Is there any other explanation for this besides being a bad guy?
It’s just that Cao Zhiqiang has never admitted it.
Of course, abducting the green and red one was an extra surprise, but in essence, it was also helping people.
You know, if Cao Zhiqiang was really the bad guy he said he was, he should have taken advantage of others' danger and directly slept with Qinghong.
After all, Qinghong had already hinted or even stated that she could give her body to him as Qinghong's repayment for him.
But as for Cao Zhiqiang, he just found a bunch of reasons why he couldn't do it. He is still keeping his integrity and can only secretly find the fifth girl to deal with his overflowing energy.
To put it bluntly, Cao Zhiqiang's underlying morality is still at work, or in other words, Cao Zhiqiang is still too young.
As the saying goes, the older you are, the lower your moral bottom line, and vice versa.
If you don’t believe me, go and take a look. Those young people who are still in school often have very high moral standards, even if they say they will punish anyone who doesn’t do it for themselves.
On the contrary, those in their thirties and forties all shout about fairness, justice and freedom, and denounce social injustice at every turn, but when it is their turn, one is more slanderous than the other, and each is more selfish than the other.
Before Cao Zhiqiang traveled through time, he was still a young man. Even if he was tainted with the social thoughts of refined egoism at that time, those dross only eroded the surface, but in his heart, his moral level was still acceptable, at least the bottom line was good. Know what is good and what is bad.
The specific manifestation is that what you say is often inconsistent with what you do, especially when it comes to doing bad things.
However, once Cao Zhiqiang's own safety is involved, his bottom line can instantly become very low.
For example, when he framed Wei Dajun, he did it as smoothly as silk and didn't feel there was any problem at all.
But on the premise of ensuring his own safety, he often has overflowing sympathy, even if he doesn't realize it yet.
However, as time goes by and experience increases, these moral bottom lines will gradually decrease.
When he completely lets go of the moral baggage in his heart, it will be time for him to truly mature.
Having said that, so far, Cao Zhiqiang has truly felt the disadvantages of having too many women, and has truly realized that the harem is no longer fun.
In his previous life, Cao Zhiqiang actually envied the harem and liked to read harem stories, but now he discovered that having a harem in reality is completely different from reading about it.
The most important reason is that the reality is not that, and you are not the author, so you cannot really control the thoughts of so many women.
If you don't have the skills of a sea king, but insist on having a harem, you might end up being beaten by Brother Cheng.
Even if you don't get killed, your reputation will be ruined.
Look, Cao Zhiqiang only has a few women, and he hasn't pushed down any of them. As a result, troubles come one after another. He spends a lot of his time dealing with these women.
If in the days to come, he spends all his time and thoughts on women, then what career will he have?
All ambitions, helping those in need, and self-cultivation, family governance, and world peace are all nonsense.
You spend all your time with women, how can you have time to cultivate yourself and improve your family? Let alone governing the country.
Of course, Cao Zhiqiang never wanted to govern the country and bring peace to the world. He just wanted to set a small goal first and become a billionaire in the 1980s.
He still has a long way to go to achieve this goal, at least he can't waste time and energy on women all day long.
But the problem is that when he sees a beautiful woman, he can't help it, and he always subconsciously wants to hook up with her.
After he finished flirting with the girl and made her seductively fall in love with him, he realized later that something was wrong.
But at this time, he wanted to abandon her ruthlessly, and he couldn't bear to give up, which made him very distressed.
Since ancient times, passion has always left room for hatred, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up from.
In the end, he could only sigh, his nature was like this, there was nothing he could do.
The genes of the Cao family are so terrifying!
Therefore, Cao Zhiqiang is now completely at peace and no longer pretends.
He now feels that there is still a need for a woman who cares, after all, she still has spiritual needs.
But as for a woman who is distracted, you don’t need many to be valuable. These few are enough now, not more, otherwise you will be weak.
As for the issue of passionate nature, or the issue of physical desire, we can figure it out later.
For example, you can find those beautiful women who are materialistic and money-oriented.
The kind of woman who puts money first is much easier to control. As long as she takes out the money and gets what she needs, she can only use her kidneys and not her heart.
But in this era, if you want to find the kind of woman who is money-oriented and also very rational, it's not that easy, at least not in China.
It's easy to find in Hong Kong and Taiwan, but it's not that far yet.
Therefore, before you find that kind of woman, you should cultivate your mind and nature first, so as not to provoke another woman who insists on being interested in you, which will be really unbearable.
Perhaps it was because of this realization that Cao Zhiqiang chose to stay here in Qinghong.
I chose Qinghong here mainly because Qinghong is the most worry-free and obedient.
Compared with several other careless women, including my two younger sisters, none of them are worry-free.
Jin Xiuying didn't mention it anymore. She just hadn't seen or contacted her for more than a week, so she quietly blocked the door.
As for Cao Lili and Qiao Simei, although they were children, Cao Zhiqiang had no idea about them, but as soon as they returned, these two, especially Qiao Simei, were chattering, which gave him a headache.
Qinghong is different. Not only is Qinghong good-looking, she is also introverted and shy. Even if she has thoughts in her heart, she won't tell you easily.
In other words, Qinghong is quieter, more gentle, doesn't make noises, doesn't look for trouble, and is very good at taking care of others.
The only disadvantage is that you need to take the initiative to care about her and explore her to prevent her from thinking too much and falling into depression.
But this is more interesting.
Living here in Qinghong makes Cao Zhiqiang feel more relaxed. He doesn't have to explain everything like he did in Jin Xiuying's place.
As docile as a cat, quiet and gentle, this is why Cao Zhiqiang likes to live here in Qinghong.
After having dinner and chatting with Qinghong, and especially telling her that someone would come to install the phone tomorrow and let her keep an eye on it, Cao Zhiqiang went back to his room and started coding.
What word did you code?
It is not that he continues to plagiarize poetry or poetry, but that he is truly original.
That's right, Cao Zhiqiang is preparing a letter of opinion, a letter of opinion written to the big leaders!
Cao Zhiqiang has never studied economics, but he is a time traveler and he clearly understands the changes in the next forty years.
To put it bluntly, it is not an exaggeration to say that Cao Zhiqiang is a prophet.
The identity of the great leader is unusual. He is a person who can directly reach Tianting.
Therefore, it would be good if you could selectively write down what you saw and heard in your previous life in a predictive way.
Even if the big leader doesn't care at first, as long as what happens later confirms the content of his opinion letter, it's time for him to truly rise.
What's more, according to the situation in the TV series, the big leader's vision is extraordinary, and people may not really care about the content he writes now.
As long as he sees it, believes it, and agrees, are the good days still far away?
Of course, the space is limited, and it is impossible for Cao Zhiqiang to write everything, and he does not have the ability.
He just wrote some topics about reform and opening up first.
For example, the importance of urbanization and industrialization, the important role of the private economy in employment issues, the inevitability of the market economy, the necessity of an export-oriented economy to the national economy, and even the relationship between China, the United States and the Soviet Union for hegemony, etc. They all wrote something predictive.
Moreover, Cao Zhiqiang also deliberately wrote a bit messy, making it look like an essay that came up one after another, and the viewer needs to extract and summarize it by himself.
The purpose of Cao Zhiqiang's doing this is to make the other party believe that these are just what he usually thinks about, and there are no suggestions from experts, and they are also consistent with his age, experience and profile.
After all, Cao Zhiqiang is just a high school dropout. No matter how secretly he is self-taught, he will never be able to write a masterpiece with clear theories at once, especially something that involves the future direction of the country.
Specious and vague, that's best.
Mix some really useful personal information into the messy essays, let the other party extract the useful things by themselves, and simply think that Cao Zhiqiang is a promising young man with great ideas and foresight, not a freak. This is the best way to have both worlds. .
Alas, it is so difficult to be a prophetic time traveler.
We want the country to avoid detours, we want people not to suspect that we have problems, and we want to allow ourselves to take advantage of the opportunity.
We both want and want, so what can we do? We can only hide our clumsiness on purpose.
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